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Other | 29

Why Do I Feel No Pleasure During Sex?

I'm 29 years old and my last relationship before this one, well I wouldn't call it a relationship was 6 years ago. In this time I've not been sequel active whatsoever. Recently I got something going on but it's completely frustrating. While being sexually active I do feel anything, no feeling at all. I'm horny and all but I don't feel pleasure at all.this makes me last more than an hour which makes the girl tired and me frustrated pretty bad.

Answered on 17th Dec '24

It seems that you are grappling with a lack of pleasure during intimacy, which can be very irritating. This might be caused by several factors such as bodily, psychological, or emotional factors. Pressure, nervousness, or even hormonal shifts might be the origin of this feeling. It is very important to be open with your partner and to look for other ways to get closer. Releasing the tension techniques and emotional closure can cause this. Nevertheless, I suggest you consult a sexologist if this persists. They can appraise your situation in its entirety and offer you solutions that fit just for you. It is good to know that there are others in a similar predicament and that help is there.

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Questions & Answers on "Sexology Treatment" (762)

I am having anxiety since 8 months, I am doing excessive masturbation since many years... I thing my anxiety is due to this. I have social anxiety....my brain gets too much pain and feels like blood is rushing in head due to anxiety in social places and travel

Male | 22

To begin with, over-masturbation does not bring about anxiety. Social anxiety you have can make you feel anxious when interacting with people in various environments. Signs include thoughts that won't get out of the head and head pain. Tension or genetics can be the factors. You could give deep breathing practices a shot or get some counseling. Always keep in mind that these emotions are usual and that they can be managed with encouragement and different techniques.

Answered on 30th Dec '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Hi, I think was exposed to HIV after having unprotected sex on th 8th July. I took a rapid test on the 18th July and it came out negative. What should I do?

Male | 32

If one suspects to have been exposed to HIV, a regular test is one of the vital things to do. There are cases where the virus needs some time to be discovered during tests. HIV symptoms are different for example vomiting, fatigue, and enlarged glands (lymph nodes). The simple statement that must be kept in mind is that using a protector for the services is the one and that is the first option. In case of any issue, do not forget to consult a doctor. 

Answered on 22nd July '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam

Namste mam and sir ,,, please,, nightfall ke samsya se bahut pareshan hu please mera nightfall kaise rukega please help me doctor

Male | 18

Nightfall is when you masturbate while sleeping. Moreover, it is quite common among teenagers in particular. Nevertheless, it can be either stress, joy, or not having an ejaculation. Make sure you are deeply focused on the deep breathing exercise. Talking to a doctor who can guide you is also helpful. 

Answered on 2nd July '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam

masturbation sex and all how to masturbate

Male | 21

Masturbation is an ordinary sexual activity that many people do. It is good for finding relaxation, discovering the body, joy, or pleasure. As regards to this practice, there are no typical signs and if you experience discomfort, anxiety, or guilt, it may be beneficial to contemplate your feelings. In order to be comfortable doing it you may want to consider paying more attention to the atmosphere and use lube to slip in and out easier. A respectful relationship that is based on the consent of both people and what they are comfortable with is a good practice to employ. In case you are worried about your sexual health or emotional well-being, please contact a healthcare provider who will give you the advice that is tailored to your situation. Keep in mind that sex and health are very important topics to be discussed openly for the wellness of the body.

Answered on 17th Dec '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Suffering from low libido

Male | 24

Having a low sex drive is common, meaning you don’t feel like having sex often. Signs include not feeling excited about intimacy and rarely thinking about it. Stress, being tired, and hormone changes can cause this. To help, try to relax, get enough rest, talk with your partner, and seek counseling if needed.

Answered on 15th Oct '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam

Dear Doctor, I hope this message finds you well. I am reaching out to discuss some concerns that have been affecting my mental and sexual health, specifically related to my use of pornography and its broader impact on my life. I am a male, 26/27 years old. No health issues. I've noticed that my consumption of pornography and engagement in cybersex have escalated to a point where they negatively affect my life and relationships. My need for increasingly explicit material to achieve sexual arousal has grown over the years (a phenomenon called "Desensitization" i believe), and it's become apparent that this pattern is not sustainable. I've observed that this habit has not only affected my ability to enjoy real-life sexual encounters but has also contributed to the deterioration of my previous relationship. At times, I had found myself needing to think of pornography to maintain an erection during sexual intercourse. In an attempt to address this, I've tried to quit watching porn, only to experience a significant drop in my libido and desire for sexual activity. This "flat line" phase, as it's often referred to in various forums, has left me feeling worried and uncertain about the path forward. Of course, i started watching again, just to make sure that everything is normal. The first couple of times, the erections were weaker than usual. I understand that the body of scientific research in this area is still evolving, and there seems to be a lack of definitive guidance on dealing with these challenges. Given these complexities, I'm seeking your professional advice on several fronts: 1- Is the "flat line" phase a recognized scientific phenomenon, and what does current research say about it? 2- Considering my concerns about the long-term effects of abstaining from pornography and reduced masturbation, what guidance can you provide? I'm particularly worried about maintaining sexual function, including erectile strength and ejaculation control. 3-Could you suggest any scientific, medical research articles or resources that could offer more insight into these issues? Your expertise and any evidence-based recommendations would be immensely valuable to me as I consider my next steps. Many thanks for your time and consideration. Kind regards,

Male | 26

It is crucial to realize that gaining an excessive amount of pornography and cyberspace ultimately results in being desensitized, and it has a negative impact on sexual encounters with real living partners and relationships.

