Male | 22
How to Handle Incestuous Feelings Towards Mother?
I am a south indian boy(22) and my mother(39) is a housewife.My father and mother got seperated 8 years ago.Since then me and my mother are living alone.From past few years i am getting sexually attracted to my mom and i think she is also sexually attracted to me. She keeps kissing me irrespective of the situation and time.She also touches her private parts to me accidentally and she smiles after it.She also says that you are everything for me and you have to replace your father. Now i am very much attracted to her and want to make love with her.What should i do? Should i ask her directly or should i take it slowly with her.
Sexologist
Answered on 6th Jan '25
It's normal to feel deep emotions in an intimate relationship, even though you have to act cautiously in this case. Devotion can come as a result of a strong emotional connection, yet giving in to those feelings can have quite the opposite effect. My advice is to first think about the emotions you have and try to discuss them comfortably, maybe during therapy. A therapist is able to provide you with personalized guidance which can be very helpful in such cases. You should not only focus on your but also your mother's psychological well-being. Going to a professional therapist means that you will approach this process with compassion and in a healthful manner.
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Questions & Answers on "Sexology Treatment" (740)
Why do I pee myself during my sleep after I masturbate
Female | 16
Some people may wet the bed after self-pleasure. The muscles controlling urination might relax too much, leading to night accidents. Having a full bladder beforehand could also cause this. To prevent it, try urinating before bedtime. If the issue persists, consulting a sexologist can explore further solutions. They'll guide you through available options.
Answered on 21st Nov '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
He came in between my thighs and hand from backside without any direct contact and I also put my hand little bit away from the vagina and after that I immediately wipe it off first and then washed it off and also took levenogestrel within 24 hours but it was 4 days before my expected ovulation day. Is there any risk of pregnancy?
Female | 25
As the levonorgestrel pill was taken within 24 hours, it is working effectively in preventing the risk of pregnancy. This is especially the case if the pill was taken right after the possible exposure. As you said, it was a few days before ovulation, so it was much safer the next time. You may experience side effects such as changes in your period or nausea, which are normal. To be safe, if your period is late, you can use a homemade pregnancy test. If you have any more questions, contact sexologist for personalized advice and support.
Answered on 7th Jan '25
Dr. Madhu Sudan
14 years old, wish to know more about the limits of masturbation and whether i am addicted to it or not because im average twice or thrice a day
Male | 14
Masturbation is a widely practiced act that may be dissimilar among individuals. Being it a few times a day is not unusual, but if you see that it is a problem in your daily life, and your relationships, or if it is compulsive, it might be best to have a deeper look. A person’s situation may lead to anxiety or an inability to stop. Being conscious of yourself is very important; check your duties and relationship issues if they mostly revolve around masturbation. In cases where you are not quite certain or highly anxious, seeking the advice of a sexologist will offer the desired clarity and support that fits exactly your case.
Answered on 19th Dec '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Dear Doctor, I am 32 years old. I am gone through frenulumplasty in last month but still facing issues / bleeding while having intercourse. Kindly advise.
Male | 32
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Arun Kumar
I had sex with a girl, using a condom. She had her period starting on the 4th of march, and her ovulation was on the 17th of march, we had sex on the night of the 23rd of march, i didnt ejaculate inside the condom, if there was any liquid it was precum. I had previously masturbated the last night on the 22nd of march. I have urinated multiple times, so does that mean that there wasnt any residual sperms? My erection didnt last long and my penis deflated, causing the penis to slip out of the condom, and the ring was outside of her vagina. When we noticed, i took out the condom, we checked if there was a hole in the condom, and there was not. For precautionary reasons, she took Plan B pill 30 minutes after the "accident". What are the chances of unwanted pregnancy? She is also expected to get her period in 6 days, on the 31st of march. She said that she took a Plan B pill the 1 month ago. Should we worry if her period is late by a couple of days?
