Male | 42
Why is my wife's lack of desire causing depression?
I am 42 . Male . My wife doesnt have sex desire. She is 36. My 4 years old daughter sleeps with us in bedroom . My wife sleeps before my daughter. She is working woman . It affects my sexual life. My sexual desire not fulfilled. It leads to watching porn and mastrubation . Affects my sleep . Next day is totally disaster. I don't understand what to do . She never initiates the sex. She and My daughter sleep together hugging each other whole night . I feel so alone and ignored all night. I am going in depression please help.
Sexologist
Answered on 18th Nov '24
You likely suffer from some mental health issues, such as depression, insomnia, and porn addiction for sexual satisfaction. Long-term lack of closeness can have a devastating effect. Try to negotiate with your wife about your feelings and discuss therapy or ways to improve your social skills and feel understood.
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Questions & Answers on "Sexology Treatment" (560)
I had sex with my boyfriend with a condom on. And somewhere in the middle of sex the condom got slipped inside my vagina. He didn’t ejaculate inside me but I’m worried about the precum and I removed the condom after one day what should I do not to get pregnant
Female | 19
I get that you are worried about the slipped condom issue. It's good he did not release inside you. The fluid before release can have a few seed cells, but the chances of making a baby from that are low. If you are worried, you can take emergency baby prevention within three days of the incident. It's always good to double-check and be safe.
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Himali Patel
I am 19 years old I have completely ruined my life due to excess masturbation as no one told about its side effects now I am suffering
Male | 19
Masturbation is not a big deal but overdoing it may cause problems like tiredness, backache, and trouble with concentration. The solution is to reduce the frequency of masturbation. Taking part in different activities, such as exercise or hobbies, can also help distract your mind from it.
Answered on 13th Oct '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
I feel something is discharging from my penis after I pee, when penis is without underwear it rubbed with pant or sex thought comes to mind. I think it oversensitive or else
Male | 19
If you have urethral discharge, this occurs when fluid comes out of your penis after you urinate or at certain times. It can also be caused by an infection such as gonorrhea or chlamydia and requires medical attention. To feel better consult a urologist they will need to give you the right treatment.
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Neeta Verma
Recently, I've been experiencing a drop in my sexual desire. Finestride is what I used to grow my hair out. Does it have an impact on one's sexual orientation? how long will it take for the effects of finestride to fade away?
Male | 35
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Arun Kumar
How to treat premature ejaculation
Male | 20
Premature ejaculation happens when a man orgasms faster than desired during intercourse. It means ejaculating within one minute after starting sex. Many factors can lead to this. Feeling anxious or stressed contributes. Medical conditions too. However, there are ways to manage it. Relaxation techniques and condoms reducing sensitivity help. Seeking therapy is another option.
Answered on 28th Aug '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
I had oral sex with an hepatitis b weakly positive girl last night but within 17 hours i have taken vaccine but i have not taken immunoglobulin with it. So will vaccine work alone in preventing the transmission of the virus ?
Male | 24
Answered on 19th Nov '24
Dr. Arun Kumar
Hello, I'm 17 years old.I lost feeling in my bladder and clitoris.I don't know when the bladder is full.I don't feel any excitement and sex drive anymore.The clitoris is no longer sensitive to stimuli, to touch.A year ago I had a feeling. I had ultrasound and blood tests performed by a gynecologist and a urologist, the results of the tests show no abnormalities. At this age I shouldn't have any problems with it. It worries me that I won't get any pleasure from having sex. What could be the cause? Is there any chance and way to get back feeling in clitoris and bladder? Please help.
Female | 17
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Arun Kumar
I am 21 years old and this is embarrassing but I’m having an issue with my balls. They’ve always been tight for some reason and haven’t ever been relaxed or hang but every time I jerk off or have sex my balls go up and under my skin and it’s uncomfortable. I can’t really push them back down because the sack is so tight. It’s even more uncomfortable when I’m having sex though because they aren’t hanging so they are getting hit every time which hurts. It also hurts when they are like that and I cum. Is there any way I can make them relaxed and hang lower? Thanks
Male | 21
Maybe you have testicular retraction. This is when the muscles in your scrotum pull your testicles up towards your body instead of letting them hang down like they should. This can be uncomfortable and even painful during sex or ejaculation. To help make your testicles hang lower and feel more comfortable, try taking warm baths or using supportive underwear. If the problem does not go away, it is best to see a doctor for help.
