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Female | 28

How can I improve my penetrative sex experience?

Hi, I have been facing some issues in my sex life. We had couple of difficult experiences while having penetration previously, so we took a break from it and switched to oral and other forms of stimulation and we were enjoying it as well. But now we wanted do penetrative sex again, and when we tried we failed, as I have got pretty scared and meanwhile he lost his erection and wasn't completely hard on, so the experience wasn't good. How can we fix this? Also, I feel even if we stop being fearful about it, we are sometimes unable to find the hole, sometimes the vagina gets too dry to allow the penis in, and then it gets frustrating. Also, being on top is something that I am absolutely scared of, first I am not sure if my posture is correct to take it ahead, second I am fumble a lot to find the hole, even tho I know where it is exactly. My vagina expands a lot when fingering happens, even with three fingers, but I assume there is some issue with penis penetration. Please help.

Answered on 25th Feb '25

It’s common to feel anxious about penetration after difficult experiences. Issues like dryness can affect comfort, so consider using a water-based lubricant to help. Gradual reintroduction to penetration in a relaxed setting may build confidence. Practicing different positions, including on top, can help you feel more in control; communication with your partner is key. If anxiety persists, it might be beneficial to speak with a sexologist who can offer personalized strategies and support tailored to your needs. 

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Hello, Im actually having a pregnancy scare if its okay to ask here because ive been mentally down right now my anxiety is killing me, Is it possible that semen can pass through 2 layers of clothes? because i fingered my girlfriend but only in the outside and I didnt insert my finger is it possible if pre cum is present will she be pregnant? please help me

Male | 20

The chances of pregnancy is very less 

Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Arun Kumar

Dr. Arun Kumar

I am masturbating from a very early age i think from the age of 7 or 8 . I think because of excessive masturbation i am suffering from pre mature ejaculation . While watching porn I discharge in half a minute. How to get rid of pme ? Is it cureable ?

Male | 20

Body activity is usual, however, when a teenage boy exceeds the limit of practicing masturbation he may face premature ejaculation. You might come to a climax fast while watching porn. This is termed as premature ejaculation. You can use methods such as stopping and starting during arousal, concentrating on relaxation, and if needed, talking to a therapist, to work on this. 

Answered on 28th Oct '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Dr. Madhu Sudan

I am 43 years male l have Erectial dysfunction and i have diabetes from Last 8 year now I lost total erection I used viagra 100 mg but no response

Male | 43

This trouble can occur in diabetic males. This is due to damage to blood vessels and nerves. The prescribed treatment will depend on how severe and resistant your condition is. Besides Viagra, your doctor will inform you of other remedies that you may want to use together with Viagra to see whether there is any improvement. They can also advise you to try counseling or other psychological treatments that can be helpful for you and your partner.

Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Dr. Madhu Sudan

I am Abdur Razzak and from Bangladesh. I am 34 years of age. I have a problem of erectile dysfunction for 18 years. Do you provide the treatment for it?

Male | 34

your problem of erectile dysfunction most commonly occur in ages of men: fortunately it has high recovery rate of 90% through ayurvedic medications.

I am explaining briefly about erectile dysfunction so that it takes fear out of you.

In erectile dysfunction, men are not able to get or keep an erection that is sufficient to have penetrative sex. This may be due to so many factors like High cholesterol, High blood pressure, Diabetes, excessive masturbation, excessive Porn watching, nerves weakness, Obesity, thyroid, heart problem, alcohol, Tobacco use, Sleep disorders. Low testosterone, tension, stress etc.,

This problem of erectile dysfunction is very much treatable.

I am suggesting you some ayurvedic medicines,
Take Aswagandhadi churan half teaspoon in the morning & in the night.

Take Capsule SHILAJIT One in the morning and one in the night.

Take tablet Brihat Bangeshwar ras one in the morning one and one in the night after food.

All three preferably with hot milk or with water

Also apply and message Shri Gopal tail on your penis three times a week for 2 to 4 minutes.

Avoid junk food, oily and more spicy food, alcohol, tobacco, tension and anxiety.

Start doing brisk walk or running or cardio exercises for at least 1 hour a day.

Start taking hot milk twice a day also two to three dates in the morning and in the night with milk.

Do all the above suggested treatment for 3 months and see the results.

If you don't get satisfactory results then please go to your family doctor or a good sexologist.

You can also contact me on my private chat or directly in my clinic. We can send you the medicines by courier.

