Male | 22
I am a 22 year old male,i have been mastrubating to gay thoughts since 12. from then, i have been mastrubting to gay thoughts and then fell disgusted. over the last 2 months,i have been mastrubating more to gay thougths than other sex thoughts. i am in love with a girl and i love her so much and i wish to live my life with her forever. but these thoughts and feelings pressurise me a lot and i dont want to be a gay and i really want to be with her. these thoughts make me suicidal. is there any solution to these problem? like if there is no,then i really want to die

Ayurveda
Answered on 6th Oct '24
It may be a side effects of excessive masturbation..
Masturbation is a natural phenomenon. All men do this but as a natural principle… excess of everything is always bad, so you must try to control it.
Don't do it more than once or twice in a month.
Don't worry you can do that... just do not watch porn… Try not to be remain alone, don't read or view sexual literature, books, whatsApp & porn videos etc.
Avoid oily, more spicy, Chilly and junk foods.
Do exercise daily for one hr or yoga mainly Pranayam… Meditation… vajroli Mudra... Ashwini mudra. Start reading religious books.
Please note that now a days the main drawback and side effect of the masturbation is once you are addicted to masturbation mostly and always by watching porn… where you get different type of stories... relations... girls… body... and styles... etc.
Once u got married u don't get all those things with wife so u don't get aroused and you don't get proper erection.
Now a day's mostly patients comes to us with the complaint that they are not able to get erection with wife in the bed but they are getting erection in the bathroom while masturbation.
This is creating a lot of problem in their married life so my advice is to control it. If u are not able to do so then you must consult your family doctor, many times it's not possible to control without the help of your doctor.
You can take Chandra kala ras 1 tablet morning and night after food
Yastimadhu chuma 3gms morning and night with water
Sidhamakara dwaja 1 tablet morning and night after food.
Do all the above suggested treatment for 3 months and see the results.
If you don" get satisfactory results then you can also contact me on my private chat or directly in my clinic. We can send you the medicines by courier.
My website www.kayakalpinternational.com
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Questions & Answers on "Sexology Treatment" (849)
Masturbate is sexual activity or not?
Female | 23
Masturbation is indeed a form of sexual activity, typically considered a normal part of human sexuality. It can provide a means of exploring one’s body and gaining sexual pleasure. While it generally has no adverse effects, if you experience discomfort or anxiety related to this behavior, it may be helpful to speak with a sexologist. They can provide clarity and support tailored to your personal feelings and experiences.
Answered on 16th Feb '25

Dr. Madhu Sudan
I'm 25 years old and I'm masterbation addict I want to leave it but I need recover my septum
Male | 25
Frequent engagement in this behavior can lead to feelings of guilt, anxiety, or interference with daily life. It's often rooted in stress or boredom. To manage this, consider setting small goals, developing new hobbies, or engaging in physical activities to redirect your focus. Practicing mindfulness or seeking support from friends can also be helpful. If you find it challenging to reduce this habit, speaking with a sexologist may provide additional strategies tailored to your needs.
Answered on 10th Feb '25

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Hi I’m male 31 years old while having sex with my girlfriend I am unable to maintain erection for long time it’s like on and off and I’m very much attracted to her while having sex
Male | 31
main causes of erectile dysfunction during intercourse are the physical, psychological or lifestyle factors. It is recommended to seek the advice of a specialist in sexual health including urologists or sex therapists, so you can talk about your concerns and find out the real problem. They can offer you the right treatment plan and improve your sexual performance.
Answered on 9th Aug '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
I am having anxiety since 8 months, I am doing excessive masturbation since many years... I thing my anxiety is due to this. I have social anxiety....my brain gets too much pain and feels like blood is rushing in head due to anxiety in social places and travel
Male | 22
To begin with, over-masturbation does not bring about anxiety. Social anxiety you have can make you feel anxious when interacting with people in various environments. Signs include thoughts that won't get out of the head and head pain. Tension or genetics can be the factors. You could give deep breathing practices a shot or get some counseling. Always keep in mind that these emotions are usual and that they can be managed with encouragement and different techniques.
Answered on 30th Dec '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
I had sex intercourse on 20th August with two men and I continued to have it with my husband until 14th Sept I discovered I was pregnant .my periods were on 15th August. Now am confused of the father.they have providing help both
Female | 26
Pregnancy symptoms may include nausea, fatigue, and missed periods. The exact timing of conception can be complex, as sperm can survive several days in the body. I encourage you to schedule an appointment with your sexologist for a thorough evaluation. They can discuss your concerns, conduct tests to determine the due date and help clarify paternity options if desired. Remember, seeking professional guidance is crucial for your health and peace of mind.
Answered on 22nd Jan '25

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Due to masterbation my penis becomes small and i cums in a minute what should I do to become normal
Male | 28
Having a small penis and ejaculating too quickly is upsetting. The reason for rapid ejaculation might be nervousness or inexperience. Penis size doesn’t permanently change after masturbation. You could use relaxation methods and do slow practice to get better control. In case it keeps troubling you, then speaking with a therapist or counselor can help.
Answered on 11th June '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Iam suffering sexual problems like low energy, sudden ejaculation and low eraction
Male | 30
Answered on 10th Feb '25

