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Male | 22

How to Handle Incestuous Feelings Towards Mother?

I am a south indian boy(22) and my mother(39) is a housewife.My father and mother got seperated 8 years ago.Since then me and my mother are living alone.From past few years i am getting sexually attracted to my mom and i think she is also sexually attracted to me. She keeps kissing me irrespective of the situation and time.She also touches her private parts to me accidentally and she smiles after it.She also says that you are everything for me and you have to replace your father. Now i am very much attracted to her and want to make love with her.What should i do? Should i ask her directly or should i take it slowly with her.

Answered on 6th Jan '25

It's normal to feel deep emotions in an intimate relationship, even though you have to act cautiously in this case. Devotion can come as a result of a strong emotional connection, yet giving in to those feelings can have quite the opposite effect. My advice is to first think about the emotions you have and try to discuss them comfortably, maybe during therapy. A therapist is able to provide you with personalized guidance which can be very helpful in such cases. You should not only focus on your but also your mother's psychological well-being. Going to a professional therapist means that you will approach this process with compassion and in a healthful manner.

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Questions & Answers on "Sexology Treatment" (740)

Dear Doctor, I am 32 years old. I am gone through frenulumplasty in last month but still facing issues / bleeding while having intercourse. Kindly advise.

Male | 32

There can be many possibilities for the problem... get yourself evaluated again for best advice

Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Arun Kumar

Dr. Arun Kumar

I had sex with a girl, using a condom. She had her period starting on the 4th of march, and her ovulation was on the 17th of march, we had sex on the night of the 23rd of march, i didnt ejaculate inside the condom, if there was any liquid it was precum. I had previously masturbated the last night on the 22nd of march. I have urinated multiple times, so does that mean that there wasnt any residual sperms? My erection didnt last long and my penis deflated, causing the penis to slip out of the condom, and the ring was outside of her vagina. When we noticed, i took out the condom, we checked if there was a hole in the condom, and there was not. For precautionary reasons, she took Plan B pill 30 minutes after the "accident". What are the chances of unwanted pregnancy? She is also expected to get her period in 6 days, on the 31st of march. She said that she took a Plan B pill the 1 month ago. Should we worry if her period is late by a couple of days?

Male | 19

The chances of pregnancy are­ pretty low. Plan B works by disrupting ovulation temporarily. So if your pe­riod is slightly late after taking it, that's normal. If it's late­ or you notice odd symptoms, you can always take a pregnancy te­st. Try not to stress too much. 

Answered on 1st Aug '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Sexual problem. Premature ijjaculation

Male | 31

Many factors can be responsible for the problem... Detailed information is needed.. Your problem of premature ejaculation is most common sexual problem in all ages of men. Fortunately it has high recovery rate through ayurvedic medications. 

I am explaining you briefly about premature ejaculation so that it will eliminate your fears. 
In premature ejaculation men come out very fast, Men gets discharged either before penetration or immediately after penetration, they hardly get some strokes. So the female partner remains unsatisfied. 

This may be due to so many factors like more heat in the body, excessive sex feelings, hyper sensitivity of the penis glands, thin semen, general nerves weakness, excessive masturbation, excessive Porn watching, and High cholesterol. High blood pressure, Diabetes, Obesity, thyroid, heart problem, alcohol, Tobacco use, Sleep disorders, tension, stress etc. 

This problem of premature ejaculation is very much treatable. 

I am suggesting you some ayurvedic medicines. 

Take shatavaradi churan half teaspoon in the morning and one in the night, 

Take tablet manmath Ras one in the morning and one in the night. 

Take tablet Pushp dhanva Ras one in the morning and one in the night, and take tablet Sidh makardhwaj Vati with gold, one in the morning and one in the night after food. 

All three preferably with hot milk or with water. 

Avoid junk food, oily, more spicy food, alcohol, tobacco, tension and anxiety. 

Start doing yoga. Pranayam, meditation, Vajroli mudra, Ashwini mudra, kegel exercise for at least 1 hour a day. 

Start taking hot milk twice a day also 2 to 3 dates in the morning and in the night with the milk. 

DO all this for 3 months and see the results. 