Male | 19
The chances of pregnancy are pretty low. Plan B works by disrupting ovulation temporarily. So if your period is slightly late after taking it, that's normal. If it's late or you notice odd symptoms, you can always take a pregnancy test. Try not to stress too much.
Answered on 1st Aug '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
I am not that much power for having sex. I am feeling so low and I am not able to satisfy my wife.
Male | 24
It is unfortunate to hear you struggling with the depletion of energy you are dealing with. Person with low mood is a common thing that some people experience. It can be because of stress, tiredness, or illnesses. Rest enough, eat nutritious foods, and be physically active. Along with your partner's assistance, say something about yourself. If these feelings persist, it may be wise to consult a sexologist for more guidance.
Answered on 26th Nov '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Sexual problem. Premature ijjaculation
Male | 31
Many factors can be responsible for the problem... Detailed information is needed.. Your problem of premature ejaculation is most common sexual problem in all ages of men. Fortunately it has high recovery rate through ayurvedic medications.
I am explaining you briefly about premature ejaculation so that it will eliminate your fears.
In premature ejaculation men come out very fast, Men gets discharged either before penetration or immediately after penetration, they hardly get some strokes. So the female partner remains unsatisfied.
This may be due to so many factors like more heat in the body, excessive sex feelings, hyper sensitivity of the penis glands, thin semen, general nerves weakness, excessive masturbation, excessive Porn watching, and High cholesterol. High blood pressure, Diabetes, Obesity, thyroid, heart problem, alcohol, Tobacco use, Sleep disorders, tension, stress etc.
This problem of premature ejaculation is very much treatable.
I am suggesting you some ayurvedic medicines.
Take shatavaradi churan half teaspoon in the morning and one in the night,
Take tablet manmath Ras one in the morning and one in the night.
Take tablet Pushp dhanva Ras one in the morning and one in the night, and take tablet Sidh makardhwaj Vati with gold, one in the morning and one in the night after food.
All three preferably with hot milk or with water.
Avoid junk food, oily, more spicy food, alcohol, tobacco, tension and anxiety.
Start doing yoga. Pranayam, meditation, Vajroli mudra, Ashwini mudra, kegel exercise for at least 1 hour a day.
Start taking hot milk twice a day also 2 to 3 dates in the morning and in the night with the milk.
DO all this for 3 months and see the results.
If you don't get satisfactory results then please go to your family doctor or to a good sexologist.
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Arun Kumar
how to squirt. and where is the g spot
Female | 14
'The G-spot appears to be a few inches inside the vaginal canal wall and slightly above the skin of the abdomen in most cases. Nevertheless, it may become very sensitive in some women. Relaxation and arousal that are appropriate for the partners during sexual activities intensify the feelings of satisfaction. The methods that are known are such as mild pressure or a rhythmic movement in that place. If sexual health or experience is a concern for you, consult a sexologist for individualized counseling to guide you and make you feel more secure.
Answered on 13th Dec '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Im a 32-year-old male and having this problem for about a week now it happens every night. But right now my dick has been hard for over 5 hours I can't seem to make myself cum and I don't know what's wrong with me?
Male | 32
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Arun Kumar
I have pain in my left testicle,it started as minor pain but it's increasing day by day I had the same issue few months ago,but it healed itself automatically Now what should I do?
Male | 26
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Arun Kumar
Erectile dysfunction problem
Male | 37
Erectile dysfunction occurs when it is difficult to obtain or maintain an erection. This may be caused by factors such as anxiety, harmful activities like some remedies cansmoking, or medical issues such as diabetes. To resolve this issue, a person could try eating well, exercising, and confiding in somebody about their fears.
Answered on 10th June '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
I'm a 41 year old male. I'm having problems when having sex. I don't last long 2 to 3 minutes. Haw can I go for long can I take pills
Male | 41
Premature ejaculation is a common problem for men as it is often the reason for them to lose interest in sex due to the so-called "early stop." This can occur because people deal with stress or anxiety or get too overexcited. For this, there are treatments such as behavioral techniques, counseling, or numbing creams. Preferably, a doctor should be your first point of call instead of self-medication.
