Male | 21
Why do I have flu-like symptoms after oral sex?
I'm a 21 year old male l had oral sex with my girl friend and after 2 days l started having flue like symptoms and my lip has swollen also my penis is having red pimples on it

Sexologist
Answered on 23rd May '24
It sounds like you may have caught a virus called herpes. Herpes can cause flu-like symptoms, swollen lips, and red pimples on the penis. It is usually spread through sexual contact. To help with the symptoms, you can take pain relievers and use cold packs on your lip. Make sure to talk to your girlfriend so she can get checked too.
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Questions & Answers on "Sexology Treatment" (849)
Does A Nightfall Smell for more than 2-3hours and Is there any medication to stop this?
Male | 29
It's common to experience some odor during nightfall, which usually resolves within a few hours. This smell may arise from natural bodily fluids and skin bacteria. While no specific medications exist, maintaining good hygiene can help minimize any scent. Regular washing and wearing breathable fabrics can improve comfort. If the odor persists, or if you have any unusual symptoms, I encourage you to consult a sexologist for personalized advice.
Answered on 8th Jan '25

Dr. Madhu Sudan
I was experiencing frequently urination, 6 hours ago i was masterbating by rubbing my dick with my pillow and after masturbation i was feeling this , also skin around the hole of my dick get loose
Male | 17
You may have injured yourself while masturbating with your penis. The repeated urination may have been provoked by the irritation. The skin getting stretched could be due to the friction. Some rest and abstinence from sexual activity for a period are the best ways to treat it. Make sure to maintain the cleanliness of the area and stay away from harsh activities until it subsides. If this does not work then it would be better to see a urologist.
Answered on 29th Aug '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
am 16 years old and studying for medical exam. Before I used to mastrubate 25 times but may , June months I have brought that number to 10 ( twice a week). How can I bring that number to 0. Because I really want to leave it. Please suggest some home solutions without family members help. I cannot tell them about this. Please
Male | 16
It’s normal to be curious about your body, but too much can be bad for you sometimes. You might feel tired or guilty or have trouble concentrating on your schoolwork. One good way is to do things you enjoy and keep busy with them, such as sports, reading, or being with friends. You could also take up some form of exercise that interests you so that not only will it occupy your mind but also help shift your focus entirely. If you find yourself wanting to masturbate, try thinking about something else or doing another activity instead. Be sure to talk to a doctor if things get too much.
Answered on 3rd July '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
The problem is not getting turned on easily even with a lot of foreplay and other stuff
Female | 23
Difficulty in getting aroused sexually may be due to a variety of factors, which include stress, anxiety, depression, hormonal imbalance, or some kind of medicine she might be taking. It is better to go for proper diagnosis and treatment from a qualified sexologist or gynecologist. They can provide counseling services, hormone therapies, or medicines that can help in this condition.
Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
I am 24 year old male and I am going take 1st time viagra tablet toh what is normal dose of tab and I do not have any other desease
Male | 24
The usual dose of Viagra is 50 mg but your doctor might decide to change it depending on your needs. You said that you have no other diseases; therefore, it is crucial to start with a minimal dose to see how your system handles it. The most common side effects of Viagra are headaches, flushing, and upset stomach. If you have any more serious side effects, stop taking them and contact your doctor. Remember to obey your doctor and don't exceed the recommended dose. Always stay safe and careful with medications especially when you decide to try them for the first time.
Answered on 12th Nov '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
I see last two days night fall problem suggest me what I do
Male | 17
Nightfall, otherwise called nocturnal or nighttime emission, is a condition where a man expels semen involuntarily during sleep at night. It is a normal occurrence caused by the body’s need to eliminate extra sperm. This happens commonly during puberty but tends to improve with age. Eating less spicy food before going to bed, relaxing exercises, or wearing light clothes might help reduce such incidents. If this is disturbing you then feel free to talk with an adult whom you trust or seek help from a sexologist.
Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
Maine surashit sex kiya tha.lekin mai chinta me hoon kyonki maine safety ka use nhi karwai thi.kya mujhe unwanted 72 lena chahiye.mere partner ne ling dhoya nhi tha.
Female | 22
It’s understandable to feel anxious after an encounter without protection. If you're concerned about potential pregnancy, considering emergency contraception, such as the morning-after pill, within 72 hours is a sensible option. Symptoms of anxiety might include worry or stress, but remember, many people experience similar situations. It’s crucial to stay informed and take care of your health. If you have persistent concerns or questions about sexually transmitted infections, I encourage you to speak with a gynecologist. They can provide personalized guidance and support, ensuring your well-being and peace of mind.
Answered on 20th Feb '25

