Male | 21
Why do I have flu-like symptoms after oral sex?
I'm a 21 year old male l had oral sex with my girl friend and after 2 days l started having flue like symptoms and my lip has swollen also my penis is having red pimples on it
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Answered on 23rd May '24
It sounds like you may have caught a virus called herpes. Herpes can cause flu-like symptoms, swollen lips, and red pimples on the penis. It is usually spread through sexual contact. To help with the symptoms, you can take pain relievers and use cold packs on your lip. Make sure to talk to your girlfriend so she can get checked too.
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Questions & Answers on "Sexology Treatment" (481)
I was experiencing frequently urination, 6 hours ago i was masterbating by rubbing my dick with my pillow and after masturbation i was feeling this , also skin around the hole of my dick get loose
Male | 17
You may have injured yourself while masturbating with your penis. The repeated urination may have been provoked by the irritation. The skin getting stretched could be due to the friction. Some rest and abstinence from sexual activity for a period are the best ways to treat it. Make sure to maintain the cleanliness of the area and stay away from harsh activities until it subsides. If this does not work then it would be better to see a urologist.
Answered on 29th Aug '24
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am 16 years old and studying for medical exam. Before I used to mastrubate 25 times but may , June months I have brought that number to 10 ( twice a week). How can I bring that number to 0. Because I really want to leave it. Please suggest some home solutions without family members help. I cannot tell them about this. Please
Male | 16
It’s normal to be curious about your body, but too much can be bad for you sometimes. You might feel tired or guilty or have trouble concentrating on your schoolwork. One good way is to do things you enjoy and keep busy with them, such as sports, reading, or being with friends. You could also take up some form of exercise that interests you so that not only will it occupy your mind but also help shift your focus entirely. If you find yourself wanting to masturbate, try thinking about something else or doing another activity instead. Be sure to talk to a doctor if things get too much.
Answered on 3rd July '24
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The problem is not getting turned on easily even with a lot of foreplay and other stuff
Female | 23
Difficulty in getting aroused sexually may be due to a variety of factors, which include stress, anxiety, depression, hormonal imbalance, or some kind of medicine she might be taking. It is better to go for proper diagnosis and treatment from a qualified sexologist or gynecologist. They can provide counseling services, hormone therapies, or medicines that can help in this condition.
Answered on 23rd May '24
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I see last two days night fall problem suggest me what I do
Male | 17
Nightfall, otherwise called nocturnal or nighttime emission, is a condition where a man expels semen involuntarily during sleep at night. It is a normal occurrence caused by the body’s need to eliminate extra sperm. This happens commonly during puberty but tends to improve with age. Eating less spicy food before going to bed, relaxing exercises, or wearing light clothes might help reduce such incidents. If this is disturbing you then feel free to talk with an adult whom you trust or seek help from a sexologist.
Answered on 23rd May '24
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How to treat premature ejaculation
Male | 20
Premature ejaculation happens when a man orgasms faster than desired during intercourse. It means ejaculating within one minute after starting sex. Many factors can lead to this. Feeling anxious or stressed contributes. Medical conditions too. However, there are ways to manage it. Relaxation techniques and condoms reducing sensitivity help. Seeking therapy is another option.
Answered on 28th Aug '24
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Dear Doctor, I hope this message finds you well. I am reaching out to discuss some concerns that have been affecting my mental and sexual health, specifically related to my use of pornography and its broader impact on my life. I am a male, 26/27 years old. No health issues. I've noticed that my consumption of pornography and engagement in cybersex have escalated to a point where they negatively affect my life and relationships. My need for increasingly explicit material to achieve sexual arousal has grown over the years (a phenomenon called "Desensitization" i believe), and it's become apparent that this pattern is not sustainable. I've observed that this habit has not only affected my ability to enjoy real-life sexual encounters but has also contributed to the deterioration of my previous relationship. At times, I had found myself needing to think of pornography to maintain an erection during sexual intercourse. In an attempt to address this, I've tried to quit watching porn, only to experience a significant drop in my libido and desire for sexual activity. This "flat line" phase, as it's often referred to in various forums, has left me feeling worried and uncertain about the path forward. Of course, i started watching again, just to make sure that everything is normal. The first couple of times, the erections were weaker than usual. I understand that the body of scientific research in this area is still evolving, and there seems to be a lack of definitive guidance on dealing with these challenges. Given these complexities, I'm seeking your professional advice on several fronts: 1- Is the "flat line" phase a recognized scientific phenomenon, and what does current research say about it? 2- Considering my concerns about the long-term effects of abstaining from pornography and reduced masturbation, what guidance can you provide? I'm particularly worried about maintaining sexual function, including erectile strength and ejaculation control. 3-Could you suggest any scientific, medical research articles or resources that could offer more insight into these issues? Your expertise and any evidence-based recommendations would be immensely valuable to me as I consider my next steps. Many thanks for your time and consideration. Kind regards,
Male | 26
It is crucial to realize that gaining an excessive amount of pornography and cyberspace ultimately results in being desensitized, and it has a negative impact on sexual encounters with real living partners and relationships.