The "flat line" effect, that you brought up, is also a commonly displayed problem where former porn addicts may experience a drop in their sex drive and arousal. But for now, the findings are not substantial, more studies are required to distinguish porn effect on sexual function from its own.

With regard to facilitation, many people have found it immensely helpful to consult a professional mental health care provider, such as a therapist or a counselor, and avail their expert help in dealing with this problem and addressing any underlying psychological factors. A sex therapist may possess skills in counseling individuals with sexual dysfunction or enhancing sexual functions.

Your well-being is of top concern and seeking the help of a mental and sexual health specialist can provide you with the needed information when making a decision about your next step. In this connection, I suggest you talk to a psychologist or sex therapist, whose main professional concern is the issues you are experiencing, for more help and support.

Best regards,
Dr. Madhu Sudan
 

Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Me and my boyfriend made out 2 weeks before. I had my underwear and pants on throughout the dry humping,rubbing,sex motion process and my boyfriend was also in his underwear and he was on the top of me. We were very close to each other throughout and even sat on his lap. Pregnancy possible like this

Female | 20

It's very doubtful that pregnancy may occur in this way as you described. Pregnancy occurs when sperm fertilizes an egg, and usually requires direct contact. However, the way you illustrated it is not the usual way of getting pregnant. Should you be anxious, listen to your body. Check for common symptoms such as missed periods, vomiting, or breast tenderness. If this is the case, then take a pregnancy test to calm your anxiety.

Answered on 30th Sept '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Does masturbation causes following problem? Will I face it if I've been frequently masturbating since 13 and now I'm 23 year old? I read this in some article that said - "The prostate is a gland located exactly in the neck of the bladder, it secretes a whitish and viscous liquid that serves as a vehicle for sperm. This gland normally completes its development by the age of 21. When a young man masturbates before completing his development (21 years), the prostate atrophies, causing prostatitis after the age of 40, which is the enlargement of this gland that prevents him from urinating and he has to use the probe to do so. Later they have to operate and remove this gland." Should I worry? Please tell me.

Male | 23

Excessive masturbation do cause many harmful problem... but worrying about it wouldn't help... 

Masturbation is a natural phenomenon. All men do this but as a natural principle… excess of everything is always bad, so you must try to control it.
Don't do it more than once or twice in a month.
Don't worry you can do that... just do not watch porn… Try not to be remain alone, don't read or view sexual literature, books, whatsApp & porn videos etc.
Avoid oily, more spicy, Chilly and junk foods.
Do exercise daily for one hr or yoga mainly Pranayam… Meditation… vajroli Mudra... Ashwini mudra. Start reading religious books.
Please note that now a days the main drawback and side effect of the masturbation is once you are addicted to masturbation mostly and always by watching porn… where you get different type of stories... relations... girls… body... and styles... etc.
Once u got married u don't get all those things with wife so u don't get aroused and you don't get proper erection.
Now a day's mostly patients comes to us with the complaint that they are not able to get erection with wife in the bed but they are getting erection in the bathroom while masturbation.
This is creating a lot of problem in their married life so my advice is to control it. If u are not able to do so then you must consult your family doctor, many times it's not possible to control without the help of your doctor.
You can take Chandra kala ras 1 tablet morning and night after food
Yastimadhu chuma 3gms morning and night with water
Sidhamakara dwaja 1 tablet morning and night after food.
Do all the above suggested treatment for 3 months and see the results.
If you don" get satisfactory results then you can also contact me on my private chat or directly in my clinic. We can send you the medicines by courier.
My website www.kayakalpinternational.com

Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Arun Kumar

Dr. Arun Kumar

سؤالي هو هل اذا تحولت من ذكر الى انثى جنسيا واجريت جراحه لذالك هل بعد التعافي والبدأ في ممارسه الجنس هل سأستمتع كما تتمتع النساء العاديات في الجنس ام الامر مختلف

ذكر | 19

If a person goe­s from male to female and has surge­ry, it is important to know that each person's expe­rience with sex is diffe­rent. After healing, it is possible­ to enjoy sex like othe­r women, but it may feel ne­w. Some may feel le­ss sensitive or differe­nt feelings. It is good to talk openly with your partne­r and explore what fee­ls nice for you. 

Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Iam married since 2 months and I still Virgin when we try do the inter course it hurts me too much si whats the solution

Female | 28

Pain is generally felt by womens when they are having first sexual experience, and one possible cause is they are too tensed, they are not yet excited enough, or the tension in the pelvic muscles. To make yourself comfortable and calm, you should do physical movements and practice relaxation techniques. Another thing that is very important is to have an open conversation with your partner and take some time to discover intimacy that is not solely about penetration. If the pain persists, it’s really important that you go and consult a healthcare professional. They can give you their thoughts specifically for your case and thus, should you have them, will be introducing you to such issues that need to be focused on.

