Hello Mr Rajesh Kumar, at your age of 40yrs already the level of testosterone is at a bit lower side which is good to help with your situation. 

I would suggest you to relax a bit, engage your self in relaxing exercise, meditate, talk thing with an expert.

Counselling and discussion therapy will be very helpful. 

 

The pre-ejaculation fluid may contain dry sperm, which is likely to bring about pregnancy in case the condom breaks. A delayed period can be a symptom of pregnancy, however, it may also be the result of stress or other causes. In case of a broken condom, it is advisable to seek emergency contraception to prevent unintended pregnancy. Monitor any early signs of pregnancy and think about taking a pregnancy test if her period is late. 

It's common to wonder about sexual performance, particularly if you've been engaging in masturbation quite often. Fast termination during sexual intercourse is called premature ejaculation (PE). The symptoms of PE are being unable to command when you ejaculate. Too much masturbation can be a reason for PE. Reduce the frequency of masturbation- practice methods of delaying ejaculation like the start-stop method, and- communicate honestly about your worries despite finding this advice difficult. 

It's good news that all your HIV tests came back negative after the risky encounter. However, you should be aware of the fact that sometimes it takes time for HIV to develop and to get detected by tests, so it is advisable to get retested after three months just to be sure. Always use a condom to lower the risk of infection both for yourself and your partner.

You could have an infection in your urinary system (UTI). Some­times, this occurs after intimate re­lations. Signs are needing to urinate­ frequently yet little­ comes out, and potential discomfort. Be sure­ to consume ample fluids and try to urinate following intimacy. Cranbe­rry juice may aid. If symptoms persist, antibiotics might be ne­eded.

Low libido and sperm count issues, as well as infertility, may be a result of hormonal imbalances, unhealthy lifestyles, or some medical conditions. Changes like eating a balanced diet, getting regular exercise, reducing stress, and avoiding harmful substances can sometimes result in improvement in these issues. Consult with the doctors to get individualized treatment choices and counseling.