Male | 21
Why doesn't my penis get erect during sex?
Sir I am 21 years old and my problem is that My penis does not get erect during sex. It gets erect during masturbation, why is that so? And it gets erect like this too, but it does not get erect when I go to do have sex.

Sexologist
Answered on 4th Dec '24
This could be a consequence of your stress, health care anxiety, or even the poor quality of your relationship. Besides, there might be physical causes such as problems in blood flow or the amount of hormones in the body. The first step is to start afresh, and let go of communication thus creating an environment where the issue persists, see a sexologist for better advice.
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Questions & Answers on "Sexology Treatment" (849)
I have a spot on my penis that hurts and a constant erection I cannot get to stop.
Male | 21
The pain from the spot on the penis can mean an early sign of penile scabs due to an infection, or inflammation, therefore, one should immediately consult an urologist or sexologist. Like sexually transmitted diseases, such things can cause further injury or inflammation that would eventually lead to severe pain and a permanent hard-on of your penis.
Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Its is necessary that frelenum is tear during sex
Male | Nikhil
It's not too strange for the frenulum, a small piece of skin under the penis head, to tear when you are having sexual intercourse. Symptoms include pain, bleeding, and discomfort. The main causes can be rough or severe sexual contact. So, if you are looking for a cure. Then warm baths and avoiding sex until it heals can be an essential factor. If the bleeding continues, make sure to visit a physician.
Answered on 14th July '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
Can hiv be transmitted to my partner while I'm on pep medication
Male | 23
If you take PEP drugs, you can still transmit HIV to your partner. The medication reduces risk but doesn't prevent transmission completely. Symptoms like fever, body aches, and swollen lymph nodes may occur with HIV infection. Using condoms consistently during sex is crucial for prevention.
Answered on 11th Sept '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
Some time before during sex our penis down some miner pain but after that case our penis do not doing any activity if some energy medicine take he will work otherwise not what can we do
Male | Monu
You may have a problem called erectile dysfunction. This means having trouble getting or staying hard during sexual intercourse. It can be brought about by things like stress, anxiety, or health concerns. You can try healthy eating, exercise, and smoking cessation to help. If the situation persists, you can go to a sexologist for more guidance and treatment.
Answered on 25th Sept '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Am having semen leakage and want to treat it ,is as result of over masturbation
Male | 25
Experiencing spontaneous fluid leakage can be concerning, and it's important to know it may have various causes, including frequent stimulation. Symptoms might include unexpected discharges or changes in sensitivity. To address this, reducing the frequency or duration of sexual activities can help. Strengthening pelvic muscles through exercises may also be beneficial. However, for personalized advice and to rule out any underlying issues, I recommend scheduling a consultation with a sexologist. They can provide tailored recommendations and reassurance. You're taking a positive step by seeking solutions, so don't hesitate to reach out for support.
Answered on 16th Jan '25

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Can hiv spread through vaginal fluids without direct sex engagement
Male | 25
HIV is usually transmitted by unprotected sex like vaginal intercourse. Nonetheless, it can also be passed on by having direct contact with infected fluids, for example, in intimate activities that involve sharing bodily fluids. The symptoms can take weeks to appear and may include fever, fatigue, and swollen lymph nodes. To lessen the threat, be sure you are regularly tested if you are sexually active, and share safe practices with your partner. If scared, it is best to ask a sexologist for personalized advice and prevention measures.
Answered on 6th Jan '25

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Mujhe erection aur timing ki problem hai . Meri age 53 years hai. Mai agra UP se hu.. Mujhe meri samasya ka nidaan chahiye... Please
Male | 53
You have mentioned that you are having issues with erection and timing. Such a condition is 40% of Virgin boys and to some men as they get old. The inability to keep the erection frequent is multifactorial, for example, diabetes, cardiovascular diseases, or psychological tension. You should make sure you see the sexologist so they can diagnose your condition and as well choose the best course of action for treatment.
Answered on 2nd Dec '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
I am 50 year old hypertensive patient with diabetes 2. I had a brain stem stroke in 2012 and recovered. Now i am taking following medicines : Blood pressure: Azilsartan 40mg , Blood thinner : clopitab 75mg Diabetes : Stigliptin phosphate hcl 50/1000mg Depression: Sertraline 50mg My question : can i take viagra as i am facing erectile dysfunction. I was asked to ask a sexologist for his opinion.
Male | 50
Erectile dysfunction is a common issue, particularly for individuals with diabetes and high blood pressure. Medications like Viagra (sildenafil) can be effective, but it’s crucial to consult your healthcare provider first, especially given your medical history and current medications. This ensures that it’s safe for you and prevents any possible interactions. Your doctor can guide you on the best approach for your situation, taking your specific health conditions into account.
Answered on 21st Jan '25

