Male | 31
How can I maintain my erection during sex with my girlfriend?
Hi I’m male 31 years old while having sex with my girlfriend I am unable to maintain erection for long time it’s like on and off and I’m very much attracted to her while having sex

Sexologist
Answered on 9th Aug '24
main causes of erectile dysfunction during intercourse are the physical, psychological or lifestyle factors. It is recommended to seek the advice of a specialist in sexual health including urologists or sex therapists, so you can talk about your concerns and find out the real problem. They can offer you the right treatment plan and improve your sexual performance.
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Questions & Answers on "Sexology Treatment" (849)
Me and my girlfriend had sex without condom i didn’t ejaculate and we did it for only 5-6 seconds
Female | 18
Even a few seconds of unprotected sex carries risks. Watch out for unusual discharge, burning urination, or genital itching. These indicate possible infection. Speak with a sexologist for advice. Consider getting tested for potential infections.
Answered on 23rd July '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
About having some doudts on sex
Male | 22
Consult with a qualified healthcare provider whenever you have questions about your sexual health. These specialists can be the right person to tackle all your sexual health queries or concerns.
Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
premature ejaculation after quit 13 year masturbation's
Male | 31
premature EJACULATION after QUITTING MASTURBATION is COMMON.. It's temporary, and it may take time to adjust. Physical exercise can help, Kegel exercises are beneficial.. COMMUNICATE with your PARTNER, and don't rush sex.. CONSULT a MEDICAL expert if symptoms persist..
Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
I have the herpes igg but not the igm. Does it mean I am still heroes poditive and can it be passed if I have unprotected sex.
Female | 20
You have herpes IgG, but not IgM. This indicates an old herpes infection, not a current outbreak. Even without symptoms, herpes spreads through unprotected sex. Use protection to prevent transmission. If blisters or sores develop, consult a sexologist immediately.
Answered on 29th July '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Hello, I'm on the 28 day contraceptive pills. I have been taking my pills everyday on time, however yesterday was my 16th day but I took the 21st day pill instead. I am just now realizing so I took the 16th pill that was meant for yesterday along with my 17th day pill for today. I had sexual intercourse yesterday so will the pills still protect me from getting pregnant?
Female | 23
Answered on 20th June '24

Dr. Maratha M
I have a spot on my penis that hurts and a constant erection I cannot get to stop.
Male | 21
The pain from the spot on the penis can mean an early sign of penile scabs due to an infection, or inflammation, therefore, one should immediately consult an urologist or sexologist. Like sexually transmitted diseases, such things can cause further injury or inflammation that would eventually lead to severe pain and a permanent hard-on of your penis.
Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
some time i feel like havin sexy
Male | 43
Experiencing variances in desires is completely normal and may be influenced by various factors such as stress, hormones, or emotional well-being. It is important to know that the feelings are different from one person to another. Healthy coping mechanisms like regular exercise, relaxation techniques, or engaging in hobbies can help maintain a balanced mood. If the emotions cause distress or interfere with your daily life, seeking consultation from a sexologist could give you a better understanding.
Answered on 16th Dec '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
I am 18 years old Virgin girl I am facing continues clitoral erections from 3 4 days without other any symptoms what should I do now ??? Without going to any doctor
Female | 18
Experiencing persistent clitoral sensitivity can be caused by various factors, including hormonal changes, increased blood flow, or heightened arousal. It’s often not concerning if there are no other symptoms such as pain or discomfort. To help manage this, consider engaging in relaxation techniques like deep breathing or gentle exercise. Wearing loose clothing might also provide comfort. However, if it persists or causes distress, it’s important to speak with a sexologist for personalized advice.
Answered on 24th Jan '25

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Agr kisy larki nay past ma masturbate ki ho or masturbate left kiya howy 2 years 4 months ho gye ho toh kya after marriage is koi tension toh nai ho gi sex mein or partner ko pta toh nai chaly ga .agr masturbate say is ka vaginal lips break ho gye is say??
Female | 23
Aapko chinta karne ki zaroorat nahi hai. Aksar, masturbating se kisi bhi tarah ki long-term physical issues nahi hote. Aapka partner aapki past activities se aware nahi hoga jab tak aap unhe nahi batate. Agar vaginal area mein koi discomfort ya changes mehsoos kar rahi hain, toh yeh kisi aur wajah se ho sakta hai. Regular health check-ups aur ek sexologist se baat karna behtar hoga, jisse aapki concerns ko address kiya ja sake. Marriage ke baad, communication aur comfort zaroori hai, toh apne partner se khul ke baat karna mat bhooliye.
Answered on 15th Jan '25

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Sex time ko badhana chahta hu kam se kam 30 minuts
Male | 26
I recommend individuals to seek medical help from either a urologist or a sexologist for any concerning erection problems or premature ejaculations. They will guide you in gaining the necessary advice and treatment you need to overcome the prolonged sex stamina and enhance your overall sexual health.
Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Madam Mera size kafi lamba hai Is vajah se mere patni mere sath sharirik sambandh nahin banana deti Hai Bahut doctor se Salah liya koi nahibataya
Male | 33
I understand your concern. If the size is causing discomfort for your wife, it is important for both of you to discuss this openly and consult a urologist for further advice. They can provide guidance and possible solutions. It is always best to visit a specialist to address such issues properly.
Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Am a 21 years male with erectile dysfunction problem for 5 years
Male | 21
Experiencing difficulties with sexual performance can be frustrating and may stem from various factors such as stress, anxiety, hormonal imbalances, or underlying health conditions. It's completely normal to seek support for this issue. Solutions often include lifestyle changes like exercise, a balanced diet, and stress management. Counseling can also be beneficial. Importantly, I encourage you to consult a sexologist who can help identify the specific causes and recommend appropriate treatments tailored to your needs.
Answered on 14th Feb '25

