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Male | 21

Why do I have flu-like symptoms after oral sex?

I'm a 21 year old male l had oral sex with my girl friend and after 2 days l started having flue like symptoms and my lip has swollen also my penis is having red pimples on it

Answered on 23rd May '24

It sounds like you may have caught a virus called herpes. Herpes can cause flu-like symptoms, swollen lips, and red pimples on the penis. It is usually spread through sexual contact. To help with the symptoms, you can take pain relievers and use cold packs on your lip. Make sure to talk to your girlfriend so she can get checked too.

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Questions & Answers on "Sexology Treatment" (849)

am 16 years old and studying for medical exam. Before I used to mastrubate 25 times but may , June months I have brought that number to 10 ( twice a week). How can I bring that number to 0. Because I really want to leave it. Please suggest some home solutions without family members help. I cannot tell them about this. Please

Male | 16

It’s normal to be curious about your body, but too much can be bad for you sometimes. You might feel tired or guilty or have trouble concentrating on your schoolwork. One good way is to do things you enjoy and keep busy with them, such as sports, reading, or being with friends. You could also take up some form of exercise that interests you so that not only will it occupy your mind but also help shift your focus entirely. If you find yourself wanting to masturbate, try thinking about something else or doing another activity instead. Be sure to talk to a doctor if things get too much. 

Answered on 3rd July '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Dr. Madhu Sudan

I am 24 year old male and I am going take 1st time viagra tablet toh what is normal dose of tab and I do not have any other desease

Male | 24

The usual dose of Viagra is 50 mg but your doctor might decide to change it depending on your needs. You said that you have no other diseases; therefore, it is crucial to start with a minimal dose to see how your system handles it. The most common side effects of Viagra are headaches, flushing, and upset stomach. If you have any more serious side effects, stop taking them and contact your doctor. Remember to obey your doctor and don't exceed the recommended dose. Always stay safe and careful with medications especially when you decide to try them for the first time.

Answered on 12th Nov '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Dr. Madhu Sudan

How to treat premature ejaculation

Male | 20

Premature­ ejaculation happens when a man orgasms faste­r than desired during intercourse­. It means ejaculating within one minute­ after starting sex. Many factors can lead to this. Fe­eling anxious or stressed contribute­s. Medical conditions too. However, the­re are ways to manage it. Re­laxation techniques and condoms reducing se­nsitivity help. Seeking the­rapy is another option. 

Answered on 28th Aug '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam

Dear Doctor, I hope this message finds you well. I am reaching out to discuss some concerns that have been affecting my mental and sexual health, specifically related to my use of pornography and its broader impact on my life. I am a male, 26/27 years old. No health issues. I've noticed that my consumption of pornography and engagement in cybersex have escalated to a point where they negatively affect my life and relationships. My need for increasingly explicit material to achieve sexual arousal has grown over the years (a phenomenon called "Desensitization" i believe), and it's become apparent that this pattern is not sustainable. I've observed that this habit has not only affected my ability to enjoy real-life sexual encounters but has also contributed to the deterioration of my previous relationship. At times, I had found myself needing to think of pornography to maintain an erection during sexual intercourse. In an attempt to address this, I've tried to quit watching porn, only to experience a significant drop in my libido and desire for sexual activity. This "flat line" phase, as it's often referred to in various forums, has left me feeling worried and uncertain about the path forward. Of course, i started watching again, just to make sure that everything is normal. The first couple of times, the erections were weaker than usual. I understand that the body of scientific research in this area is still evolving, and there seems to be a lack of definitive guidance on dealing with these challenges. Given these complexities, I'm seeking your professional advice on several fronts: 1- Is the "flat line" phase a recognized scientific phenomenon, and what does current research say about it? 2- Considering my concerns about the long-term effects of abstaining from pornography and reduced masturbation, what guidance can you provide? I'm particularly worried about maintaining sexual function, including erectile strength and ejaculation control. 3-Could you suggest any scientific, medical research articles or resources that could offer more insight into these issues? Your expertise and any evidence-based recommendations would be immensely valuable to me as I consider my next steps. Many thanks for your time and consideration. Kind regards,

Male | 26

It is crucial to realize that gaining an excessive amount of pornography and cyberspace ultimately results in being desensitized, and it has a negative impact on sexual encounters with real living partners and relationships.

The "flat line" effect, that you brought up, is also a commonly displayed problem where former porn addicts may experience a drop in their sex drive and arousal. But for now, the findings are not substantial, more studies are required to distinguish porn effect on sexual function from its own.

