Male | 42
Why is my wife's lack of desire causing depression?
I am 42 . Male . My wife doesnt have sex desire. She is 36. My 4 years old daughter sleeps with us in bedroom . My wife sleeps before my daughter. She is working woman . It affects my sexual life. My sexual desire not fulfilled. It leads to watching porn and mastrubation . Affects my sleep . Next day is totally disaster. I don't understand what to do . She never initiates the sex. She and My daughter sleep together hugging each other whole night . I feel so alone and ignored all night. I am going in depression please help.
Sexologist
Answered on 18th Nov '24
You likely suffer from some mental health issues, such as depression, insomnia, and porn addiction for sexual satisfaction. Long-term lack of closeness can have a devastating effect. Try to negotiate with your wife about your feelings and discuss therapy or ways to improve your social skills and feel understood.
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Questions & Answers on "Sexology Treatment" (774)
I had sex with my boyfriend with a condom on. And somewhere in the middle of sex the condom got slipped inside my vagina. He didn’t ejaculate inside me but I’m worried about the precum and I removed the condom after one day what should I do not to get pregnant
Female | 19
I get that you are worried about the slipped condom issue. It's good he did not release inside you. The fluid before release can have a few seed cells, but the chances of making a baby from that are low. If you are worried, you can take emergency baby prevention within three days of the incident. It's always good to double-check and be safe.
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Himali Patel
Hi doctor, i am adil 34 years old, from oman, i have done something i am really afraid, i went to prostitute, once we laid on bed she started touch my penis and rubbing smoothly, after that she came close to me her back was touched my chest and my penis touch multiple time from side ( not sure if tip touched vagina) and she was already wet ejaculated, then i hugged her , and sucked her breast, not felt any fluid, there was no intercourse no vaginal or anal sex, when i came back home after couple of hours i felt something wrong, and my penis tip started burning mild, then after some days irritation and burning more also transparent discharge, i went to the doctor and he tested, culture urine and cbc and crp, they found a bacteria and inflection of prostate and urine, but he said its in intial stage, in reports not mentioned what time of bacteria present no bacteria name was there, he. Gave me cefim 400 and ural powder for 10 days , pain reduced and discharge as well but still there is burning which goes and come back sometimes mild, my question is am i in risk of hiv?
Male | 34
According to your description, you may be suffering from slight irritation, probably caused by a urinary tract infection or prostatitis- all of which are being treated by your doctor. The possibility of HIV transmission from such practices is quite low. Nonetheless, the most important measure is regular STI examination to ensure that you are physically well and confident in your peace of mind. In case symptoms remain, it is a priority to set up an appointment with your healthcare provider or a sexologist who will recommend the right treatment. Being in communication with an expert will help alleviate your anxieties more totally.
Answered on 24th Dec '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
I am 19 years old I have completely ruined my life due to excess masturbation as no one told about its side effects now I am suffering
Male | 19
Masturbation is not a big deal but overdoing it may cause problems like tiredness, backache, and trouble with concentration. The solution is to reduce the frequency of masturbation. Taking part in different activities, such as exercise or hobbies, can also help distract your mind from it.
Answered on 3rd Dec '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
He cums in between my thighs and hand without any direct contact by rubbing his dick in my thigh. I immediately wipe it out and washed it off but my vagina secret some fluid too . After that I took levenogestrel within 24 hours but it was 3 days before my expected ovulation day. Is there any risk of pregnancy
Female | 24
According to your account, the chances of pregnancy are meager, apparently you have taken the emergency contraception on time. Levonorgestrel-type emergency contraceptive pills are most successful if you receive them in the first 72 hours after having unprotected sex. Having been so near the time when you were supposed to release the egg, the preventive action you took by default stands a good chance of succeeding. It is very important to look out for any pain. If you are worried or you notice some changes in your body that are not typical, talk to a sexologist who can provide you with custom-made advice and help you feel secure.
Answered on 6th Jan '25
Dr. Madhu Sudan
I feel something is discharging from my penis after I pee, when penis is without underwear it rubbed with pant or sex thought comes to mind. I think it oversensitive or else
Male | 19
If you have urethral discharge, this occurs when fluid comes out of your penis after you urinate or at certain times. It can also be caused by an infection such as gonorrhea or chlamydia and requires medical attention. To feel better consult a urologist they will need to give you the right treatment.
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Neeta Verma
Recently, I've been experiencing a drop in my sexual desire. Finestride is what I used to grow my hair out. Does it have an impact on one's sexual orientation? how long will it take for the effects of finestride to fade away?