The "flat line" effect, that you brought up, is also a commonly displayed problem where former porn addicts may experience a drop in their sex drive and arousal. But for now, the findings are not substantial, more studies are required to distinguish porn effect on sexual function from its own.
With regard to facilitation, many people have found it immensely helpful to consult a professional mental health care provider, such as a therapist or a counselor, and avail their expert help in dealing with this problem and addressing any underlying psychological factors. A sex therapist may possess skills in counseling individuals with sexual dysfunction or enhancing sexual functions.
Your well-being is of top concern and seeking the help of a mental and sexual health specialist can provide you with the needed information when making a decision about your next step. In this connection, I suggest you talk to a psychologist or sex therapist, whose main professional concern is the issues you are experiencing, for more help and support.
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Dr. Madhu Sudan
Answered on 23rd May '24
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I got my blood test regarding hiv 1 and 2 I got 0.11 index value what does it mean
Female | 23
An HIV 1 and 2 index value of 0.11 signifies that the result is negative. It is, however, advisable that you consult an infectious diseases doctor for further analysis and interpretation of your test results.
Answered on 23rd May '24
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How to prevent premature ejaculation without medication
Male | 21
There are too many reasons for PE or even without reason also . But the counselling do the Major help for premature ejaculation ,means without medicine. Start Stop techniques, squeezing techniques during sex , kegel exercise 20 count at a time 3-4 Times a day, helps to improve PE.
Answered on 23rd May '24
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Is Vega 100 safe or not? I am using this tablet for first time
Male | 24
Vega 100 is a medication commonly used to treat erectile dysfunction. While many people use it safely, it's essential to consult a urologist or a qualified doctor before starting any new medication. They can provide guidance tailored to your specific health needs.
Answered on 12th June '24
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Will a person get HIV if virginal fluid enter into his mouth through saliva.
Male | 23
HIV spreads via blood, semen, vaginal fluids, and breast milk - not saliva. So, virginal fluid getting in your mouth through saliva isn't a concern. Relax. HIV symptoms often include fever, tiredness, and swollen glands. Practicing safe sex and avoiding shared needles prevents HIV transmission.
Answered on 17th July '24
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I am feeling fatique .. being a male i had sex with my brother around 45 days ago Imy brother has tested negative hiv and he has not sex with anyone else except me ..I have not tested myself what should I do now Problem I am facing fatique weakness loss of appetite .feeling thirsty all time ... He has been tested with finger prick method
Male | 24
These signs might be because of many things such as stress or bad eating habits. But don’t worry, your brother’s test result was negative which is good news but to ease your mind, you should also take an HIV test among others after discussing with a doctor about the issues at hand.
Answered on 29th Aug '24
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I have an addiction of masturbation. Is there any medicine which can help me skip this addiction?
Male | 26
Answered on 23rd May '24
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I am a male 22 years old I am daily mastrubate In a day once otr twice Any health issues in future And is correct or not
పురుషుడు | 22
It is okay and normal to masturbate once or twice a day. There's no such thing as health problems in the future because of it. Have a good time, but if you experience a lot of discomfort while doing the action or you have trouble with regular activities, it may be good to rest a bit.
Answered on 21st June '24
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Hello, I'm 17 years old.I lost feeling in my bladder and clitoris.I don't know when the bladder is full.I don't feel any excitement and sex drive anymore.The clitoris is no longer sensitive to stimuli, to touch.A year ago I had a feeling. I had ultrasound and blood tests performed by a gynecologist and a urologist, the results of the tests show no abnormalities. At this age I shouldn't have any problems with it. It worries me that I won't get any pleasure from having sex. What could be the cause? Is there any chance and way to get back feeling in clitoris and bladder? Please help.
Female | 17
Answered on 23rd May '24
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Is there any medication to treat erectile dysfunction as I'm not getting to hard?
Male | 47
Answered on 11th July '24
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I am 33 old male nd I got some infection in my penis it is of white color nd every time I have to wash it. I think my spem is also leaking because of that. What is the best medicine for it. Thank you
Male | 33
Answered on 23rd May '24
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What can I take to stop having a dry Orgasm
Male | 45
Answered on 17th July '24
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I have had a itch inside my penis for about a week in a half now and it only itches after I masterbate
Male | 22
Itching is a common symptom of infection or irritation after a week and a half of masturbation. Gently clean the area, avoid using strong soaps and wear loose clothes. If it continues, stop masturbating for a while and check if there is any difference. If there is none, seek medical attention.
Answered on 31st May '24
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Recently, I've been experiencing a drop in my sexual desire. Finestride is what I used to grow my hair out. Does it have an impact on one's sexual orientation? how long will it take for the effects of finestride to fade away?
Male | 35
Answered on 23rd May '24
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nowadays for past 2weeks my male organ is not getting bigger even when i do self hand love i ejaculate but size is very tiny how to resolve that
Male | 32
You're noticing a change in your penis size during masturbation. This can be due to the following reasons. Potential reasons include stresses of life, fatigue, or physical diseases like low testosterone. Take the time to chew the turnover of your body by consuming nutritious food, exercising, and giving yourself the rest needed. If no improvements are observed, the best step would be to consult a doctor for probable treatments.
Answered on 18th June '24
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