My website: www.kayakalpinternational.com

Answered on 16th Dec '24

Dr. Arun Kumar

Dr. Arun Kumar

How to cure premature ejaculation and what is the medicine for it

Male | 29

Premature ejaculation can be treated by different methods including the stop-start technique, squeeze method and Kegels. Other medications used by specialists after a thorough survey include dapoxetine and tramadol. Proper medical treatment is necessary in case of prolonged or recurring premature ejaculation.

Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam

I am 30 year old female. I am single from past 3 years.. I am in one sided love with one person whom I can never pursue. I strictly don't want another man in my life. And strictly I am not interested in self exploration things. But the sexual desires and wants are leading to depression. I want to destroy my sexual desires and thoughts so as to feel less intimacy frustrated. Is there any medicines that can help reduce sex wanting harmones ?

Female | 30

It's important to understand that sexual needs are a natural part of being human, not something abnormal. It's okay to feel bothered or depressed about them. Medications like hormone suppressors are risky and can cause serious side effects. Instead, I recommend speaking with a counselor or therapist who can help you explore and manage these feelings in a healthy, positive way, rather than suppressing them.

Answered on 21st Nov '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam

I am 36 yr old male havg Ed and gets tired soon needs sexology advise and feels low bcz of this

Male | 36

In case you have problems with erectile dysfunction and energy levels which are not enough it may be useful to consult a professional sexologist. These symptoms may be attributed to several conditions, and a specialist will offer an accurate diagnosis and recommend effective treatment.

Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam

I am 25 yera old. I have early discharge problem

Male | 25

This could be due to various reasons like anxiety, stress, or even certain medical conditions. It's a must to have thorough communication with your partner and be as relaxed as possible during intercourse. Try out these techniques too; the start-stop method and consulting a doctor can be beneficial. 

Answered on 14th Oct '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Hello, I'm 17 years old.I lost feeling in my bladder and clitoris.I don't know when the bladder is full.I don't feel any excitement and sex drive anymore.The clitoris is no longer sensitive to stimuli, to touch.A year ago I had a feeling. I had ultrasound and blood tests performed by a gynecologist and a urologist, the results of the tests show no abnormalities. At this age I shouldn't have any problems with it. It worries me that I won't get any pleasure from having sex. What could be the cause? Is there any chance and way to get back feeling in clitoris and bladder? Please help.

Female | 17

There can be a psychological factors associated with the problem.. better get yourself evaluated for best advice.. 

counseling therapy is needed.. 

You can also contact me on my private chat or directly in my clinic. We can send you the medicines by courier.

My website: www.kavakalpinternational.com

Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Arun Kumar

Dr. Arun Kumar

Hi doctor, i am adil 34 years old, from oman, i have done something i am really afraid, i went to prostitute, once we laid on bed she started touch my penis and rubbing smoothly, after that she came close to me her back was touched my chest and my penis touch multiple time from side ( not sure if tip touched vagina) and she was already wet ejaculated, then i hugged her , and sucked her breast, not felt any fluid, there was no intercourse no vaginal or anal sex, when i came back home after couple of hours i felt something wrong, and my penis tip started burning mild, then after some days irritation and burning more also transparent discharge, i went to the doctor and he tested, culture urine and cbc and crp, they found a bacteria and inflection of prostate and urine, but he said its in intial stage, in reports not mentioned what time of bacteria present no bacteria name was there, he. Gave me cefim 400 and ural powder for 10 days , pain reduced and discharge as well but still there is burning which goes and come back sometimes mild, my question is am i in risk of hiv?

Male | 34

Answered on 24th Dec '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Dr. Madhu Sudan

How I can stop mastrubation as I'm doing it 3 to 4 times a week and is it effective on my cricket life

Male | 25

Masturbation is a regular sexual activity that is natural and healthy. It has no effect on your overall physical well being and your ability in cricket. Moreover, if you want to reduce the frequency but unable to do by yourself, you should visit sexual health specialist. They can assist you in discovering the real problem and give you the needed advice on how to cope up with the situation.

Answered on 9th Sept '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Mera penis sex karte time nahi hua khada prr vaise ho jata hai agar mai mastrubation karta hu Aisa kyu ho raha hai ?? Aisa 2 baar ho gya

Male | 23

You can’t get hard during intercourse but have no problem when you masturbate. This might be caused by stress or anxiety. At times being too concerned about how well we do in bed affects our bodies’ ability to function normally. Take it easy. However, if it happens again then consult your doctor immediately.

Answered on 14th June '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Dr. Madhu Sudan

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