If you don't get satisfactory results then please go to your family doctor or to a good
sexologist

 

Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Arun Kumar

Dr. Arun Kumar

Im a 32-year-old male and having this problem for about a week now it happens every night. But right now my dick has been hard for over 5 hours I can't seem to make myself cum and I don't know what's wrong with me?

Male | 32

There can be many possibilities for the problem.. get yourself evaluated for best advice

Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Arun Kumar

Dr. Arun Kumar

I have pain in my left testicle,it started as minor pain but it's increasing day by day I had the same issue few months ago,but it healed itself automatically Now what should I do?

Male | 26

Hello, Testicular pain is pain or discomfort that is felt in one or both testicles. The pain may originate from the testicles itself, or it may be the result of other conditions affecting the scrotum, groin. Or abdomen
Testicular pain can be an acute (short-term) or chronic (long-term) condition. The testicular pain may be constant or intermittent.
Potential causes of testicular pain are Varicocele. Hydrocele. Jerk… injury, twisting, Kidney stones, infection, hertnia, nerve damage, fluid buildup and inflammation.
Many times testicular or scrotum pain is due to... when you are in sexual arousal mood for a long period of time without any discharge… example you are reading or watching porn material or you are with your girlfriend in a common place like in garden or somewhere... and you both are in a sexual mood while talking or reading or watching a porn material but there cannot be any discharge because of the public places.... after that when you come out of that sexual arousal mood.... you will feel a tremendous pain in your scrotum... but that is a temporary one and that pain is gone once if you masturbate or you do sexual intercourse or the pain goes in a day or two on its own.
These are some steps you can take to reduce this pain.
Wear an athletic supporter or Langot or tight underwear to provide support 2 the testicles.
Use Ice packs.
You must do sonography of the scrotum and show the report to your family doctor or a
Surgeon.
Most of the times when in the report it comes varicocele and hydrocele then the permanent solution is operation only
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Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Arun Kumar

Dr. Arun Kumar

Erectile dysfunction problem

Male | 37

Erectile dysfunction occurs when it is difficult to obtain or maintain an erection. This may be caused by factors such as anxiety, harmful activities like some remedies cansmoking, or medical issues such as diabetes. To resolve this issue, a person could try eating well, exercising, and confiding in somebody about their fears. 

Answered on 10th June '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam

I'm a 41 year old male. I'm having problems when having sex. I don't last long 2 to 3 minutes. Haw can I go for long can I take pills

Male | 41

Premature ejaculation is a common problem for men as it is often the reason for them to lose interest in sex due to the so-called "early stop." This can occur because people deal with stress or anxiety or get too overexcited. For this, there are treatments such as behavioral techniques, counseling, or numbing creams. Preferably, a doctor should be your first point of call instead of self-medication.

Answered on 10th Sept '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam

dear sir I am facing a lot of problem in having sex. Sperm comes out immediately and then I am not able to get an erection.

Male | 27

One issue­ is when the sperm come­s out too fast, which doctors call premature ejaculation. Anothe­r problem is when a man cannot get or ke­ep his penis hard, known as ere­ctile dysfunction. These challe­nges may happen due to stre­ss, worry, or health issues. To make things be­tter, open communication with your partner is ke­y. Sharing feelings and nee­ds can bring understanding. Managing stress through relaxation, e­xercise, or hobbies can also he­lp. In some cases, counselling or me­dicine prescribed by a doctor may be­ beneficial. 

Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam

Is washing hands necessary after touching dry sperm can dry perm+touched by hand directly move without wash  

Male | 31

If you have touched dry sperm and then touch your private parts (or eyes), it may result in the following: itching, redness, or even an infection. Without having touched the rest of your body, washing your hands with soap and water can help you avoid getting sick. 

Answered on 24th Oct '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Erectile dysfunction, the causes and how to treat ED

Male | 24

Some me­n face erectile­ dysfunction. They can't get an ere­ction when desired. It might re­late to health issues. He­art disease, diabete­s, and hypertension impact it. Stress also impacts e­rections negatively. Exe­rcise and nutrition improve male se­xual health. Medicines and the­rapy often help too. Talk to doctors to solve it appropriate­ly.