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Had intercrural sex 4 days before expected ovulation day and also took levenogestrel within 24 hours because he cums on my thigh and hand and I also put hand Infront of vagina around 4 fingers away from the vagina . What are the chances of pregnancy. Is levenogestrel effective within fertile window?
Female | 25
Levonorgestrel is most effective when taken shortly after potential exposure to sperm, especially within 72 hours, but it can still work up to 5 days later. Given that you took it within 24 hours, you are taking a positive step to reduce the risk of pregnancy. Involvement of external genital contact does carry some risk, but it is generally low. Symptoms like missed period or unusual changes may indicate pregnancy; however, it's essential to take a pregnancy test if your period is late. For additional reassurance and guidance, consider consulting a gynecologist for personalized advice.
Answered on 10th Jan '25

Dr. Madhu Sudan
I had sex with my boyfriend –– it's been something like 5-6 weeks ago, but we used protection. After sex we were sleeping completely naked –– he was spooning me –– and he has gotten an erection and his penis has hit my vulva landing literally at my vaginal opening, slightly going in (something like 0.5 inch and at a shallow angle) and stayed there for something like 15 minutes, after which his penis started getting progressively softer. As of now I am late with my period for smh over two weeks. Could I be pregnant?
Female | 23
It's understandable to feel concerned about a missed period, especially after the situation you described. While using protection significantly reduces the chance of pregnancy, no method is 100% effective. Stress, hormonal changes, or other factors can also delay your cycle. If you're worried, consider taking a home pregnancy test for clarity. If the test is positive or if your period doesn't start soon, it's wise to consult a gynecologist for personalized guidance.
Answered on 16th Feb '25

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Hi. I'm 27 year old. During my last two masturbation session i felt a pee feel while masturbating i ended it normaly but during masturbation i had this feeling 2,3 ,times...kindly tell ..is it normal or what
Male | 27
It’s natural to feel that way when you are pleasing yourself. Most of the time, the reason is that the bladder is very near the prostate, which gets stimulated when a person is aroused. You should feel better right after the end. Ensure that you are in a comfortable position and are not holding in any pee before you start. If this sensation persists, or you have pain, it is better to consult a sexologist.
Answered on 8th Oct '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Best sexology doctor in kolkata
Male | 45
Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Arun Kumar
I am monoj my seman analyesis day by day 15 m se 0 ml hogeya kya karna hai all test hogeya hai repot narmal hai
Male | 34
Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Arun Kumar
Facing issue of Premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction
Male | 57
Experiencing ED or PE? It’s when you finish too quickly or struggle to maintain an erection. Causes include stress, anxiety, or medical issues. Try relaxation techniques, communicate with your partner, or see a therapist. Doctors may suggest medications or therapy. Remember, it's common and treatable.
Answered on 8th Oct '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
If my boyfriend rub his pennies to my vagina can I get pregnant
Female | 20
When a man rubs his private part against a woman's private part, the result can be pregnancy--in other words, sperm, which is essential for making a baby, may be introduced into the woman's body. Pregnancy signs include late periods and queasy feelings. The method to avoid getting pregnant is by protecting yourself using a condom every time you get into this kind of contact.!
Answered on 9th Sept '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
Sir I married in 2006 that time my sex life is OK every day I do sex 5 to 6 time in a day continued i sex 3 year after 3 year I do sex 1 time in a day now i do sex in 2 week 1time only and also penis size is looking small normal size is 3 inch after erect 5 inch so also I want to do big size of my penis before married I daily do musturbution and now I lose sex life so please help me
Male | 36
Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Arun Kumar
A while ago, I felt goosebumps and a strange movement in my testicles. I felt that the temperature of my testicles was high. I went to the doctor and he said that I have a simple varicocele in the testicle on the right testicle, and one or two veins can be seen on the scrotum. Then the doctor advised me to do a Doppler x-ray, and after I did a Doppler scan of the testicle, it turned out that there were no Evidence for varicose veins, and everything is normal. Though i still can see one or two thin veins on the scrotum
Male | 24
Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Arun Kumar
Private parts chota lagta h Kya kre age 19 h Or kya normal size h
Male | 19
Har vyakti ka sharir alag hota hai, aur "normal" size kai factors par depend karta hai, jaise genetics aur age. Yeh bilkul natural hai ki aapko aisa mehsoos ho, par kabhi-kabhi ye anxiety ka bhi nishaan hota hai. Aap kuch lifestyle changes kar sakte hain, jaise acchi diet, regular exercise, aur stress management, jo aapki self-esteem ko improve kar sakta hai. Agar aapko ab bhi pareshani mehsoos hoti hai, toh doctor se milna acha rahega. Wo aapko aur behtar samajh denge aur zaroori guidance denge.
Answered on 30th Jan '25

Dr. Madhu Sudan
How to stop masturbate for male
Male | 18
Masturbation is a natural phenomenon, but overdoing it can become a problem. If you start feeling guilty or ignore other activities, it is an indication that you are masturbating over the top. Stress and boredom are very common factors that make people do it more often. Avoid motivation like being alone or consuming adult films. Stay occupied with hobbies, exercises, or spending time with friends to help lessen the temptation.
Answered on 30th Nov '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
I got my blood test regarding hiv 1 and 2 I got 0.11 index value what does it mean
Female | 23
An HIV 1 and 2 index value of 0.11 signifies that the result is negative. It is, however, advisable that you consult an infectious diseases doctor for further analysis and interpretation of your test results.
Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
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