Dr. Madhu Sudan
How to treat premature ejaculation
Male | 20
Premature ejaculation happens when a man orgasms faster than desired during intercourse. It means ejaculating within one minute after starting sex. Many factors can lead to this. Feeling anxious or stressed contributes. Medical conditions too. However, there are ways to manage it. Relaxation techniques and condoms reducing sensitivity help. Seeking therapy is another option.
Answered on 28th Aug '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
I wiped my sperm with my clothe and again I wiped my girlfriend private part is become pregnant because she getting delayed periods it's been 5 days Till last month is was normal menstruation cycle
Female | 23
Feeling concerned is an expected reaction at the moment. Periods that are missed could be a sign of getting pregnant, but they can also be a result of stress, hormonal abnormalities, or other conditions. From what you told me, the probability of pregnancy is low, but it would be wise to carry out a pregnancy test for confirmation. I suggest letting a few days go by and then trying once more, if that is necessary. In case periods are still not settled or there are other issues, it would be better to take a gynecologist's opinion and help.
Answered on 20th Dec '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Dear Doctor, I hope this message finds you well. I am reaching out to discuss some concerns that have been affecting my mental and sexual health, specifically related to my use of pornography and its broader impact on my life. I am a male, 26/27 years old. No health issues. I've noticed that my consumption of pornography and engagement in cybersex have escalated to a point where they negatively affect my life and relationships. My need for increasingly explicit material to achieve sexual arousal has grown over the years (a phenomenon called "Desensitization" i believe), and it's become apparent that this pattern is not sustainable. I've observed that this habit has not only affected my ability to enjoy real-life sexual encounters but has also contributed to the deterioration of my previous relationship. At times, I had found myself needing to think of pornography to maintain an erection during sexual intercourse. In an attempt to address this, I've tried to quit watching porn, only to experience a significant drop in my libido and desire for sexual activity. This "flat line" phase, as it's often referred to in various forums, has left me feeling worried and uncertain about the path forward. Of course, i started watching again, just to make sure that everything is normal. The first couple of times, the erections were weaker than usual. I understand that the body of scientific research in this area is still evolving, and there seems to be a lack of definitive guidance on dealing with these challenges. Given these complexities, I'm seeking your professional advice on several fronts: 1- Is the "flat line" phase a recognized scientific phenomenon, and what does current research say about it? 2- Considering my concerns about the long-term effects of abstaining from pornography and reduced masturbation, what guidance can you provide? I'm particularly worried about maintaining sexual function, including erectile strength and ejaculation control. 3-Could you suggest any scientific, medical research articles or resources that could offer more insight into these issues? Your expertise and any evidence-based recommendations would be immensely valuable to me as I consider my next steps. Many thanks for your time and consideration. Kind regards,
Male | 26
It is crucial to realize that gaining an excessive amount of pornography and cyberspace ultimately results in being desensitized, and it has a negative impact on sexual encounters with real living partners and relationships.
The "flat line" effect, that you brought up, is also a commonly displayed problem where former porn addicts may experience a drop in their sex drive and arousal. But for now, the findings are not substantial, more studies are required to distinguish porn effect on sexual function from its own.
With regard to facilitation, many people have found it immensely helpful to consult a professional mental health care provider, such as a therapist or a counselor, and avail their expert help in dealing with this problem and addressing any underlying psychological factors. A sex therapist may possess skills in counseling individuals with sexual dysfunction or enhancing sexual functions.
Your well-being is of top concern and seeking the help of a mental and sexual health specialist can provide you with the needed information when making a decision about your next step. In this connection, I suggest you talk to a psychologist or sex therapist, whose main professional concern is the issues you are experiencing, for more help and support.
Best regards,
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
I am 21 years old. I have been having painful erections to a point where masturbation is required. I have some other related problems as well. Please help me. I'm too embarrassed to ask anyone else.
Male | 21
