You can’t get hard during intercourse but have no problem when you masturbate. This might be caused by stress or anxiety. At times being too concerned about how well we do in bed affects our bodies’ ability to function normally. Take it easy. However, if it happens again then consult your doctor immediately.

If you've ever experienced an itchy anus after using a rectal plug, you may have concerns about HPV. In the anal region, this virus is able to cause warts but itching is not exclusively limited to it. Also, itching can result from irritation and infections as well. To ensure everything is okay, make sure you see a doctor for check-up. 

Considering the circumstances, it is improbable that your girlfriend could become pregnant if there was no ejaculation. Nevertheless, it is good to realize that any genital contact has some risk involved. Therefore, if she starts experiencing any unusual signs like missing her periods or having abnormal bleeding; I advise you to go for a pregnancy test so that you can be sure about everything.

Catching HIV through finger stuff is highly unlikely, e­specially without cuts. HIV symptoms include feve­r, tiredness, and swollen glands. To put your mind at e­ase, getting teste­d for HIV is an option. Practicing safer activities protects you and othe­rs.

You can be sure you don't have a particular disease since the results were negative. Sometimes, the virus may take a couple of weeks to become detectable in the tests. Fever, fatigue, and the swelling of lymph nodes are indeed some of the possible symptoms of HIV. In any case, these symptoms may result from other ailments. If you're concerned, it's always safer to keep taking regular tests. 

For someone young like yourself can be common to masturbate. It is safe to do so each day and it will not hurt you. However, excessive masturbation may lead to soreness or irritation. If you experience these symptoms, take a break for your body to heal itself. 

Reaching climax quickly during se­x is called premature e­jaculation. You ejaculate in under a minute­ after penetration. This proble­m makes controlling ejaculation difficult. Reasons can be­ mental - anxiety, stress. Or physical factors contribute­ too. Counseling helps some me­n improve control. Others try exe­rcises or medications for bette­r management.

You likely suffer from some mental health issues, such as depression, insomnia, and porn addiction for sexual satisfaction. Long-term lack of closeness can have a devastating effect. Try to negotiate with your wife about your feelings and discuss therapy or ways to improve your social skills and feel understood.

Even though you have the condom on, some STIs can still be transmitted, such as herpes or genital warts. Signs could be pain during urination, unusual discharge from the vagina or penis, sores, lumps, or itching around the genital area. See a doctor for testing if any of these symptoms show up.