Answered on 19th Dec '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Dr. Madhu Sudan

My new girl tested for hsv2 igg. Her result was negative 8.0u/ml. Under 20 is negative. When i tested myself, my results always under 4.5. She had an oral outbreak in the moment of testing from hsv1. Could it affect her hsv2 result? https://ibb.co/sjfCf9N . Can we safely have sex? I'm worried about that 8 number although is in negative range.

Female | 36

It is recommended that you consult a specialist to clarify these issues. There is an oral lesion from HSV-1 upcoming, so it could affect the HSV-2 test results. I will advise going to a doctor who deals with sexually transmitted diseases for an accurate image.

Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam

Dr. Inderjeet Gautam

Im a 32-year-old male and having this problem for about a week now it happens every night. But right now my dick has been hard for over 5 hours I can't seem to make myself cum and I don't know what's wrong with me?

Male | 32

There can be many possibilities for the problem.. get yourself evaluated for best advice

Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Arun Kumar

Dr. Arun Kumar

I have pain in penis and it seems that there is internal swelling and itching in my penis . I also feel heatness in this. I have also less interest in sex and pre mature iruption. Please suggest medicine.

Male | 45

There can be many possibilities for the problem.. get yourself evaluated for best advice.. 

I am suggesting you some ayurvedic medicines.

Take Aswagandhadi churan half teaspoon in the morning & in the night.

Take Capsule SHILAJIT one in the morning and one in the night,

Take tablet manmath Ras one in the morning and one in the night.

Take tablet Pushp dhanva Ras one in the morning and one in the night. And take tablet Sidh makardhwaj Vati with gold, one in the morning and one in the night after food.

All the above preferably with hot milk or with water

Also apply and message Shri Gopal tail on your penis three times a week for 2 to 4 minutes.

Avoid junk food, oily and spicier food, alcohol, tobacco, tension and anxiety.

Start doing brisk walk or running or cardio exercises for at least 30 min a day. Start doing yoga, pranayama, meditation, Vajroli mudra. Ashwini mudra, kegel exercise for at least 30 min a day.

Start taking hot milk twice a day.

2-3 dates in the morning and in the night with milk.

Do all the above suggested treatment for 3 months and see the results.

If you don't get satisfactory results then please go to your family doctor or a good sexologist.

You can also contact me on my private chat or directly in my clinic. We can send you the medicines by courier.

My website: www.kavakalpinternational.com

Answered on 9th July '24

Dr. Arun Kumar

Dr. Arun Kumar

Hi I have a tiny penis and I don't get erection properly and I ejaculated in flaccid penis also and I have anxiety issues what should I do

Male | 26

Size of penis is not important for satisfactory sexual relationships.

For this one should have a good hardness in the penis & should take sufficient time before discharge.

So please forget about increase in size of penis.
your problem of erectile dysfunction most commonly occur in ages of men: fortunately it has high recovery rate of 90% through ayurvedic medications.

I am explaining briefly about erectile dysfunction so that it takes fear out of you.

In erectile dysfunction, men are not able to get or keep an erection that is sufficient to have penetrative sex. This may be due to so many factors like High cholesterol, High blood pressure, Diabetes, excessive masturbation, excessive Porn watching, nerves weakness, Obesity, thyroid, heart problem, alcohol, Tobacco use, Sleep disorders. Low testosterone, tension, stress etc.,

This problem of erectile dysfunction is very much treatable.

I am suggesting you some ayurvedic medicines,
Take Aswagandhadi churan half teaspoon in the morning & in the night.

Take Capsule SHILAJIT One in the morning and one in the night.

Take tablet Brihat Bangeshwar ras one in the morning one and one in the night after food.

All three preferably with hot milk or with water

Also apply and message Shri Gopal tail on your penis three times a week for 2 to 4 minutes.

Avoid junk food, oily and more spicy food, alcohol, tobacco, tension and anxiety.

Start doing brisk walk or running or cardio exercises for at least 1 hour a day.

Start taking hot milk twice a day also two to three dates in the morning and in the night with milk.

Do all the above suggested treatment for 3 months and see the results.

If you don't get satisfactory results then please go to your family doctor or a good sexologist.

You can also contact me on my private chat or directly in my clinic. We can send you the medicines by courier.

My website: www.kayakalpinternational.com


Answered on 23rd May '24

Dr. Arun Kumar

Dr. Arun Kumar

Hii ma'am sir I am using paurush jiwan long time I m tense is good ya not because I m addict I m using long 1.5 year I'll used but I m using only one pil tell me sir ma'am is good ya not

Male | 23

When using Paurush Jiwan for a long time, it's important to consider if it may produce side effects. Feeling tense can be a sign of addiction. It is harmful and may cause health problems. It's best to stop using it and consult a doctor for advice on health promotion.

Answered on 14th June '24

Dr. Madhu Sudan

Dr. Madhu Sudan

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