Male | 26
Why can't I ejaculate during sex after masturbation?
Hi, I am newly married just few days and we are still exploring things while having sex however no matter how much I perform I am unable to ejaculate while having sex however I have been masterbating before marriage and then I was able to ejaculate but why not now

Sexologist
Answered on 30th Nov '24
The inability to discharge during lovemaking, which used to be possible, could be a consequence of several factors. Stress and performance tension are two of the reasons. The exclusion of anybody's problems from it is also good. Shift to the ideas of mutual understanding and frank discussion with your partner and see a physician if you are interested in treatment you can also consult a sexologist for treatment,.
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Questions & Answers on "Sexology Treatment" (849)
Hello My partner has been diagnosed with HIV since 2yrs and after a couple of months after getting on the ART treatment he had an undetectable viral load since. I would like to know if there is any risk of transmission, should be get on PREP and if the use of condom is necessary?
Male | 27
It's great to hear that your partner has been on ART and maintains an undetectable viral load, which significantly reduces the risk of transmission. Generally, if the viral load is consistently undetectable, the risk is extremely low, and PrEP may not be necessary. However, using condoms is still a recommended practice for additional protection against other sexually transmitted infections. I encourage you to consult with your sexologist to discuss your specific situation and to make informed decisions tailored to your needs.
Answered on 17th Feb '25

Dr. Madhu Sudan
My doctor prescribed some medication and prescribed eumosone m cream to treat my penile fungal infection. There is steroid content cream, however, claims to be safe to use on the penis for three weeks. Please notify me if this changes.
Male | 26
Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Arun Kumar
Sexual problem ling shota hai gf shod ka chla gyi kya mara ling bda ho skta hai
Male | 24
Ling ka size aksar genetic factors se tay hota hai, aur yeh kuch samay mein badal nahi sakta. Agar aapko kisi bhi tarah ki samasya, jaise erectile dysfunction ya performance anxiety ka saamna karna pad raha hai, to yeh bahut aam hai aur is par baat karna zaroori hai. Relax rehna aur open communication aapke rishte ko behtar bana sakti hai. Agar yeh samasya lagataar rahe, to ek sexologist se milna bhehtar hoga, jo aapki samasya ka sahi samadhan de sakte hain.
Answered on 8th Jan '25

Dr. Madhu Sudan
I feel pain in my penis , when i do sex , I’m suffering with the problem since 2023 , I want permanent solution , this is minor pain but I feel worry about that , so please help me
Male | 24
Let's dive into the men's health issues right here and now. It is quite common for males to experience pain in a penis during physical intercourse, and there might arise this problem as a result of such multiple conditions as infection, injury, nerve damage, and even psychological factors. One of the biggest effective solutions of course consults a health care provider, who makes a diagnosis and gives a proper treatment plan that could be the medication, therapy, or lifestyle modifications.
Answered on 30th Nov '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Good morning mam I'm doing masturbation daily is that problem in future
Male | 22
Masturbation Daily is normal and healthy...NO HARM in future. Just don't get addicted to it, if your are worried seek medical help
Answered on 10th Oct '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
I'm 32 year old male person.. I'm facing erectile dysfunction problem erection problem So give me suggestion for treatment
Male | 32
Erectile dysfunction is very hard to deal with. It may reveal itself as having difficulties getting or keeping an erection. Stress, anxiety, or health issues like diabetes may be the reasons for it. To make it better, start with exercising, eating good food, and managing stress. It is also important to have an open discussion with your partner. If the problem continues, then see a sexologist.
Answered on 27th Aug '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
What dosage of sildenafil or dapoxetine should i take before sexual activity. I need to avoid erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation. Please suggest allopathy medicine
Male | 36
When it comes to preventing erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation, sildenafil and dapoxetine are two of the most frequently used medicines that can help. When using sildenafil, the rate of usage will be around 50 mg, at least one hour before sexual intercourse. It has a positive effect on the blood that comes to the penis, which eventually makes it more functional and keeps the erection longer. For people who are prescribed dapoxetine, the proper dosage is usually 30 mg; this drug is taken for 1-3 hours before having sex. It is a remedy to early ejaculation that delays the time that it takes for an individual to cum. As a reminder, it is always recommended to talk to your doctor to decide on the appropriate dose that you would particularly need.
Answered on 16th June '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
I m 32 year old my problem is hyper sensitivity of glans pre ejaculation
Male | 33
It sounds like you're dealing with hypersensitivity of the glans before ejaculation, which can cause discomfort and irritation. Building tolerance through exercises like boxing or other sports may help reduce sensitivity and anxiety. Additionally, practicing breathing exercises can be beneficial. However, if symptoms continue or worsen, it's important to seek medical advice from a sexologist for appropriate treatment options.
Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
sir i am having nightfall problem sometimes 5 times in a month. please tell some natural remedies to cure it
Male | rahul
Nightfall is normal. Your body's dropping off some semen while you're asleep, that’s all. It could be activated by stress, sleeping in a weird position, or thinking sex-related thoughts before bed. Try not to get too excited before sleeping and practice good sleep hygiene – it might help stop things going bump in the night. If this doesn’t work after a while (like more than say three months), then maybe see a sexologist about it.
Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
Sexual problems for quick discharge& increase in my pennies
Male | 37
Premature ejaculation occurs when a man releases sperm too soon during intercourse, and it can be caused by stress, anxiety, or medical conditions. Regarding penis enlargement, there are no miracle solutions despite product claims. Surgery is an option but carries risks and may not be as effective as desired. Open communication with your partner and consulting a sexologist are the best approaches.
Answered on 27th Oct '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
I had protected oral during massage session. I wore condom when he was sucking my penis. Before condom he played with my nipples and penis and then gave blowjob over condom till I ejaculate. I had touch his penis but not at the head-tip just shaft. Am I at risk?
Male | 37
Based on what you said, it does not seem likely that you got an infection. There is a small chance of getting one from skin-to-skin contact, but using a condom helps a lot. Watch out for signs like red skin, itchiness, or burning when you pee. If you see any of those, go to the doctor.
Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
Is it possible to get hiv when using condoms
Male | 25
Although condoms do reduce HIV transmission risk, it is not 100% safe as misuse or breaking can also become the reasons for failure. Some of the first symptoms may be flu-like symptoms, fatigue, and/or swollen lymph nodes that mimic a general body reaction in humans; however, some individuals can be asymptotic. Besides using condoms, consider such other precautions as routine testing and sharing with your partner what steps to take in case of virus transmission. In case you have any questions, or if you are symptomatic, you should consult a sexologist for a plan of action.
Answered on 4th Jan '25

