Male | 22
I am a 22 year old male,i have been mastrubating to gay thoughts since 12. from then, i have been mastrubting to gay thoughts and then fell disgusted. over the last 2 months,i have been mastrubating more to gay thougths than other sex thoughts. i am in love with a girl and i love her so much and i wish to live my life with her forever. but these thoughts and feelings pressurise me a lot and i dont want to be a gay and i really want to be with her. these thoughts make me suicidal. is there any solution to these problem? like if there is no,then i really want to die
Ayurveda
Answered on 6th Oct '24
It may be a side effects of excessive masturbation..
Masturbation is a natural phenomenon. All men do this but as a natural principle… excess of everything is always bad, so you must try to control it.
Don't do it more than once or twice in a month.
Don't worry you can do that... just do not watch porn… Try not to be remain alone, don't read or view sexual literature, books, whatsApp & porn videos etc.
Avoid oily, more spicy, Chilly and junk foods.
Do exercise daily for one hr or yoga mainly Pranayam… Meditation… vajroli Mudra... Ashwini mudra. Start reading religious books.
Please note that now a days the main drawback and side effect of the masturbation is once you are addicted to masturbation mostly and always by watching porn… where you get different type of stories... relations... girls… body... and styles... etc.
Once u got married u don't get all those things with wife so u don't get aroused and you don't get proper erection.
Now a day's mostly patients comes to us with the complaint that they are not able to get erection with wife in the bed but they are getting erection in the bathroom while masturbation.
This is creating a lot of problem in their married life so my advice is to control it. If u are not able to do so then you must consult your family doctor, many times it's not possible to control without the help of your doctor.
You can take Chandra kala ras 1 tablet morning and night after food
Yastimadhu chuma 3gms morning and night with water
Sidhamakara dwaja 1 tablet morning and night after food.
Do all the above suggested treatment for 3 months and see the results.
If you don" get satisfactory results then you can also contact me on my private chat or directly in my clinic. We can send you the medicines by courier.
My website www.kayakalpinternational.com
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Questions & Answers on "Sexology Treatment" (654)
Hi I’m male 31 years old while having sex with my girlfriend I am unable to maintain erection for long time it’s like on and off and I’m very much attracted to her while having sex
Male | 31
main causes of erectile dysfunction during intercourse are the physical, psychological or lifestyle factors. It is recommended to seek the advice of a specialist in sexual health including urologists or sex therapists, so you can talk about your concerns and find out the real problem. They can offer you the right treatment plan and improve your sexual performance.
Answered on 9th Aug '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
I am having anxiety since 8 months, I am doing excessive masturbation since many years... I thing my anxiety is due to this. I have social anxiety....my brain gets too much pain and feels like blood is rushing in head due to anxiety in social places and travel
Male | 22
To begin with, over-masturbation does not bring about anxiety. Social anxiety you have can make you feel anxious when interacting with people in various environments. Signs include thoughts that won't get out of the head and head pain. Tension or genetics can be the factors. You could give deep breathing practices a shot or get some counseling. Always keep in mind that these emotions are usual and that they can be managed with encouragement and different techniques.
Answered on 3rd Dec '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Due to masterbation my penis becomes small and i cums in a minute what should I do to become normal
Male | 28
Having a small penis and ejaculating too quickly is upsetting. The reason for rapid ejaculation might be nervousness or inexperience. Penis size doesn’t permanently change after masturbation. You could use relaxation methods and do slow practice to get better control. In case it keeps troubling you, then speaking with a therapist or counselor can help.
Answered on 11th June '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
I just wanna ask about the curved penis. How can I make it straight or will it cause any problem during sex ?
Male | 21
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Arun Kumar
I had an protected sex with an unknown lady a month back. I am afraid am i under risk of getting STI? Especially HIV?.
Male | 30
Yes, there is a risk of getting an STI, including HIV, even if you use protection, as no method is 100% foolproof. It's important to visit a doctor, preferably a specialist like a dermatologist, for proper testing and advice. Early diagnosis and treatment are crucial for managing any potential infection.
Answered on 10th Sept '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
masturbation addiction, 12 years, my body muscles have decreased, bones have become thinner, severe weakness in the body.
Male | 24
Don’t worry too much about it though because many people do masturbate; however, if one does so excessively this could be the cause behind what you’re going through. You might start feeling weaker than usual or notice some changes like less energy in general - all signs pointing towards too much self-pleasure being unhealthy behavior. So, try mending your ways by eating proper meals and working out often since these two acts will help accelerate recovery from this condition should they have already set in.
Answered on 12th Nov '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
I am Abdur Razzak and from Bangladesh. I am 34 years of age. I have a problem of erectile dysfunction for 18 years. Do you provide the treatment for it?
