If you suspect you have a sexually transmitted infection like gonorrhea, it's important to seek medical advice from a healthcare professional. Herbal remedies might provide relief for some symptoms, but they may not fully eliminate the infection.

More detailed history and tests like Uroflowmetry and Ultrasound with Post void residual measurement will give accurate diagnosis. If it’s BPH only and not improving with medicines then might need a surgical treatment. There could be other reasons like urethral stricture or high bladder neck which is also dealt surgically.

You may be suffering from what is known as Peyronie’s disease where your penis becomes bent whereas before it was straight. Some signs can include an erection that is curved and possibly pain during intercourse. This occurs when scar tissue forms inside the shaft of the penis. There may also be some loss of length although not always; this varies from person to person.

It's generally considered safe and does not have any adverse effects on physical or mental health. It does not inherently interfere with sexual function or satisfaction, infact it can help individuals become more aware of their own bodies and preferences, which may contribute to improved sexual experiences with a partner.