Answered on 10th Sept '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
Can the use of Peg NT Lite 50mg/10mg Tablet affect my sexual life permanently
Male | 26
Peg NT Lite 50mg/10mg Tablet medication may sometimes induce temporary side effects that might influence your sexual life. A few individuals may present with symptoms like less interest in sex or problems with performance. These side effects are mostly not permanent and should be solved once you stop taking the medication. If you're worried, it's always a good idea to talk with a sexologist about any issues you might be having.
Answered on 3rd Sept '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
dear sir I am facing a lot of problem in having sex. Sperm comes out immediately and then I am not able to get an erection.
Male | 27
One issue is when the sperm comes out too fast, which doctors call premature ejaculation. Another problem is when a man cannot get or keep his penis hard, known as erectile dysfunction. These challenges may happen due to stress, worry, or health issues. To make things better, open communication with your partner is key. Sharing feelings and needs can bring understanding. Managing stress through relaxation, exercise, or hobbies can also help. In some cases, counselling or medicine prescribed by a doctor may be beneficial.
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
Is washing hands necessary after touching dry sperm can dry perm+touched by hand directly move without wash
Male | 31
If you have touched dry sperm and then touch your private parts (or eyes), it may result in the following: itching, redness, or even an infection. Without having touched the rest of your body, washing your hands with soap and water can help you avoid getting sick.
Answered on 24th Oct '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Hi, this is hema. My husband addicted masterbating for several years and he didn't respond in children works .he resigned his job and he is nothing doing from 6 months, only he is doing masterbating in entire day .so I thought to do one thing that I want to involve him in some Business so that he might change but here also I failed.he didn't stopped masterbating a
Female | 30
It seems that your husband is experiencing a behavior that is hurting his daily life. More importantly, excessive masturbation is sometimes a coping mechanism for the jitters, anxiety, or depression that may be underlying. Involving him in activities or work-related matters can also be beneficial, but more importantly, addressing the underlying issues together is necessary. Promote an atmosphere of open dialogue about his feelings and discuss getting support from a therapist or sexologist. Therapy can give him the tools to tame his impulses and help him be mentally fit.
Answered on 23rd Dec '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Erectile dysfunction, the causes and how to treat ED
Male | 24
Some men face erectile dysfunction. They can't get an erection when desired. It might relate to health issues. Heart disease, diabetes, and hypertension impact it. Stress also impacts erections negatively. Exercise and nutrition improve male sexual health. Medicines and therapy often help too. Talk to doctors to solve it appropriately.
Answered on 26th Sept '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Good Day I have had an incident 3 days ago where I pleasured a woman with my fingers. Unfortunately she started to bleed. I want to know what is the risks cathing HIV since I do not know her status. I also do not have any major cuts on my fingers
Male | 35
Catching HIV through finger stuff is highly unlikely, especially without cuts. HIV symptoms include fever, tiredness, and swollen glands. To put your mind at ease, getting tested for HIV is an option. Practicing safer activities protects you and others.
Answered on 5th Aug '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
Does masturbation causes following problem? Will I face it if I've been frequently masturbating since 13 and now I'm 23 year old? I read this in some article that said - "The prostate is a gland located exactly in the neck of the bladder, it secretes a whitish and viscous liquid that serves as a vehicle for sperm. This gland normally completes its development by the age of 21. When a young man masturbates before completing his development (21 years), the prostate atrophies, causing prostatitis after the age of 40, which is the enlargement of this gland that prevents him from urinating and he has to use the probe to do so. Later they have to operate and remove this gland." Should I worry? Please tell me.
Male | 23
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Arun Kumar
I have done so many times mestrobation from 3 to 4 year now I have done control in mastubaration but I have done so many times mestrobation please help me
Male | 17
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Arun Kumar
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