Male | 21
Trouble with Erections: Anxiety, Porn Habits
I am 21 years old. I used to watch porn and masterbate now I am feeling erection problem what I can do.Now I have too much anxiety about this and I can't able to say to my parents also.
Sexologist
Answered on 30th Nov '24
You reached out about an erection issue. Feeling nervous is okay, as this problem is common. Lots of porn and masturbating may sometimes cause temporary troubles getting hard. Try taking a break from those activities. Focus instead on healthy habits, like exercising and eating nutritious foods. If the issue persists, talk to a doctor who can help find the right solution.
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Questions & Answers on "Sexology Treatment" (654)
Whan I hastmethun that time some pain in panis but I hastmethun after 3 to 4 day
Male | 35
It seems there is some pain in the penis after the self-indulgent pleasure. This may happen due to friction or annoyance arising from the exercise. To help decrease the pain, you can first apply a warm compress and then take a break from masturbating for a few days to let your body heal. If the pain doesn't go away or worsens, it's a good idea to talk to a sexologist for more help.
Answered on 31st July '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
My boyfriend FTM has been taking hormone blockers (injections). I believe his sex drive / libido and intimacy levels have drastically changed , are there any ways of helping these side effects ? Or is there no hope for a sexual relationship
Other | 24
Hormonal blockers influence sexual gratification often. The hormonal levels are not the only ones affected by this medication, so your boyfriend can suffer from a decrease in libido. Consequently, communicating about the problem might be hard to do. To help, communication is key. Discussing emotions and looking for new ways to connect are the things that could help. Moreover, the health practitioner who specializes in hormone therapy can provide guidance and support and offer possible solutions.
Answered on 4th Sept '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
About my sex life i have ed problem
Male | 30
Sexual performance issues are a common concern in relationships. Erection problems occur when a man has difficulty getting or keeping a firm enough erection for sexual intercourse. This can be caused by factors like stress, health conditions, or lifestyle habits. Treatment options include medications, therapy, and lifestyle changes. It's important not to hesitate in seeking help from a sexologist, as they can provide personalized advice to meet your needs.
Answered on 8th Dec '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Fluid ejaculate regularly in both day and night in 14 yrs old boy
Male | 14
Boys your age often experience fluid release, known as ejaculation. It's natural as you mature. This fluid may emerge during the day or at night when excited thoughts arise. Though frequent, there's no need for concern. It signifies your body's development stage. Maintain healthy habits – nourishing meals and physical activity.
Answered on 26th June '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
i feel even after my penis has grown due to puberty, it is still quite small
Male | 14
It's typical for male growth to range in size. Factors like genes, hormones, and wellness can influence the length. Alternatively, if someone is feeling stressed or sad, they should talk with a friend about it.
Answered on 26th Nov '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Is there any medication to treat erectile dysfunction as I'm not getting to hard?
Male | 47
An erection problem is the inability of a man to get and keep an erection during sexual activity. Such cases occur as a result of stress, health conditions, or some prescriptions. Medicines such as Viagra or Cialis can be used to resolve this issue. Before choosing any of them, it is necessary to receive a healthcare provider's opinion, conducting a medical examination. They can discover the appropriate remedy according to your condition.
Answered on 8th July '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
I had sex last night it was double condom, what are the chances of me getting HIV, and should I start PEP drug?
Male | 31
First of all, never use two condoms at once because they will rub against each other and could break, which would increase the chances of HIV, not decrease them like some believe. Also, did you know that there is still a possibility of getting HIV even if only one condom is used? Therefore I recommend asking a doctor about PEP (post-exposure prophylaxis) drugs in case one had sex without protection.
Answered on 11th June '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
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Male | 25
Answered on 19th June '24
Dr. Maratha M
sir my problem is ,i am 26 years old but due to my bad habits my penis size is very small and thin ,time of sex is very less now how can i make my penis size bigger, thicker and increase time
Male | 26
It's common to feel concerned about the size of your penis, nevertheless be assured that size does not define your capacity for enjoyment of sex. Sometimes the issue of size may be due to stress or expectations that are not very realistic. Maintain a healthy lifestyle by eating well, working out, and dealing with stress. You can also train your pelvic floor muscles to be able to hold longer. You have to be aware that ultimate satisfaction is achieved through the connection and communication with your partner, not just through physical size.