With regard to facilitation, many people have found it immensely helpful to consult a professional mental health care provider, such as a therapist or a counselor, and avail their expert help in dealing with this problem and addressing any underlying psychological factors. A sex therapist may possess skills in counseling individuals with sexual dysfunction or enhancing sexual functions.

Your well-being is of top concern and seeking the help of a mental and sexual health specialist can provide you with the needed information when making a decision about your next step. In this connection, I suggest you talk to a psychologist or sex therapist, whose main professional concern is the issues you are experiencing, for more help and support.

Best regards,
Dr. Madhu Sudan
 

Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Dr. Madhu Sudan

I got my blood test regarding hiv 1 and 2 I got 0.11 index value what does it mean

Female | 23

An HIV 1 and 2 index value of 0.11 signifies that the result is negative. It is, however, advisable that you consult an infectious diseases doctor for further analysis and interpretation of your test results.

Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam

How to prevent premature ejaculation without medication

Male | 21

There are too many reasons for PE or even without reason also . But the counselling do the Major help for premature ejaculation ,means without medicine. Start Stop techniques, squeezing techniques during sex , kegel exercise 20 count at a time 3-4 Times a day, helps to improve PE.

Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Sanjay Erande

Dr. Sanjay Erande

Answered on 12th June '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Dr. Madhu Sudan

i need help with issue with my girlfriend. we already had some problems like this, but i need doctors opinion. we had sex and we wore a condom and i am sure that everything qith it was good but she always looks for those days when you can get pregnent but this time didnt. and it was her first day of that cycle. could anything happen with condom that can be something bad and that was 9 days ago when she can take a test some sites says 10 days some 20

Female | 21

Condoms are an effective means of contraception, but things might still go wrong occasionally by tearing or slipping. While conception is possible anytime a woman is not using birth control a how-to guide is not a substitute for exceptional contraception. A urine sample can be taken as early as the 2nd day of your cycle to determine whether you are pregnant. If she has panic attacks or difficulty because of the missed arrival of the menses, prompt her to seek advice or go to the doctor with her, it will be a comforting experience. Both parties need to share their ideas during this period.

Answered on 19th Dec '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Will a person get HIV if virginal fluid enter into his mouth through saliva.

Male | 23

HIV spreads via blood, se­men, vaginal fluids, and breast milk - not saliva. So, virginal fluid getting in your mouth through saliva isn't a conce­rn. Relax. HIV symptoms often include fe­ver, tiredness, and swolle­n glands. Practicing safe sex and avoiding shared ne­edles preve­nts HIV transmission. 

Answered on 17th July '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Dr. Madhu Sudan

I am feeling fatique .. being a male i had sex with my brother around 45 days ago Imy brother has tested negative hiv and he has not sex with anyone else except me ..I have not tested myself what should I do now Problem I am facing fatique weakness loss of appetite .feeling thirsty all time ... He has been tested with finger prick method

Male | 24

These signs might be because of many things such as stress or bad eating habits. But don’t worry, your brother’s test result was negative which is good news but to ease your mind, you should also take an HIV test among others after discussing with a doctor about the issues at hand. 

Answered on 28th Sept '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam

I have an addiction of masturbation. Is there any medicine which can help me skip this addiction?

Male | 26

Masturbation is a natural phenomenon. All men do this but as a natural principle… excess of everything is always bad, so you must try to control it.

Don't do it more than once or twice in a month.

Don't worry you can do that... just do not watch porn… Try not to be remain alone, don't read or view sexual literature, books, whatsApp & porn videos etc.

Avoid oily, more spicy, Chilly and junk foods.

Do exercise daily for one hr or yoga mainly Pranayam… Meditation… vajroli Mudra... Ashwini mudra. Start reading religious books.

Please note that now a days the main drawback and side effect of the masturbation is once you are addicted to masturbation mostly and always by watching porn… where you get different type of stories... relations... girls… body... and styles... etc.

Once u got married u don't get all those things with wife so u don't get aroused and you don't get proper erection.

Now a day's mostly patients comes to us with the complaint that they are not able to get erection with wife in the bed but they are getting erection in the bathroom while masturbation.

This is creating a lot of problem in their married life so my advice is to control it. If u are not able to do so then you must consult your family doctor, many times it's not possible to control without the help of your doctor.

You can take Chandra kala ras 1 tablet morning and night after food

Yastimadhu chuma 3gms morning and night with water

Sidhamakara dwaja 1 tablet morning and night after food.

Do all the above suggested treatment for 3 months and see the results.
If you don" get satisfactory results then you can also contact me on my private chat or directly in my clinic. We can send you the medicines by courier.

My website www.kayakalpinternational.com

Answered on 16th Jan '25

Dr. Arun Kumar

Dr. Arun Kumar

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