Male | 35
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Arun Kumar
How to treat premature ejaculation
Male | 20
Premature ejaculation happens when a man orgasms faster than desired during intercourse. It means ejaculating within one minute after starting sex. Many factors can lead to this. Feeling anxious or stressed contributes. Medical conditions too. However, there are ways to manage it. Relaxation techniques and condoms reducing sensitivity help. Seeking therapy is another option.
Answered on 28th Aug '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
I had oral sex with an hepatitis b weakly positive girl last night but within 17 hours i have taken vaccine but i have not taken immunoglobulin with it. So will vaccine work alone in preventing the transmission of the virus ?
Male | 24
Answered on 19th Nov '24
Dr. Arun Kumar
Hello, I'm 17 years old.I lost feeling in my bladder and clitoris.I don't know when the bladder is full.I don't feel any excitement and sex drive anymore.The clitoris is no longer sensitive to stimuli, to touch.A year ago I had a feeling. I had ultrasound and blood tests performed by a gynecologist and a urologist, the results of the tests show no abnormalities. At this age I shouldn't have any problems with it. It worries me that I won't get any pleasure from having sex. What could be the cause? Is there any chance and way to get back feeling in clitoris and bladder? Please help.
Female | 17
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Arun Kumar
I am 21 years old and this is embarrassing but I’m having an issue with my balls. They’ve always been tight for some reason and haven’t ever been relaxed or hang but every time I jerk off or have sex my balls go up and under my skin and it’s uncomfortable. I can’t really push them back down because the sack is so tight. It’s even more uncomfortable when I’m having sex though because they aren’t hanging so they are getting hit every time which hurts. It also hurts when they are like that and I cum. Is there any way I can make them relaxed and hang lower? Thanks
Male | 21
Maybe you have testicular retraction. This is when the muscles in your scrotum pull your testicles up towards your body instead of letting them hang down like they should. This can be uncomfortable and even painful during sex or ejaculation. To help make your testicles hang lower and feel more comfortable, try taking warm baths or using supportive underwear. If the problem does not go away, it is best to see a doctor for help.
Answered on 11th June '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
Mujhe erection aur timing ki problem hai . Meri age 53 years hai. Mai agra UP se hu.. Mujhe meri samasya ka nidaan chahiye... Please
Male | 53
You have mentioned that you are having issues with erection and timing. Such a condition is 40% of Virgin boys and to some men as they get old. The inability to keep the erection frequent is multifactorial, for example, diabetes, cardiovascular diseases, or psychological tension. You should make sure you see the sexologist so they can diagnose your condition and as well choose the best course of action for treatment.
Answered on 2nd Dec '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
I am a 21 year old man from south Africa. I took Accutane for 27 days and expirienced erectile disfunction and muscle weakness. I then stopped. Muscle weakness has improved but Erectile disfunction is getting worse almost every day. I have zero libido and energy no morning erection. At first I would have sex for one round second I loose erection very quick before ejaculation. The past two months has been worse I can't even have an erection for once.
Male | 22
Answered on 6th July '24
Dr. Arun Kumar
I feel something is flowing from my penis when I pee or when penis is without underwear it touches with my pant, sex thought comes to my mind
Male | 19
You are suffering from urethral discharge (urogenital discharge). This situation occurs when urine or other times semen leaks out of the penis. It may occur as a result of infections such as gonorrhea or chlamydia. When this happens, kindly see a urologist immediately for diagnosis and treatment. They will critically examine you and give you the necessary drugs to take.
Answered on 16th Aug '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
I have premature ejaculation problem I am not married and never had involved in any sexual activity, I am facing Premature ejaculation when I used to do masturbation , now I have stopped it and start doing pelvic floor exercises and gentlely massaging my penis, when I used to do massage I feel aroused in my frenulum area, i ahd become very sensitive and whenever I just rubb it i got ejaculation. It's been and month that I am doing this by seen no results, I think that my frenulum is tight but it is not giving me any pain. Plzz help me to cure
Male | 18
Many people have many worries and it is completely normal to be worried about a health issue. Premature ejaculation can have a variety of causes such as anxiety, stress, or very high stimulation. Constriction of the frenulum is also involved in this. It is a good thing to be doing pelvic floor exercises. You could keep going with it and you might want to consider seeking a sexologist for more guidance.
Answered on 10th Nov '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Penitration not work sex problem
Male | 30
Not being able to penetrate can occur for various reasons. Sometimes, it's because of stress, anxiety, or just relaxation. Other cases are those of physical issues like tight muscles or medical conditions. If this is what is troubling you, then it is highly recommended to consult a sexologist who will help to get to the cause and provide the right solution for you.