You may have a condition called priapism where your erection is painful and lasts a long time without sexual arousa. Priapism can result from some drugs, drug abuse, or disease conditions like sickle cell disease. It is necessary to see a doctor immediately to avoid complications. A urologist can provide the treatment to ease your symptoms and solve any underlying problems.
Answered on 11th Sept '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
I got my blood test regarding hiv 1 and 2 I got 0.11 index value what does it mean
Female | 23
An HIV 1 and 2 index value of 0.11 signifies that the result is negative. It is, however, advisable that you consult an infectious diseases doctor for further analysis and interpretation of your test results.
Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
How to prevent premature ejaculation without medication
Male | 21
There are too many reasons for PE or even without reason also . But the counselling do the Major help for premature ejaculation ,means without medicine. Start Stop techniques, squeezing techniques during sex , kegel exercise 20 count at a time 3-4 Times a day, helps to improve PE.
Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Sanjay Erande
Is Vega 100 safe or not? I am using this tablet for first time
Male | 24
Vega 100 is a medication commonly used to treat erectile dysfunction. While many people use it safely, it's essential to consult a urologist or a qualified doctor before starting any new medication. They can provide guidance tailored to your specific health needs.
Answered on 12th June '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
i need help with issue with my girlfriend. we already had some problems like this, but i need doctors opinion. we had sex and we wore a condom and i am sure that everything qith it was good but she always looks for those days when you can get pregnent but this time didnt. and it was her first day of that cycle. could anything happen with condom that can be something bad and that was 9 days ago when she can take a test some sites says 10 days some 20
Female | 21
Condoms are an effective means of contraception, but things might still go wrong occasionally by tearing or slipping. While conception is possible anytime a woman is not using birth control a how-to guide is not a substitute for exceptional contraception. A urine sample can be taken as early as the 2nd day of your cycle to determine whether you are pregnant. If she has panic attacks or difficulty because of the missed arrival of the menses, prompt her to seek advice or go to the doctor with her, it will be a comforting experience. Both parties need to share their ideas during this period.
Answered on 19th Dec '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
4 times continuous night fall, last month and now as well..
Male | 30
At night, it is normal for boys to have a night's sleep, sometimes it happens 4 times a month. This can be caused by hormonal disturbances associated with puberty. This is your body's way of getting rid of some of the old fluid. Try to calm down before going to sleep and do not eat spicy food for at least a couple of hours before sleeping. It is not something you should be concerned about, but if it annoys you, then discuss it with a sexologist.
Answered on 11th Oct '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
Will a person get HIV if virginal fluid enter into his mouth through saliva.
Male | 23
HIV spreads via blood, semen, vaginal fluids, and breast milk - not saliva. So, virginal fluid getting in your mouth through saliva isn't a concern. Relax. HIV symptoms often include fever, tiredness, and swollen glands. Practicing safe sex and avoiding shared needles prevents HIV transmission.
Answered on 17th July '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan
I am feeling fatique .. being a male i had sex with my brother around 45 days ago Imy brother has tested negative hiv and he has not sex with anyone else except me ..I have not tested myself what should I do now Problem I am facing fatique weakness loss of appetite .feeling thirsty all time ... He has been tested with finger prick method
Male | 24
These signs might be because of many things such as stress or bad eating habits. But don’t worry, your brother’s test result was negative which is good news but to ease your mind, you should also take an HIV test among others after discussing with a doctor about the issues at hand.
Answered on 28th Sept '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
I am facing continues clitoral erections from 3 4 days without other any symptoms what should I do???
Female | 18
Experiencing prolonged clitoral excitement without additional symptoms can be concerning but isn't uncommon. This could be due to various factors such as hormonal changes, heightened sensitivity, or stress. While it may resolve on its own, it's essential to prioritize your comfort. You might consider relaxation techniques or gentle self-care to alleviate any discomfort. However, if this situation persists or causes distress, reaching out to a sexologist is advisable. They can provide a thorough evaluation and offer personalized guidance.
Answered on 24th Jan '25

Dr. Madhu Sudan
I have an addiction of masturbation. Is there any medicine which can help me skip this addiction?
Male | 26
Answered on 16th Jan '25

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