Answered on 11th June '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
I am a 21 year old man from south Africa. I took Accutane for 27 days and expirienced erectile disfunction and muscle weakness. I then stopped. Muscle weakness has improved but Erectile disfunction is getting worse almost every day. I have zero libido and energy no morning erection. At first I would have sex for one round second I loose erection very quick before ejaculation. The past two months has been worse I can't even have an erection for once.
Male | 22
Answered on 6th July '24
Dr. Arun Kumar
I feel something is flowing from my penis when I pee or when penis is without underwear it touches with my pant, sex thought comes to my mind
Male | 19
You are suffering from urethral discharge (urogenital discharge). This situation occurs when urine or other times semen leaks out of the penis. It may occur as a result of infections such as gonorrhea or chlamydia. When this happens, kindly see a urologist immediately for diagnosis and treatment. They will critically examine you and give you the necessary drugs to take.
Answered on 16th Aug '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
I have premature ejaculation problem I am not married and never had involved in any sexual activity, I am facing Premature ejaculation when I used to do masturbation , now I have stopped it and start doing pelvic floor exercises and gentlely massaging my penis, when I used to do massage I feel aroused in my frenulum area, i ahd become very sensitive and whenever I just rubb it i got ejaculation. It's been and month that I am doing this by seen no results, I think that my frenulum is tight but it is not giving me any pain. Plzz help me to cure
Male | 18
Many people have many worries and it is completely normal to be worried about a health issue. Premature ejaculation can have a variety of causes such as anxiety, stress, or very high stimulation. Constriction of the frenulum is also involved in this. It is a good thing to be doing pelvic floor exercises. You could keep going with it and you might want to consider seeking a sexologist for more guidance.
Answered on 10th Nov '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
I am 56 years. Facing disappearing of aggressiveness in sex exists few years back. Premature Ejaculation faced at the time of full sex in past. Now even the penis take more time to become rigid. At first mornings sometime penis got rigid. Want support to increase sex from you.
Male | 48
At your age of 56yrs, there is depletion in testosterone levels and even there can be other factors which can be involved.... Detailed discussion of the problem is needed.. your problem of erectile dysfunction and pre-mature ejaculation are most commonly occurring in all ages of men, fortunately these both have high recovery rates through ayurvedic medications.
I am explaining briefly about erectile dysfunction and pre-mature ejaculation so that it takes fear out of you.
In erectile dysfunction, men are not able to get or keep an erection that is sufficient to have penetrative sex. In premature ejaculation men come out Very fast, men gets discharged either before penetration or immediately after penetration, they hardly get some strokes, so the female partner remains unsatisfied.
This may be due to so many factors like High cholesterol, High blood pressure,
Diabetes, excessive masturbation, excessive porn watching, nerves weakness,
Obesity, thyroid, heart problem, alcohol, Tobacco use, Sleep disorders, Low testosterone, tension, stress etc.
These problems of erectile dysfunction and pre-mature ejaculation are very much treatable.
I am suggesting you some ayurvedic medicines.
Take Aswagandhadi churan half teaspoon in the morning & in the night.
Take Capsule SHILAJIT one in the morning and one in the night,
Take tablet manmath Ras one in the morning and one in the night.
Take tablet Pushp dhanva Ras one in the morning and one in the night. And take tablet Sidh makardhwaj Vati with gold, one in the morning and one in the night after food.
All the above preferably with hot milk or with water
Also apply and message Shri Gopal tail on your penis three times a week for 2 to 4 minutes.
Avoid junk food, oily and spicier food, alcohol, tobacco, tension and anxiety.
Start doing brisk walk or running or cardio exercises for at least 30 min a day. Start doing yoga, pranayama, meditation, Vajroli mudra. Ashwini mudra, kegel exercise for at least 30 min a day.
Start taking hot milk twice a day.
2-3 dates in the morning and in the night with milk.
Do all the above suggested treatment for 3 months and see the results.
If you don't get satisfactory results then please go to your family doctor or a good sexologist.
