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Should I Pursue Inappropriate Relationship with Mother?
I am a south indian boy(22) an my mother (39) is a housewife and a tailor.My father and my mother are seperated 8 years ago.Since then me and my mom are living alone.From a few years I am getting sexual feelings on my mom and i think she is also interested in it. She keeps kissing me irrespective of the situation and touches her private parts accidentally to me and smiles after it.I think she is giving hints to me that she wants to fulfill my father's place.Now i am really interested in her.Should I ask her directly and proceed or should I take it slowly.please give me any suggestion
Sexologist
Answered on 6th Jan '25
We need to be aware of the fact that attitudes towards a parent may be intricate and sometimes ambiguous. You may have experienced such feelings because of your strong bond with your mom/father rather than perceiving him/her/it as a romantic partner. Being concerned in such relationships carries a lot of psychological problems. It might be of great help to talk about these feelings with a psychologist or sexologist who would know what to do and be there for you. The time spent on the proper examination of feelings in a safe, non-judgmental environment will help both of you cope with the relationship easily. Using professional help as a priority can bring clearer understanding and better emotional outcomes for you both.
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Questions & Answers on "Sexology Treatment" (733)
Hi sir I am 32 years old I have sugar I have sex problems with in secs it’s came out suggest me best medicine sir
Male | 32
You may be suffering from premature ejaculation. On the other hand, this could be realized with different factors such as, for example, stress, anxiety, and hormonal imbalance in your body. One of the methods I would suggest is to look for behavioral interventions like the start-stop method or the squeeze technique during sex. It is also possible to discuss with a doctor about the medications or therapy options which may be of help with your situation.
Answered on 8th July '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
Me and my girlfriend had sex without condom i didn’t ejaculate and we did it for only 5-6 seconds
Female | 18
Even a few seconds of unprotected sex carries risks. Watch out for unusual discharge, burning urination, or genital itching. These indicate possible infection. Speak with a sexologist for advice. Consider getting tested for potential infections.
Answered on 23rd July '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Last week of june I met with my gf. We didn't had sex, but did the foreplay thing. For protection I wore condom also with my boxers on. My concern is that two time I changed the condoms after I cum and while changing the condoms, sperm comes in contact with my fingers and after that we did foreplay (fingering in vagina). So how much possibilities that sperm from my fingers will went inside her vagina that will lead to pregnancy as she is on her ovulation period. Her last period started on 14th june, cycle 28 to 30 days. I know now nothing can be done other than, just to wait for period to come. But before consulting you I consulted a sexologist. He told me to to connect to a gynecologist. They will provide you with a better solution. Whether it is practically possible or not. Sperms comes in contact with fingers. After that it comes in contact with other things also like blanket. Than this fingering thing happened. So in such case. Are sperms healthy for fertilisation that can seriously lead to pregnancy. Mentally it is affecting us a lot. First time we are facing this issue don't know what to do. Is it really serious. As no intercourse happened or ejaculation inside her. Concerned about the fingers on sperm. While fingering*
Female | 21
Answered on 28th June '24
Dr. Arun Kumar
I had unprotected sex 8th hours before. I take one one ipill. What should I do now?
Female | 24
It is good that you've taken the emergency contraceptive pill within 8 hours of sex without protection. I-pill is most effective when taken immediately after intercourse. You may feel sick or have a headache or unusual bleeding. If the symptoms are severe or don't go away, go to a gynecologist immediately.
Answered on 3rd June '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
I am 29 year and suffering from erectile dysfunction from past few months.
Male | 29
The specifics of why someone might have erectile dysfunction can differ a lot: it might be caused by stress, anxiety, or some health conditions. It might be wise to concentrate on relaxation techniques, eating a healthy balanced diet, and having a good open communication with your partner. If the problem continues over time, a consultation with a urologist can assist in finding an appropriate option.
Answered on 11th Sept '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
I have done by 9 years masterbation..now iam facing son many problems..I cont satisfied my partner for sex drive..my pinis size nerve system very weak .. emotionally,mentally, physically..I have facing problems..please what should I do
Male | 27
It seems that you may be facing some sexual issues. Overindulging in self-pleasure may sometimes contribute to various issues like decreased sexual satisfaction, weakened nervous system, and emotional problems. Therefore, it is important to take care of both your overall well-being and sexual health. To further discuss the mentioned problems and look for any possibility of improvement, one should consult a sexologist or a counselor.
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
I'm a 20 year old. I notice that each time I erect, I end up releasing cum(sperm) what seems to be the issue please?
Male | 20
You might be having what’s known as premature ejaculation. This is when you release sperm too quickly during erections. It’s common and can be caused by things like stress, anxiety or even being too excited. To deal with this, you could try deep breathing techniques or distracting yourself with something else while you’re being intimate. Always remember that it’s okay to talk to a sexologist if you want more help or advice.
Answered on 4th June '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Hello, I am not feeling well and also feeling sex like feeling
Male | 24
Symptoms such as fatigue, malaise, or discomfort can start from various causes such as stress, infection, or even dehydration. Making your health a priority by keeping yourself hydrated, getting enough sleep, and eating balanced meals is of utmost importance. Should the situation remain the same or deteriorate, you need to seek the opinion of a sexologist to undergo a thorough examination.
Answered on 10th Dec '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Dr i am married. But always penis stimulation individual and emit sperm. I need to control this situation. What i am to do now
Male | 30
It appears that you could be suffering from premature ejaculation. This occurs when an individual climaxes too quickly during sexual activities. Causes may include stress, anxiety, or having a hypersensitive penis. To help with this, attempt using methods such as deep breathing and thinking about pleasant things. Additionally, communicate openly with your partner about what you need and vary the pace of intercourse.