Male | 34
Answered on 16th Dec '24
Dr. Arun Kumar
I am a 26 year old male. Married for 2 and a half years. I have struggled severely with hypersexuality and it's affecting my marriage. I need a libido dampener
Male | 26
It seems that you are struggling with a high interest in sex most of the time. There could be many causes of this like mental illness or imbalance of hormones. Taking care of yourself is vital as well as your relationship. If you want to reduce your intense longings, it might be good to consult a sexologist who can prescribe drugs to decrease libido.
Answered on 28th May '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
I have had a itch inside my penis for about a week in a half now and it only itches after I masterbate
Male | 22
Itching is a common symptom of infection or irritation after a week and a half of masturbation. Gently clean the area, avoid using strong soaps and wear loose clothes. If it continues, stop masturbating for a while and check if there is any difference. If there is none, seek medical attention.
Answered on 31st May '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
Zydus tab after we can take unwanted 72 tab
Female | 22
It is not appropriate to take the Zydus tab if Unwanted 72 you have already taken some. The Zydus brand covers a wide variety of medications, so it is essential to know which particular product is being mentioned. Consult your gynecologist about necessary precautions on emergency contraception and anything else that concerns other medications.
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Mohit Saraogi
I am 25 yera old. I have early discharge problem
Male | 25
This could be due to various reasons like anxiety, stress, or even certain medical conditions. It's a must to have thorough communication with your partner and be as relaxed as possible during intercourse. Try out these techniques too; the start-stop method and consulting a doctor can be beneficial.
Answered on 14th Oct '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
क्या लिंग का आकार बढ़ा सकता हूं? यदि हां, तो मैं यह कैसे कर सकता हूं?
Male | 35
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Arun Kumar
I am 16 years old and have porn and masterbution addiction. How can I overcome?
Male | 16
Being overwhelmed with the consumption of explicit material, and being involved in related behaviors can cause feelings of guilt, anxiety, or distraction from daily activities. This usually happens because of curiosity or stress. For example, limiting screen time and taking up other forms of hobbies such as sports or reading can be incredibly helpful. Creating a supportive circle of friends or family can also be beneficial.
Answered on 9th Dec '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Good morning mam I'm doing masturbation daily is that problem in future
Male | 22
Masturbation Daily is normal and healthy...NO HARM in future. Just don't get addicted to it, if your are worried seek medical help
Answered on 10th Oct '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
Hi I'm a 29 old male i have an itching feeling in my penis after peeing and a clear sticky discharge, could it be an STI? I had sex a week ago.
Male | 29
You may be suffering from a sexually transmitted infection (STI). Symptoms include itching in your penis after urinating and a clear sticky discharge. One of the STIs that might be to blame is gonorrhea. Your healthcare provider can carry out the necessary tests and prescribe medication for you. To prevent further infection, avoid sexual contact until you've been cleared by a sexologist.
Answered on 24th Oct '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
I had sex 4 months ago and after 3 days I was hot sweaty and thirsty my knees and arms hurt and I was screaming a lot is this a sign of hiv or prep side effects
Male | 23
Sweating, thirst, joint pain, irritability - these could signal many things besides HIV or PrEP effects. A flu, dehydration, or stress might cause such symptoms too. Only a healthcare professional can properly diagnose and treat the underlying issue. So while it's good to seek advice, remember that only experts provide definitive answers regarding your condition.
Answered on 24th July '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
I have the herpes igg but not the igm. Does it mean I am still heroes poditive and can it be passed if I have unprotected sex.
Female | 20
You have herpes IgG, but not IgM. This indicates an old herpes infection, not a current outbreak. Even without symptoms, herpes spreads through unprotected sex. Use protection to prevent transmission. If blisters or sores develop, consult a sexologist immediately.
Answered on 29th July '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
I am having problem of premature ejaculation
Male | 47
Some common examples of the problems may include anxiety, relationship difficulties, or hormonal imbalance. To manage this fear, first, you need to try relaxation techniques, followed by talking clearly with your partner and coming up with behavior methods like the "start-stop" technique. Besides, specific exercises give you the power you need. Even though this method has shown effectiveness, I still advise you to consult a sexologist and receive personalized advice and possible treatments.
Answered on 19th Dec '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Past masturbate cause pelvic dysfunction ???
Female | 22
Masturbation is usually not a cause of pelvic dysfunction. However, the fact is that sometimes, excessive pressure in that area can lead you, in some cases, to discomfort. Signs such as pain, urinating difficulties, or painful intercourse might occur. To avoid this situation, try to take breaks regularly and don't apply too much pressure on that area.
Answered on 20th Sept '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
I am male person , i want contraceptive injection for 2 year no pregnancy , i don't want use condom , just want injection , so plz help me related that
Male | 28
Answered on 23rd May '24
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