Male | 26
Difficulty with Erection During Intimacy
Hi, am Martin Mwila, am 26 years old and am a Zambian by nationality. My problem is I've never had sex with a woman before but last year I thought let me give it a try now I had to face this problem. Like the time I wanted to get intimate with my woman I couldn't get an erection at all. It happens that I can get an erection instantly when I don't have it in my mind that I will have sex with a woman for example when I'm maybe playing, touching or just talking with my woman I get an erection. But if I have intentions of having sex I don't get an erection. Please help me it's causing me to worry and feel depressed.
Sexologist
Answered on 2nd Aug '24
You're dealing with performance anxiety. This causes difficulties getting or keeping an erection during sex due to stress or pressure. To help, talk openly with your partner about your feelings. Practice relaxation methods like deep breathing exercises. Therapy or counseling can teach techniques to manage anxiety too.
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Questions & Answers on "Sexology Treatment" (654)
I am a 29 year old male facing premature ejaculation since 6 years. Recently i undergone few tests to find out that my testosterone levels are more than 900 but still facing the problem. I want to know the reason for the problem and how do i overcome it
Male | 29
Premature ejaculation is when a person buddies are in bed. High testosterone rates can still cause it, even though the rarity of the condition. The common causes are stress, anxiety, and relationship problems. To the overcoming, try out breathing methods, therapy, and sensitizing methods. Consulting a sex therapist may also help.
Answered on 18th Sept '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
I have cerebral palsy, when I touch myself of engage in intercourse I cannot feel any pleasure however I can feel the action it’s like putting my finger in my mouth
Female | 18
This may have occurred because the man's brain processes pleasure signals differently due to cerebral palsy. It is essential to discuss all these feelings with your healthcare provider, as he can give you support, guidance, and if necessary, treatment options that are specifically directed to your case. The objective is to assist you in experiencing pleasure and enhancing your overall health.
Answered on 5th Dec '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
After taking medication for three to four months, I frequently have penile rashes, which go away and then return. Some flesh had a covering of dead skin like wounds this time around. could you please suggest me a better treatment where my condition would be completely cured.
Male | 27
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Arun Kumar
Hi, I'm a 23 year old male. My body is too sensitive during sexual activities and makes me ejaculate too quick sometimes less than a min or even 1min which has cause misunderstanding between I and my partner. What can I do?
Male | 23
Are you experiencing premature ejaculation, where the release happens too quickly during sexual intercourse? This is quite common among young men. Stress, anxiety, or even excessive excitement could be the cause. To help delay the process, try techniques like taking deep breaths or focusing on relaxing thoughts. You can also consider consulting a therapist or counselor for additional support.
Answered on 14th Oct '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
I am having problem of premature ejaculation
Male | 47
Some common examples of the problems may include anxiety, relationship difficulties, or hormonal imbalance. To manage this fear, first, you need to try relaxation techniques, followed by talking clearly with your partner and coming up with behavior methods like the "start-stop" technique. Besides, specific exercises give you the power you need. Even though this method has shown effectiveness, I still advise you to consult a sexologist and receive personalized advice and possible treatments.
Answered on 19th Dec '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
mustrubation and watching porn
Male | 20
It is appropriate for grown-ups to masturbate and watch porn, but excessively doing so can lead to problems such as fatigue, insomnia, and lack of concentration. Be curious but remember doing other things is just as important. Check yourself on the number of times you are involved in these things. Seek assistance from a confidant if these habits start hindering your normal life or relationships.
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
2 weeks back me and my wife were sexually active. I did not enter her and i did not ejaculate next to her vagina. but she had rubbed her vagina on my penis for 10mins during the activity. Will the pre ejaculation fluid from my penis around her vagina (not much at the entrance) get her pregnant? Its been 2 weeks and she has not had any symptoms but her periods have been delayed for almost a week. Should i be concerned?
Male | 25
The risk of pregnancy from pre-ejaculation fluid outside the vagina is very low (but not impossible). The sky-high record for the lower cases of late periods your wife is facing could be of various reasons like mental stress, hormonal imbalance, or many other factors. Diving this into a regression, I recommend a pregnancy test to take a break from the worries. Be sure to use contraception methods in the future to avoid any troubles.
Answered on 4th Nov '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
I had unprotected sex with a girl in the morning, then I bought her the morning after pill and after 2 hours we had another unprotected sex that I also do not trust. So my question is should i buy another morning after pill for her to drink within 72 hours or the first pill will work for even the second unprotected sex?
Female | 19
Morning after pill effectiveness is highest when taken within 72 hours of unsafe sex. After that time period, it may not work. For the second instance of unsafe sex, get another morning after pill. Don't rely on protection from the previous pill. Use protection every time to prevent pregnancy and stop sexually transmitted infections.
Answered on 1st Aug '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Sex issue of my husband -need male infertility treatment, erection dysfunctional treatment.