Answered on 4th Dec '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
masturbation sex and all how to masturbate
Male | 21
Masturbation is an ordinary sexual activity that many people do. It is good for finding relaxation, discovering the body, joy, or pleasure. As regards to this practice, there are no typical signs and if you experience discomfort, anxiety, or guilt, it may be beneficial to contemplate your feelings. In order to be comfortable doing it you may want to consider paying more attention to the atmosphere and use lube to slip in and out easier. A respectful relationship that is based on the consent of both people and what they are comfortable with is a good practice to employ. In case you are worried about your sexual health or emotional well-being, please contact a healthcare provider who will give you the advice that is tailored to your situation. Keep in mind that sex and health are very important topics to be discussed openly for the wellness of the body.
Answered on 17th Dec '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
I am a male 26 years old , I mastrubate since last 6 years but last 2 years I heavely mastrubate and I want to get relief from this please advice some medicine
Male | 26
While it may be natural, masturbating excessively can be risky due to physical issues, for example, tiredness, guilt, or lack of concentration. Decrease stress and tension through exercises or relaxation techniques. Regular sleep and a balanced low-sugar diet can also help us to prevent obesity.
Answered on 2nd Dec '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Can mastrabtion on bed cause any kind of stis
Male | 29
Masturbation can't give you a sexually transmitted infection (STI). Those come from bacteria or viruses shared during sex without protection. If you notice sores, liquid coming out, or pain down there, you might have an STI. See a doctor then, to get checked and treated.
Answered on 28th Aug '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
masturbation addiction, 12 years, my body muscles have decreased, bones have become thinner, severe weakness in the body.
Male | 24
Don’t worry too much about it though because many people do masturbate; however, if one does so excessively this could be the cause behind what you’re going through. You might start feeling weaker than usual or notice some changes like less energy in general - all signs pointing towards too much self-pleasure being unhealthy behavior. So, try mending your ways by eating proper meals and working out often since these two acts will help accelerate recovery from this condition should they have already set in.
Answered on 12th Nov '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
I'm 23 years old , yesterday 01/04/2024 me and my girlfriend were together. I felt horny and I rubbed my pennis in her vagina but not pulled it in , I didn't cum but the liquid may be pre cum it's called was there when I saw my pennis, I don't know the liquid fell in there or not so I'm worried now , my partner can get pregnant or not , we are not married and also we never had sex just yesterday we did that just rub.
Female | 23
The fluid you talked about, called pre-cum, can sometimes have tiny sperm that might make a baby. Even without full entry, there is a small chance. Look out for missed monthly times or odd bleeding. To feel better, going to a clinic for emergency contrceptive pills may be a good idea.
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
after quitting masturbation If it has been more than a year since you quit masturbating So the body starts repairing and the hormones get corrected. And there is no need to take any medicine and there is no effect in marriage.??? If masturbation is done only on the upper lips of vagina not vagina in past.2) And after leaving it, there are lazmi night falls twice a month, is this also dangerous or not?
Female | 22
When you stop, your body can heal itself, and the hormones can come back to balance on their own. Masturbating on the upper lips of the vagina is okay. Night falls twice a month are normal and not dangerous. It's your body's way of getting rid of excess fluid.
Answered on 27th Aug '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Saxsual problem sir Jhggfififuffjucufyf7fufjfjfjfufufjvjvjvkfufugkggigugigkgkgjfufugihk
Male | 24
Please explain the issue or visit a urologist or sexual health specialist for proper diagnosis of your problem and treatment
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
I masturbated 5 times a year in paste Before that my face was quite healthy but after this my face has become smart. And my weight has also increased a bit Why did this happen and why did I masturbate on the upper lips of the vagina??sex point is vagina but i finger only upper lips .I want to make my face healthy again .And does masturbation cause hormonal imbalance? If it is avoided then the hormones become normal without medicine.