Dr. Madhu Sudan
hello! so after my bf cummed, he has sperm on his left hand the most but on the other hand there are only a few or just a teeny tiny amount of sperm in it. he wiped both hands with a cloth and he rinsed both of his hands with milktea ( to ensure there are no other sperm alive and also bc that is the only liquid with us at the moment ) and used the same cloth to dry his hands and proceeds to finger me with the right hand ( which only has a tiny amount of sperm ) are there chances of pregnancy? i’m so scared bc i have been bloated since that day and was nauseous just yesterday. but the bloating part was on and off and it only occurs time to time
Female | 20
It’s highly improbable you could be pregnant now. There were very few sperms on the hand, moreover, they most likely died after being rinsed off with milk tea. The abdominal distention and vomiting might have nothing to do with pregnancy. The thing is that different things such as eating habits, stress, or hormonal background can cause bloating and nausea. If these symptoms do not go away, I suggest visiting a gynecologist who will help you figure out what’s going on and how to deal with it.
Answered on 4th June '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
I'm 17 years old I'm a female patient I'm addicted to masturbation I really want to stop it
Female | 17
Growing a desire to engage in sexual activity becomes one of the most characteristic features of the time of puberty. But if you want to cut back a bit, you may try looking for some hobbies or activities.
Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Erection problem during intercourse
Male | 34
Experiencing difficulty during intimacy can be distressing but is quite common. Various factors, including stress, anxiety, relationship issues, or underlying health conditions, can contribute to this situation. Maintaining a healthy lifestyle, managing stress, and fostering open communication with your partner can often help. However, if this becomes a regular concern, it’s important to consult a sexologist. They can provide guidance tailored to your needs, and address any potential medical issues.
Answered on 14th Feb '25

Dr. Madhu Sudan
I need a way to enlarge my penis
Male | 24
The genetic factor is the leading cause of this, and maybe a hormone imbalance can also be the problem. The products and services that promise penis enlargement are not scientifically proven but they may still cause you many problems; almost always there are several health risks as well. The methods that are risk-free like the aforementioned counseling or therapy could serve as a solution. How to find Often, support and advice from qualified healthcare professionals may be the best time for you to come up with the best treatment plan for your case.
Answered on 17th Dec '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Mam my dick was whe up se can cum automatically and come down
Male | 19
You may have priapism. This is when an erection lasts a long time without sexual arousal and won’t go away. It might be caused by problems with blood flow, some drugs, or other illnesses. You need to see a doctor immediately as priapism can be dangerous if not treated quickly. You may have to take medicines or have a procedure done on it. But don’t wait too long before seeking medical help for this problem.
Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
Am a negative male whom has used pep for a previous condom breaking this year, and all results negative so far. Recently oral sex was given to me by a lady whom later said she was HIV positive,though ejaculation was not in her mouth..after this info I immediately went for another pep drugs usage within 24hrs and have started using it some days now Please what are my chances of becoming infected via this oral sex from a confirmed infected woman leasing me to start pep immediately again? NB: I came out negative within 24hrs bfr I started this pep usage & it's my 2nd usage this year?
Male | 43
I'm glad you've been practicing safe sex by using PEP. The risk of HIV infection through oral sex is mostly low, and when no ejaculation is present in the mouth, the risk becomes too small. However, following the doctor's instructions to continue PEP is still very crucial. Look for some symptoms such as flu-like illness, fever, or body aches, and be alert. Almost like a way to go, keep on track, and be positive with the PEP (treatment) regime.
Answered on 2nd Dec '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
After masturbate and after sexual thoughts discharge same ya different ?? Which harmless? Kis ka koi nuqsan na ho body ko?
Female | 29
Masturbation and sexual thoughts can lead to ejaculation, which is a normal physiological response. The fluid expelled during these activities is typically the same, consisting of sperm and seminal fluid. Both processes are harmless and do not harm your body. It's natural to experience these feelings, and they usually have no negative effects on health. However, if you have concerns about frequency or its impact on your daily life, consulting a sexologist can provide personalized reassurance and guidance. Remember, open conversations about sexual health are important for overall well-being.
Answered on 29th Jan '25

Dr. Madhu Sudan
I am 22 years old, I have severe weakness during sex, my whole body hurts and I vomit I don't vomit all the time, I vomit when I want to have sex
نارینه | 22
You may have a condition known as sexual asthenia. This can lead to weakness, body aches, and vomiting before or during sex. It may be caused by physical or mental issues such as stress. Make sure to rest, eat well, and talk to someone you trust about how you are feeling. If they do not go away after taking these steps then seek help from a medical professional who will give further advice on what needs to be done.
Answered on 11th June '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
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