Answered on 26th Sept '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Good Day I have had an incident 3 days ago where I pleasured a woman with my fingers. Unfortunately she started to bleed. I want to know what is the risks cathing HIV since I do not know her status. I also do not have any major cuts on my fingers

Male | 35

Catching HIV through finger stuff is highly unlikely, e­specially without cuts. HIV symptoms include feve­r, tiredness, and swollen glands. To put your mind at e­ase, getting teste­d for HIV is an option. Practicing safer activities protects you and othe­rs.

Answered on 5th Aug '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam

Does masturbation causes following problem? Will I face it if I've been frequently masturbating since 13 and now I'm 23 year old? I read this in some article that said - "The prostate is a gland located exactly in the neck of the bladder, it secretes a whitish and viscous liquid that serves as a vehicle for sperm. This gland normally completes its development by the age of 21. When a young man masturbates before completing his development (21 years), the prostate atrophies, causing prostatitis after the age of 40, which is the enlargement of this gland that prevents him from urinating and he has to use the probe to do so. Later they have to operate and remove this gland." Should I worry? Please tell me.

Male | 23

Excessive masturbation do cause many harmful problem... but worrying about it wouldn't help... 

Masturbation is a natural phenomenon. All men do this but as a natural principle… excess of everything is always bad, so you must try to control it.
Don't do it more than once or twice in a month.
Don't worry you can do that... just do not watch porn… Try not to be remain alone, don't read or view sexual literature, books, whatsApp & porn videos etc.
Avoid oily, more spicy, Chilly and junk foods.
Do exercise daily for one hr or yoga mainly Pranayam… Meditation… vajroli Mudra... Ashwini mudra. Start reading religious books.
Please note that now a days the main drawback and side effect of the masturbation is once you are addicted to masturbation mostly and always by watching porn… where you get different type of stories... relations... girls… body... and styles... etc.
Once u got married u don't get all those things with wife so u don't get aroused and you don't get proper erection.
Now a day's mostly patients comes to us with the complaint that they are not able to get erection with wife in the bed but they are getting erection in the bathroom while masturbation.
This is creating a lot of problem in their married life so my advice is to control it. If u are not able to do so then you must consult your family doctor, many times it's not possible to control without the help of your doctor.
You can take Chandra kala ras 1 tablet morning and night after food
Yastimadhu chuma 3gms morning and night with water
Sidhamakara dwaja 1 tablet morning and night after food.
Do all the above suggested treatment for 3 months and see the results.
If you don" get satisfactory results then you can also contact me on my private chat or directly in my clinic. We can send you the medicines by courier.
My website www.kayakalpinternational.com

Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Arun Kumar

Dr. Arun Kumar

I have done so many times mestrobation from 3 to 4 year now I have done control in mastubaration but I have done so many times mestrobation please help me

Male | 17

Masturbation is a natural phenomenon. All men do this but as a natural principle… excess of everything is always bad, so you must try to control it.

Don't do it more than once or twice in a month.

Don't worry you can do that... just do not watch porn… Try not to be remain alone, don't read or view sexual literature, books, whatsApp & porn videos etc.

Avoid oily, more spicy, Chilly and junk foods.

Do exercise daily for one hr or yoga mainly Pranayam… Meditation… vajroli Mudra... Ashwini mudra. Start reading religious books.

Please note that now a days the main drawback and side effect of the masturbation is once you are addicted to masturbation mostly and always by watching porn… where you get different type of stories... relations... girls… body... and styles... etc.

Once u got married u don't get all those things with wife so u don't get aroused and you don't get proper erection.

Now a day's mostly patients comes to us with the complaint that they are not able to get erection with wife in the bed but they are getting erection in the bathroom while masturbation.

This is creating a lot of problem in their married life so my advice is to control it. If u are not able to do so then you must consult your family doctor, many times it's not possible to control without the help of your doctor.

You can take Chandra kala ras 1 tablet morning and night after food

Yastimadhu chuma 3gms morning and night with water

Sidhamakara dwaja 1 tablet morning and night after food.

Do all the above suggested treatment for 3 months and see the results.
If you don" get satisfactory results then you can also contact me on my private chat or directly in my clinic. We can send you the medicines by courier.

My website www.kayakalpinternational.com

Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Arun Kumar

Dr. Arun Kumar

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