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Arun Kumar
I forgot to pinch the tip of the condom while wearing it and there’s bubble on the tip of the condom but wore it properly and there is no breakage, spillage or leak. While the sperm came in the condom we immediately stopped sex and the sperm is inside the bubble in the top Is it consider safe?
Female | 19
If the condom didn't break and all the sperm is properly stored inside that bubble at the top, you should be fine. That bubble is there to catch any liquids, like sperm and is normal. Just make sure to remove the condom carefully to prevent spills. The bubble won't cause any harm.
Answered on 26th Aug '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Hi I'm a 29 old male i have an itching feeling in my penis after peeing and a clear sticky discharge, could it be an STI? I had sex a week ago.
Male | 29
You may be suffering from a sexually transmitted infection (STI). Symptoms include itching in your penis after urinating and a clear sticky discharge. One of the STIs that might be to blame is gonorrhea. Your healthcare provider can carry out the necessary tests and prescribe medication for you. To prevent further infection, avoid sexual contact until you've been cleared by a sexologist.
Answered on 24th Oct '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Hello, My name is Mohamed age of 30 years old I would like to get help have better sex life with my wife the problem from me I need help be stronger bigger while sex thanks
Male | 30
Managing stress, eating well, and being active can improve such a state. Either of you experiences stress, fatigue, or certain health problems that make you feel less strong or big during the game. Lack of adequate sleep may also contribute to such feelings. In case you have any worries seek medical attention immediately by a sexologist.
Answered on 25th May '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
I tried to have sex with my friend i wear condom then I unexpectedly precum in it and i tried to penetrate half in vagina and in start the Condom breaks a little after a month she skipped regular period do i need to worry about precum pregnancy please help
Male | 21
The pre-ejaculation fluid may contain dry sperm, which is likely to bring about pregnancy in case the condom breaks. A delayed period can be a symptom of pregnancy, however, it may also be the result of stress or other causes. In case of a broken condom, it is advisable to seek emergency contraception to prevent unintended pregnancy. Monitor any early signs of pregnancy and think about taking a pregnancy test if her period is late.
Answered on 10th Oct '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Sex issue of my husband -need male infertility treatment, erection dysfunctional treatment.
Female | 39
Your husband struggles with infertility and erectile dysfunction. Infertility could stem from low sperm count or poor quality. This makes conceiving challenging. Erectile issues may arise from stress, health conditions, or medications. To address these concerns, your husband should consult a sexologist. The doctor can recommend treatments like medication, lifestyle modifications, or alternative options.
Answered on 30th July '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
Is it safe to take suhagra 50 mg ?
Male | 25
Suhagra 50 mg is a drug that has sildenafil and is used to cure impotence in men. The method through which it achieves this is by having more blood transported to the private areas so that the man can function better. Besides, it may also bring about some other consequences such as having a headache, a sudden rush of blood to the skin, or a stomach upset. You should first consult a sexologist before using it and make sure that you are not allergic to it, have no special health issues, and do not take any other medicine.
Answered on 28th Oct '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
I masturbated 5 times a year in paste Before that my face was quite healthy but after this my face has become smart. And my weight has also increased a bit Why did this happen and why did I masturbate on the upper lips of the vagina??sex point is vagina but i finger only upper lips .I want to make my face healthy again .And does masturbation cause hormonal imbalance? If it is avoided then the hormones become normal without medicine.
Female | 23
Exploring your body is normal, but excessive masturbation can impact your appearance and weight. The labia minora contain sensitive skin, and touching them too much can cause skin problems. Hormone imbalance isn't directly caused by masturbation, but doing it excessively can affect your mood and energy levels. To improve your facial appearance, consider reducing the frequency of masturbation and focusing on good nutrition and skincare. Maintaining a healthy lifestyle with regular exercise and adequate sleep can help your hormones stay balanced naturally.
Answered on 18th Sept '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
Is ED genetic? My husband has ED and I recently came to know from his mom that his dad also has it. His brother also has some kind of problem coz he too has no kids. He is married for 7 years now.
Male | 35
Erectile problems aren't solely hereditary. Various factors can contribute. Signs include difficulty achieving or sustaining an erection. Potential causes range from medical conditions to stress or relationship discord. Familial history may increase susceptibility. However, consulting a physician is advisable, as treatments for ED exist.
Answered on 23rd July '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
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