Answered on 26th Nov '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Agr kisy larki nay past ma masturbate ki ho or masturbate left kiya howy 2 years 4 months ho gye ho toh kya after marriage is koi tension toh nai ho gi sex mein or partner ko pta toh nai chaly ga .agr masturbate say is ka vaginal lips break ho gye is say??
Female | 23
Aapko chinta karne ki zaroorat nahi hai. Aksar, masturbating se kisi bhi tarah ki long-term physical issues nahi hote. Aapka partner aapki past activities se aware nahi hoga jab tak aap unhe nahi batate. Agar vaginal area mein koi discomfort ya changes mehsoos kar rahi hain, toh yeh kisi aur wajah se ho sakta hai. Regular health check-ups aur ek sexologist se baat karna behtar hoga, jisse aapki concerns ko address kiya ja sake. Marriage ke baad, communication aur comfort zaroori hai, toh apne partner se khul ke baat karna mat bhooliye.
Answered on 15th Jan '25
Dr. Madhu Sudan
I am 56 years. Facing disappearing of aggressiveness in sex exists few years back. Premature Ejaculation faced at the time of full sex in past. Now even the penis take more time to become rigid. At first mornings sometime penis got rigid. Want support to increase sex from you.
Male | 48
At your age of 56yrs, there is depletion in testosterone levels and even there can be other factors which can be involved.... Detailed discussion of the problem is needed.. your problem of erectile dysfunction and pre-mature ejaculation are most commonly occurring in all ages of men, fortunately these both have high recovery rates through ayurvedic medications.
I am explaining briefly about erectile dysfunction and pre-mature ejaculation so that it takes fear out of you.
In erectile dysfunction, men are not able to get or keep an erection that is sufficient to have penetrative sex. In premature ejaculation men come out Very fast, men gets discharged either before penetration or immediately after penetration, they hardly get some strokes, so the female partner remains unsatisfied.
This may be due to so many factors like High cholesterol, High blood pressure,
Diabetes, excessive masturbation, excessive porn watching, nerves weakness,
Obesity, thyroid, heart problem, alcohol, Tobacco use, Sleep disorders, Low testosterone, tension, stress etc.
These problems of erectile dysfunction and pre-mature ejaculation are very much treatable.
I am suggesting you some ayurvedic medicines.
Take Aswagandhadi churan half teaspoon in the morning & in the night.
Take Capsule SHILAJIT one in the morning and one in the night,
Take tablet manmath Ras one in the morning and one in the night.
Take tablet Pushp dhanva Ras one in the morning and one in the night. And take tablet Sidh makardhwaj Vati with gold, one in the morning and one in the night after food.
All the above preferably with hot milk or with water
Also apply and message Shri Gopal tail on your penis three times a week for 2 to 4 minutes.
Avoid junk food, oily and spicier food, alcohol, tobacco, tension and anxiety.
Start doing brisk walk or running or cardio exercises for at least 30 min a day. Start doing yoga, pranayama, meditation, Vajroli mudra. Ashwini mudra, kegel exercise for at least 30 min a day.
Start taking hot milk twice a day.
2-3 dates in the morning and in the night with milk.
Do all the above suggested treatment for 3 months and see the results.
If you don't get satisfactory results then please go to your family doctor or a good sexologist.
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Arun Kumar
I forgot to pinch the tip of the condom while wearing it and there’s bubble on the tip of the condom but wore it properly and there is no breakage, spillage or leak. While the sperm came in the condom we immediately stopped sex and the sperm is inside the bubble in the top Is it consider safe?
Female | 19
If the condom didn't break and all the sperm is properly stored inside that bubble at the top, you should be fine. That bubble is there to catch any liquids, like sperm and is normal. Just make sure to remove the condom carefully to prevent spills. The bubble won't cause any harm.
Answered on 26th Aug '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Hi I'm a 29 old male i have an itching feeling in my penis after peeing and a clear sticky discharge, could it be an STI? I had sex a week ago.
Male | 29
You may be suffering from a sexually transmitted infection (STI). Symptoms include itching in your penis after urinating and a clear sticky discharge. One of the STIs that might be to blame is gonorrhea. Your healthcare provider can carry out the necessary tests and prescribe medication for you. To prevent further infection, avoid sexual contact until you've been cleared by a sexologist.
Answered on 24th Oct '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Hello, My name is Mohamed age of 30 years old I would like to get help have better sex life with my wife the problem from me I need help be stronger bigger while sex thanks
Male | 30
Managing stress, eating well, and being active can improve such a state. Either of you experiences stress, fatigue, or certain health problems that make you feel less strong or big during the game. Lack of adequate sleep may also contribute to such feelings. In case you have any worries seek medical attention immediately by a sexologist.
Answered on 25th May '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
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