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Me and my girlfriend had sex without condom i didn’t ejaculate and we did it for only 5-6 seconds
Female | 18
Even a few seconds of unprotected sex carries risks. Watch out for unusual discharge, burning urination, or genital itching. These indicate possible infection. Speak with a sexologist for advice. Consider getting tested for potential infections.
Answered on 23rd July '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
I was sexually active last night. And the semen ejection was inside. I needed a suggestion what should I do next.
Female | 19
If the semen got into your body, you might get STIs or impregnation. It would be advisable to see a gynecologist or urologist for risk assessment and plan further management. Prompt medical help should be sought in order to avert any undesired consequences.
Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
Does masturbation 1 time daily effects your body
Male | 36
Masturbation is a common and normal behavior for many individuals. Engaging in this activity once a day typically does not have adverse effects on physical health. However, if it begins to interfere with daily life, and relationships, or causes physical discomfort, it may be worth reflecting on your habits. Potential symptoms of excessive practice can include fatigue or irritation. Keeping a balanced lifestyle—such as maintaining social connections and engaging in physical activity—can be beneficial. If you have concerns, I encourage you to speak with a sexologist for personalized advice and to ensure your overall well-being.
Answered on 21st Jan '25

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Hi, My husband addicted masterbating for so long time, I have seen lot of time he masturbated in day and night several times. If I see that my heart is broken, I asked him to stop that lot of times but he didn't and he is avoiding me for 2 years .I have given lot of time to change his behaviour but no change till now.if ask also he didn't respond. He resigned his job also from 6 months and he did this thing only every day several times so I have decided to involve him in some Business so that he might change his mentality but I failed here also he even doesn't like to touch me and he didn't help me in anything.i am only one who runs the family, forget to say I have two kids .please do needful Thank you Hema
Female | 30
It sounds like your husband’s experience with compulsive behaviors is quite severe, and thus causing a great deal of problems in the emotional and relationship area. Any kind of overindulgence be it masturbation which is just one of the activities may be a response to stress, anxiety or even finding out if there are deeper issues. Being empathetic is crucial when dealing with this type of behavior. Maybe encouraging an honest talk would assist, but counselors can also be of great help. I suggest that both of you get a therapist or counselor's help. This way, they can be two people to talk to and also suggest ways of dealing with problems.
Answered on 23rd Dec '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
After masturbate and after sexual thoughts discharge same ya different ?? Which harmless? Kis ka koi nuqsan na ho body ko?
Female | 29
Masturbation and sexual thoughts can lead to ejaculation, which is a normal physiological response. The fluid expelled during these activities is typically the same, consisting of sperm and seminal fluid. Both processes are harmless and do not harm your body. It's natural to experience these feelings, and they usually have no negative effects on health. However, if you have concerns about frequency or its impact on your daily life, consulting a sexologist can provide personalized reassurance and guidance. Remember, open conversations about sexual health are important for overall well-being.
Answered on 29th Jan '25

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Sex timing and erection not satisfied wife
Male | 25
It is common for men to experience sexual concerns such as premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction at some point in their lives. Consult a urologist or a sexual health specialist to identify the underlying causes of these issues as they can be due to physical or psychological factors. Seeking professional help can improve sexual performance and satisfaction for both partners.
Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
I am 19 years old and have been masturbating for the past 4-5 years. I tried to quit several times but couldn't due to disturbances in my studies. Now, I want to quit and be healthy for marriage, both physically and sexually. Please guide me as I cannot talk to a doctor face to face.
Male | 19
Masturbation is normal, and many people do it. However, if you feel it's becoming too much, try distracting yourself. Exercise and hobbies can help. Sometimes, losing control can come from stress or boredom, so finding ways to manage those feelings is important. Getting enough sleep, eating well, and talking to someone you trust can also make a difference. If needed, don't hesitate to seek help.
Answered on 13th Aug '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
I'm newly married and I can't get erections from last 4 days
Male | 26
Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Arun Kumar
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