Female | 23
Exploring your body is normal, but excessive masturbation can impact your appearance and weight. The labia minora contain sensitive skin, and touching them too much can cause skin problems. Hormone imbalance isn't directly caused by masturbation, but doing it excessively can affect your mood and energy levels. To improve your facial appearance, consider reducing the frequency of masturbation and focusing on good nutrition and skincare. Maintaining a healthy lifestyle with regular exercise and adequate sleep can help your hormones stay balanced naturally.
Answered on 18th Sept '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
Dear Doctor, I hope this message finds you well. I am reaching out to discuss some concerns that have been affecting my mental and sexual health, specifically related to my use of pornography and its broader impact on my life. I am a male, 26/27 years old. No health issues. I've noticed that my consumption of pornography and engagement in cybersex have escalated to a point where they negatively affect my life and relationships. My need for increasingly explicit material to achieve sexual arousal has grown over the years (a phenomenon called "Desensitization" i believe), and it's become apparent that this pattern is not sustainable. I've observed that this habit has not only affected my ability to enjoy real-life sexual encounters but has also contributed to the deterioration of my previous relationship. At times, I had found myself needing to think of pornography to maintain an erection during sexual intercourse. In an attempt to address this, I've tried to quit watching porn, only to experience a significant drop in my libido and desire for sexual activity. This "flat line" phase, as it's often referred to in various forums, has left me feeling worried and uncertain about the path forward. Of course, i started watching again, just to make sure that everything is normal. The first couple of times, the erections were weaker than usual. I understand that the body of scientific research in this area is still evolving, and there seems to be a lack of definitive guidance on dealing with these challenges. Given these complexities, I'm seeking your professional advice on several fronts: 1- Is the "flat line" phase a recognized scientific phenomenon, and what does current research say about it? 2- Considering my concerns about the long-term effects of abstaining from pornography and reduced masturbation, what guidance can you provide? I'm particularly worried about maintaining sexual function, including erectile strength and ejaculation control. 3-Could you suggest any scientific, medical research articles or resources that could offer more insight into these issues? Your expertise and any evidence-based recommendations would be immensely valuable to me as I consider my next steps. Many thanks for your time and consideration. Kind regards,
Male | 26
It is crucial to realize that gaining an excessive amount of pornography and cyberspace ultimately results in being desensitized, and it has a negative impact on sexual encounters with real living partners and relationships.
The "flat line" effect, that you brought up, is also a commonly displayed problem where former porn addicts may experience a drop in their sex drive and arousal. But for now, the findings are not substantial, more studies are required to distinguish porn effect on sexual function from its own.
With regard to facilitation, many people have found it immensely helpful to consult a professional mental health care provider, such as a therapist or a counselor, and avail their expert help in dealing with this problem and addressing any underlying psychological factors. A sex therapist may possess skills in counseling individuals with sexual dysfunction or enhancing sexual functions.
Your well-being is of top concern and seeking the help of a mental and sexual health specialist can provide you with the needed information when making a decision about your next step. In this connection, I suggest you talk to a psychologist or sex therapist, whose main professional concern is the issues you are experiencing, for more help and support.
Best regards,
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
I am 22 year old. I have sex( physical relationship) with my partner. I have done 2 rounds but I relief my spump out side. Can she get pregnant?
Male | 22
Yes, it is possible for her to become pregnant even if you didn’t ejaculate inside her completely. There are still sperm in pre-cum that can result in pregnancy. If she has symptoms such as a missed period, feeling sick or throwing up a lot, or her breasts being sore and tender – then it is possible that she may be pregnant. To avoid this, use protection every time you have sex.
Answered on 29th May '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
I am 21 years old. I have been having painful erections to a point where masturbation is required. I have some other related problems as well. Please help me. I'm too embarrassed to ask anyone else.
Male | 21
You may have a condition called priapism where your erection is painful and lasts a long time without sexual arousa. Priapism can result from some drugs, drug abuse, or disease conditions like sickle cell disease. It is necessary to see a doctor immediately to avoid complications. A urologist can provide the treatment to ease your symptoms and solve any underlying problems.
Answered on 11th Sept '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
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