Female | 39
Your husband struggles with infertility and erectile dysfunction. Infertility could stem from low sperm count or poor quality. This makes conceiving challenging. Erectile issues may arise from stress, health conditions, or medications. To address these concerns, your husband should consult a sexologist. The doctor can recommend treatments like medication, lifestyle modifications, or alternative options.
Answered on 30th July '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
Postimor effective if taken today 11am but had unprotected sex some hours ago 9:00 will it still work or do i have to take another an how many times for a year can females use postinor?
Female | 26
Postinor's priority is the quickest the better. You can still take the doctor-prescribed pill even though it was not taken the hour prior but you can still get another pill just to be extra sure. Women are not permitted to use Postinor more than once every month. It is important to note that Postinor is an emergency contraceptive and should not be used as a regular storage of drugs. If any discomforts occur or strange symptoms show up, a sexologist must be consulted.
Answered on 10th Oct '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Unable have sex, no straight, need viagra, need doctor check
Male | 45
Experiencing sexual difficulties despite lacking attraction to the opposite gender can occur for many reasons. Stress or medical conditions may contribute. Before considering Viagra, it's crucial to consult a doctor for safety evaluation. Discussing your circumstances with a sexologist is recommended. They can explore suitable options to address your concerns and promote well-being.
Answered on 25th July '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
I have issue with my penius size and when I had sex with my partner I can't last long for few months I don't know what happened to me I want perfect Dr for that n no addict medicines any solution??
Male | 33
Such problems may result from different things such as stress, anxiety, or certain medical conditions. Take good care of yourself by getting enough sleep, eating healthy foods, and engaging in physical exercises regularly. Besides, try to open up with your spouse about this matter and at the same time practice some relaxation methods together.
Answered on 12th June '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
Having problem staying hard for long
Male | 26
ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION causes vary, including ANXIETY, DEPRESSION, STRESS, and poor LIFESTYLE.... REGULAR EXERCISE, HEALTHY DIET, and GOOD SLEEP can help... SMOKING and excessive DRINKING can affect sexual performance... TALK to your DOCTOR for medication options...
Answered on 23rd Aug '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Is there any problem to mastribute twice a week
Male | 18
Once or twice weekly self-gratification is typical and generally harmless. Mild temporary discomfort or redness may occur, though rare. Using lubricant can reduce friction if pain arises. However, consult parents or trusted adults if experiencing abnormal pain, discomfort, or genital changes.
Answered on 16th Oct '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Can sperm pass through a jean trousers
Female | 19
Jeans will not prevent sperm from going through. They are too small and must be let out into the female body to get to an egg. If you see moisture stains on your pants, it is most likely sweat or some other bodily fluid. Talk to a gynecologist if you have concerns about fertility or other related issues.
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Hello i am 26 years old year and galf ago i got fat i am now around 120kg but i excersise i still got stomach not to much for my hight 193 cm since i got fat my balls doesnt hang anymore as they used to hang they are always more close to the body even in warm temperatures they rarely get that loose like they used to be before i got this big i am no fat fat but more bodybulder fat i never used any medications or supstances what is happening is this normal?
Male | 26
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Arun Kumar
Hi, my penis is starting to retract and don't know why , I am just over 5 inches erect so apparently it's not a micro penis, but is barely visible flaccid?
Male | 45
There is a possibility that you may have a condition known as 'penis retraction'. This happens when the penis gets smaller and is not easily seen. One of the common causes is anxiety, stress, or cold temperatures. It is also important to check if there are any other medical reasons like Peyronie’s disease behind this problem. You can calm down, keep yourself warm, and see a urologist if it does not go away.
Answered on 6th June '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
I'm a 21 year old male l had oral sex with my girl friend and after 2 days l started having flue like symptoms and my lip has swollen also my penis is having red pimples on it
Male | 21
It sounds like you may have caught a virus called herpes. Herpes can cause flu-like symptoms, swollen lips, and red pimples on the penis. It is usually spread through sexual contact. To help with the symptoms, you can take pain relievers and use cold packs on your lip. Make sure to talk to your girlfriend so she can get checked too.
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
I am married for 10 years. I can't give more than 1 minute to my wife. I masturbate a lot before marriage and do a lot of drugs and take a lot of sex stimulants. But the problem is only getting worse.
Male | 31
It sounds like you are dealing with some sexual performance and intimacy problems, brought about by stress, among other things, even the use of psychoactive substances, and the possible reliance on prescribed medication. These effects may result in a decreased ability to establish long-lasting relationships. You should talk frankly with your partner about your feelings and issues. Decrease drug utilization and getting a personal consultation
might be suitable approaches. A sexologist might give you some helpful treatment options or it could be some other type of therapy that could work.
Answered on 17th Dec '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
i had unprotected sex 2 days after my partner took plan b (escapelle) does she need to take it again? Is there a risk of her getting pregnant?
Other | 19
If you had unprotected sex two days after your partner took Plan B (Escapelle), she generally does not need to take it again. Plan B can be effective if taken within 72 hours after unprotected sex. However, there is still a small risk of pregnancy. For personalized advice, please consult a gynecologist.
Answered on 21st June '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
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