Dr. Madhu Sudan
I just wanna ask about the curved penis. How can I make it straight or will it cause any problem during sex ?
Male | 21
Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Arun Kumar
I had an protected sex with an unknown lady a month back. I am afraid am i under risk of getting STI? Especially HIV?.
Male | 30
Yes, there is a risk of getting an STI, including HIV, even if you use protection, as no method is 100% foolproof. It's important to visit a doctor, preferably a specialist like a dermatologist, for proper testing and advice. Early diagnosis and treatment are crucial for managing any potential infection.
Answered on 10th Sept '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
My penis is small, how can I make it bigger, please help me
Male | 19
It's common to worry about size; many experience similar feelings. First, understand that size varies significantly among individuals and appears larger due to different factors like body composition. If you’re considering enhancement, options include exercises, devices, or surgical procedures. However, these can have mixed results and potential risks. A consultation with a sexologist can provide personalized advice and help explore safe methods.
Answered on 19th Feb '25

Dr. Madhu Sudan
masturbation addiction, 12 years, my body muscles have decreased, bones have become thinner, severe weakness in the body.
Male | 24
Don’t worry too much about it though because many people do masturbate; however, if one does so excessively this could be the cause behind what you’re going through. You might start feeling weaker than usual or notice some changes like less energy in general - all signs pointing towards too much self-pleasure being unhealthy behavior. So, try mending your ways by eating proper meals and working out often since these two acts will help accelerate recovery from this condition should they have already set in.
Answered on 12th Nov '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Kya seeds vaginal health ka liye best ha? After past masturbate jis ko left kiye howy 2 years ho gye ho yeh vagina ko healthy rky ga??
Female | 24
Seeds can be beneficial for overall health due to their nutrients, but they are not a specific remedy for vaginal wellness. Maintaining genital hygiene, a balanced diet, and staying hydrated are crucial. If you notice discomfort, unusual discharge, or changes in odor, these may signal an issue that needs attention. It’s essential to listen to your body. If you're feeling uncertain or have specific concerns, I recommend consulting with a sexologist. They can provide personalized advice and address any health questions you may have to ensure your wellbeing.
Answered on 16th Feb '25

Dr. Madhu Sudan
I am Abdur Razzak and from Bangladesh. I am 34 years of age. I have a problem of erectile dysfunction for 18 years. Do you provide the treatment for it?
Male | 34
Answered on 16th Dec '24

Dr. Arun Kumar
I am a 26 year old male. Married for 2 and a half years. I have struggled severely with hypersexuality and it's affecting my marriage. I need a libido dampener
Male | 26
It seems that you are struggling with a high interest in sex most of the time. There could be many causes of this like mental illness or imbalance of hormones. Taking care of yourself is vital as well as your relationship. If you want to reduce your intense longings, it might be good to consult a sexologist who can prescribe drugs to decrease libido.
Answered on 28th May '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
I have had a itch inside my penis for about a week in a half now and it only itches after I masterbate
Male | 22
Itching is a common symptom of infection or irritation after a week and a half of masturbation. Gently clean the area, avoid using strong soaps and wear loose clothes. If it continues, stop masturbating for a while and check if there is any difference. If there is none, seek medical attention.
Answered on 31st May '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
Is it normal for my foreskin to stay retracted, my dorsal nerve to appear thick, my penis slightly leftward curve, and for me to ejaculate in 1 minute? I used to watch porn and masturbate frequently but have now reduced it to once a week.
Male | 25
It's not uncommon for there to be variations in anatomy and function. A retracted foreskin may be a natural variation or indicate tightness. The thickness of the nerve could arise from stimulation or increased sensitivity. A slight curve is generally normal for many men. Regarding quick ejaculation, this can sometimes occur due to anxiety or arousal levels. Reducing sexual activity can help. I encourage you to practice relaxation techniques. If these concerns persist or impact your quality of life, please consult a sexologist for a thorough evaluation and personalized advice.
Answered on 18th Feb '25

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Zydus tab after we can take unwanted 72 tab
Female | 22
It is not appropriate to take the Zydus tab if Unwanted 72 you have already taken some. The Zydus brand covers a wide variety of medications, so it is essential to know which particular product is being mentioned. Consult your gynecologist about necessary precautions on emergency contraception and anything else that concerns other medications.
Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Mohit Saraogi
I am 25 yera old. I have early discharge problem
Male | 25
This could be due to various reasons like anxiety, stress, or even certain medical conditions. It's a must to have thorough communication with your partner and be as relaxed as possible during intercourse. Try out these techniques too; the start-stop method and consulting a doctor can be beneficial.
Answered on 14th Oct '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
क्या लिंग का आकार बढ़ा सकता हूं? यदि हां, तो मैं यह कैसे कर सकता हूं?
Male | 35
Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Arun Kumar
I am 16 years old and have porn and masterbution addiction. How can I overcome?
Male | 16
Being overwhelmed with the consumption of explicit material, and being involved in related behaviors can cause feelings of guilt, anxiety, or distraction from daily activities. This usually happens because of curiosity or stress. For example, limiting screen time and taking up other forms of hobbies such as sports or reading can be incredibly helpful. Creating a supportive circle of friends or family can also be beneficial.
Answered on 9th Dec '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
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