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Male | 26

Difficulty with Erection During Intimacy

Hi, am Martin Mwila, am 26 years old and am a Zambian by nationality. My problem is I've never had sex with a woman before but last year I thought let me give it a try now I had to face this problem. Like the time I wanted to get intimate with my woman I couldn't get an erection at all. It happens that I can get an erection instantly when I don't have it in my mind that I will have sex with a woman for example when I'm maybe playing, touching or just talking with my woman I get an erection. But if I have intentions of having sex I don't get an erection. Please help me it's causing me to worry and feel depressed.

Answered on 2nd Aug '24

You're­ dealing with performance anxie­ty. This causes difficulties getting or ke­eping an erection during se­x due to stress or pressure­. To help, talk openly with your partner about your fe­elings. Practice relaxation me­thods like deep bre­athing exercises. The­rapy or counseling can teach technique­s to manage anxiety too. 

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Questions & Answers on "Sexology Treatment" (654)

I am a 29 year old male facing premature ejaculation since 6 years. Recently i undergone few tests to find out that my testosterone levels are more than 900 but still facing the problem. I want to know the reason for the problem and how do i overcome it

Male | 29

Premature ejaculation is when a person buddies are in bed. High testosterone rates can still cause it, even though the rarity of the condition. The common causes are stress, anxiety, and relationship problems. To the overcoming, try out breathing methods, therapy, and sensitizing methods. Consulting a sex therapist may also help. 

Answered on 18th Sept '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Dr. Madhu Sudan

I have cerebral palsy, when I touch myself of engage in intercourse I cannot feel any pleasure however I can feel the action it’s like putting my finger in my mouth

Female | 18

This may have occurred because the man's brain processes pleasure signals differently due to cerebral palsy. It is essential to discuss all these feelings with your healthcare provider, as he can give you support, guidance, and if necessary, treatment options that are specifically directed to your case. The objective is to assist you in experiencing pleasure and enhancing your overall health.

Answered on 5th Dec '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Dr. Madhu Sudan

After taking medication for three to four months, I frequently have penile rashes, which go away and then return. Some flesh had a covering of dead skin like wounds this time around. could you please suggest me a better treatment where my condition would be completely cured.

Male | 27

Many times when it is borderline phimosis… Then during intercourse if you use proper lubricants like, lubic jelly, k-y jelly or any other jelly or oil etc. for both of you then many times there is no pain or tear of the foreskin and you can have painless intercourse.
But sometimes if the partner's vagina is very tight or dry then you may face problem.
So first you try the above said lubricants if your problem is not solved then you must consult a General Surgeon,
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Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Arun Kumar

Dr. Arun Kumar

Hi, I'm a 23 year old male. My body is too sensitive during sexual activities and makes me ejaculate too quick sometimes less than a min or even 1min which has cause misunderstanding between I and my partner. What can I do?

Male | 23

Are you experiencing premature ejaculation, where the release happens too quickly during sexual intercourse? This is quite common among young men. Stress, anxiety, or even excessive excitement could be the cause. To help delay the process, try techniques like taking deep breaths or focusing on relaxing thoughts. You can also consider consulting a therapist or counselor for additional support.

Answered on 14th Oct '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Dr. Madhu Sudan

mustrubation and watching porn

Male | 20

It is appropriate for grown-ups to masturbate and watch porn, but excessively doing so can lead to problems such as fatigue, insomnia, and lack of concentration. Be curious but remember doing other things is just as important. Check yourself on the number of times you are involved in these things. Seek assistance from a confidant if these habits start hindering your normal life or relationships.

Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam

2 weeks back me and my wife were sexually active. I did not enter her and i did not ejaculate next to her vagina. but she had rubbed her vagina on my penis for 10mins during the activity. Will the pre ejaculation fluid from my penis around her vagina (not much at the entrance) get her pregnant? Its been 2 weeks and she has not had any symptoms but her periods have been delayed for almost a week. Should i be concerned?

Male | 25

The risk of pregnancy from pre-ejaculation fluid outside the vagina is very low (but not impossible). The sky-high record for the lower cases of late periods your wife is facing could be of various reasons like mental stress, hormonal imbalance, or many other factors. Diving this into a regression, I recommend a pregnancy test to take a break from the worries. Be sure to use contraception methods in the future to avoid any troubles.

Answered on 4th Nov '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Dr. Madhu Sudan

I had unprotected sex with a girl in the morning, then I bought her the morning after pill and after 2 hours we had another unprotected sex that I also do not trust. So my question is should i buy another morning after pill for her to drink within 72 hours or the first pill will work for even the second unprotected sex?

Female | 19

Morning after pill e­ffectiveness is highe­st when taken within 72 hours of unsafe se­x. After that time period, it may not work. For the­ second instance of unsafe se­x, get another morning after pill. Don't re­ly on protection from the previous pill. Use­ protection every time­ to prevent pregnancy and stop se­xually transmitted infections.

Answered on 1st Aug '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Dr. Madhu Sudan

I have issue with my penius size and when I had sex with my partner I can't last long for few months I don't know what happened to me I want perfect Dr for that n no addict medicines any solution??

Male | 33

Such problems may result from different things such as stress, anxiety, or certain medical conditions. Take good care of yourself by getting enough sleep, eating healthy foods, and engaging in physical exercises regularly. Besides, try to open up with your spouse about this matter and at the same time practice some relaxation methods together. 

Answered on 12th June '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam

Having problem staying hard for long

Male | 26

ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION causes vary, including ANXIETY, DEPRESSION, STRESS, and poor LIFESTYLE.... REGULAR EXERCISE, HEALTHY DIET, and GOOD SLEEP can help... SMOKING and excessive DRINKING can affect sexual performance... TALK to your DOCTOR for medication options...

Answered on 23rd Aug '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Is there any problem to mastribute twice a week

Male | 18

Once or twice­ weekly self-gratification is typical and ge­nerally harmless. Mild temporary discomfort or re­dness may occur, though rare. Using lubricant can reduce­ friction if pain arises. However, consult pare­nts or trusted adults if experie­ncing abnormal pain, discomfort, or genital changes. 

Answered on 16th Oct '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Hello i am 26 years old year and galf ago i got fat i am now around 120kg but i excersise i still got stomach not to much for my hight 193 cm since i got fat my balls doesnt hang anymore as they used to hang they are always more close to the body even in warm temperatures they rarely get that loose like they used to be before i got this big i am no fat fat but more bodybulder fat i never used any medications or supstances what is happening is this normal?

Male | 26

Seems normal... still more information is needed to help you with suitable solutions... 

Get yourself evaluated for best advice.. 

Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Arun Kumar

Dr. Arun Kumar

I'm a 21 year old male l had oral sex with my girl friend and after 2 days l started having flue like symptoms and my lip has swollen also my penis is having red pimples on it

Male | 21

It sounds like you may have caught a virus called herpes. Herpes can cause flu-like symptoms, swollen lips, and red pimples on the penis. It is usually spread through sexual contact. To help with the symptoms, you can take pain relievers and use cold packs on your lip. Make sure to talk to your girlfriend so she can get checked too.

Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Dr. Madhu Sudan

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