Answered on 10th June '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
Me and my girlfriend wear wearing the underwear and I rub my penis without any ejaculation will she be pregnant pls tell me I'm in stree
Female | 17
Considering the circumstances, it is improbable that your girlfriend could become pregnant if there was no ejaculation. Nevertheless, it is good to realize that any genital contact has some risk involved. Therefore, if she starts experiencing any unusual signs like missing her periods or having abnormal bleeding; I advise you to go for a pregnancy test so that you can be sure about everything.
Answered on 28th May '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
Iam male 36 yrs old. Since 2yrs i am trying. I have no issue or symptoms other than unable to have children. Married since 7years.neither i or wife used protection during all this time .but seriously trying to have baby since two years. All these years she got pregnant one time only which got misscarried. Please help. I have done only semen analysis .is there any serious problem with me
Male | 36
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Arun Kumar
I am 30 years unmarried may totally irrectiol disfunction and evaculation , diseases attacted,it's will recovery use medicine?
Male | 30
Symptoms of erectile dysfunction could be caused by conditions such as stress or anxiety. They could also be health problems such as diabetes or high blood pressure. You need to see a sexologist and start getting the needed treatments as soon as possible. Medicines and lifestyle changes can help you get better with these issues.
Answered on 27th Nov '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Im having penis pain after masturbating
Male | 18
It is common to have some small pain after activity. If you are feeling pain in your penis, it could be due to irritation or tiny tears in the skin. Also, not using enough wet stuff can lead to this pain. To feel better, let your body rest and heal up. If the pain stays or gets worse, it is important to talk to a urologist.
Answered on 28th Nov '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
I have masturbate for 5 years every day and now if I’m ejaculating the amount of sperm that comes out is small. What does it mean would it affect me
Male | 23
When you ejaculate only a small amount of semen, especially after masturbating a lot, it’s like running frequently- your body requires time to produce more sperm. This normally is not a big deal. However, if it hurts when you pee or you have trouble urinating at all then go see your doctor immediately. Try cutting back on how often you masturbate so that your body can have some time off.
Answered on 8th July '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
I am 22 years and am having problem with my penis I can’t have proper erection and i sometimes see some white fluid coming out whenever i try to get erection. This white fluid is not normal as it is in every male.
Male | 22
The problem you're describing can be a sign of the condition called erectile dysfunction. This can happen for several reasons like stress, anxiety, or maybe some other health problem. It is very important to give your best to live a healthy life by eating a well-balanced diet, exercising regularly, and trying to lower stress. When the issue is ongoing, you have to talk to a sexologist.
Answered on 22nd Aug '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Hi, want to use pull out and condom at the same time? Is it safe,
Female | 19
It is safe to apply both a pull-out method and condom at the same time because it can prevent unwanted pregnancy as well as STIs.
Answered on 22nd Nov '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Hlo sir Maine apni Gf ke sath sex kiya forplay kiya humne bahut bahut 15 to 20 mintues After mai pent ke andar hi ejaculate kar gya Maine 2 and half month se sex nahi kiya tha na maturation FOR PLAY KE TIME EJACULATE HUA SIR IS THIS PREMATURE EJACULATION AUR PREMATURE EJACULATION KISE KHA JAYGA SIR KITNE TIME TAK CHALNI CHIYE YE BIMARI KYA 1ST ROUND SEX MAI SAB MALES KA TIME JALDI EJACULATE HONE KA HOTA HAI SIR
Male | 24
Factors can include anxiety, arousal levels, or physical sensitivities. It's common for many men to experience quicker ejaculation, especially after a period of abstinence. If it becomes a recurring issue, consider discussing it with a sexologist who can provide guidance tailored to your situation.
Answered on 9th Jan '25
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Hello sir I am very very unhappy with my sexual health so what I can do to recover as faster as quickly and I am live in Germany
Male | 23
Factors like stress, hormonal changes, or lifestyle issues such as diet and exercise can be responsible for these conditions. The first step you can take to better your condition is to stick to healthy eating, regular physical exercise, and the management of stress through relaxation methods. In addition, talking openly with your partner can help. You may also consult a sexologist for proper advice.
Answered on 20th Dec '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
I have premature ejaculation problem I am not married and never had involved in any sexual activity, I am facing Premature ejaculation when I used to do masturbation , now I have stopped it and start doing pelvic floor exercises and gentlely massaging my penis, when I used to do massage I feel aroused in my frenulum area, i ahd become very sensitive and whenever I just rubb it i got ejaculation. It's been and month that I am doing this by seen no results, I think that my frenulum is tight but it is not giving me any pain. Plzz help me to cure
Male | 18
Many people have many worries and it is completely normal to be worried about a health issue. Premature ejaculation can have a variety of causes such as anxiety, stress, or very high stimulation. Constriction of the frenulum is also involved in this. It is a good thing to be doing pelvic floor exercises. You could keep going with it and you might want to consider seeking a sexologist for more guidance.
Answered on 10th Nov '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Sir I am 21 years old and my problem is that My penis does not get erect during sex. It gets erect during masturbation, why is that so? And it gets erect like this too, but it does not get erect when I go to do have sex.
Male | 21
This could be a consequence of your stress, health care anxiety, or even the poor quality of your relationship. Besides, there might be physical causes such as problems in blood flow or the amount of hormones in the body. The first step is to start afresh, and let go of communication thus creating an environment where the issue persists, see a sexologist for better advice.
Answered on 4th Dec '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
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