Other | 29
Why Do I Feel No Pleasure During Sex?
I'm 29 years old and my last relationship before this one, well I wouldn't call it a relationship was 6 years ago. In this time I've not been sequel active whatsoever. Recently I got something going on but it's completely frustrating. While being sexually active I do feel anything, no feeling at all. I'm horny and all but I don't feel pleasure at all.this makes me last more than an hour which makes the girl tired and me frustrated pretty bad.
Sexologist
Answered on 17th Dec '24
It seems that you are grappling with a lack of pleasure during intimacy, which can be very irritating. This might be caused by several factors such as bodily, psychological, or emotional factors. Pressure, nervousness, or even hormonal shifts might be the origin of this feeling. It is very important to be open with your partner and to look for other ways to get closer. Releasing the tension techniques and emotional closure can cause this. Nevertheless, I suggest you consult a sexologist if this persists. They can appraise your situation in its entirety and offer you solutions that fit just for you. It is good to know that there are others in a similar predicament and that help is there.
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Questions & Answers on "Sexology Treatment" (762)
I am having anxiety since 8 months, I am doing excessive masturbation since many years... I thing my anxiety is due to this. I have social anxiety....my brain gets too much pain and feels like blood is rushing in head due to anxiety in social places and travel
Male | 22
To begin with, over-masturbation does not bring about anxiety. Social anxiety you have can make you feel anxious when interacting with people in various environments. Signs include thoughts that won't get out of the head and head pain. Tension or genetics can be the factors. You could give deep breathing practices a shot or get some counseling. Always keep in mind that these emotions are usual and that they can be managed with encouragement and different techniques.
Answered on 30th Dec '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
He cums in between my thighs and hand without any direct contact by rubbing his dick in my thigh. I immediately wipe it out and washed it off but my vagina secret some fluid too . After that I took levenogestrel within 24 hours but it was 3 days before my expected ovulation day. Is there any risk of pregnancy
Female | 24
According to your account, the chances of pregnancy are meager, apparently you have taken the emergency contraception on time. Levonorgestrel-type emergency contraceptive pills are most successful if you receive them in the first 72 hours after having unprotected sex. Having been so near the time when you were supposed to release the egg, the preventive action you took by default stands a good chance of succeeding. It is very important to look out for any pain. If you are worried or you notice some changes in your body that are not typical, talk to a sexologist who can provide you with custom-made advice and help you feel secure.
Answered on 6th Jan '25
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Hi, I think was exposed to HIV after having unprotected sex on th 8th July. I took a rapid test on the 18th July and it came out negative. What should I do?
Male | 32
If one suspects to have been exposed to HIV, a regular test is one of the vital things to do. There are cases where the virus needs some time to be discovered during tests. HIV symptoms are different for example vomiting, fatigue, and enlarged glands (lymph nodes). The simple statement that must be kept in mind is that using a protector for the services is the one and that is the first option. In case of any issue, do not forget to consult a doctor.
Answered on 22nd July '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
Namste mam and sir ,,, please,, nightfall ke samsya se bahut pareshan hu please mera nightfall kaise rukega please help me doctor
Male | 18
Nightfall is when you masturbate while sleeping. Moreover, it is quite common among teenagers in particular. Nevertheless, it can be either stress, joy, or not having an ejaculation. Make sure you are deeply focused on the deep breathing exercise. Talking to a doctor who can guide you is also helpful.
Answered on 2nd July '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
masturbation sex and all how to masturbate
Male | 21
Masturbation is an ordinary sexual activity that many people do. It is good for finding relaxation, discovering the body, joy, or pleasure. As regards to this practice, there are no typical signs and if you experience discomfort, anxiety, or guilt, it may be beneficial to contemplate your feelings. In order to be comfortable doing it you may want to consider paying more attention to the atmosphere and use lube to slip in and out easier. A respectful relationship that is based on the consent of both people and what they are comfortable with is a good practice to employ. In case you are worried about your sexual health or emotional well-being, please contact a healthcare provider who will give you the advice that is tailored to your situation. Keep in mind that sex and health are very important topics to be discussed openly for the wellness of the body.
Answered on 17th Dec '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Am unmarried 23 girl 6 months say mujy every months ma two times nightfall ho rhaa ha sometimes 3 times .ma kya kro yeh after marriage difficult ho gi ya weekness?? Mein koi movie ya dirty cheese bhi . nai deakti.is say sexual dysfunction toh nai ho ga?
Female | 23
Nightfall, or nocturnal emissions, is a common phenomenon, especially in young individuals. It usually occurs during sleep and is a normal part of sexual health. Causes can range from hormonal changes to sexual thoughts, even subconsciously. While experiencing this frequently can be concerning, it typically does not indicate any long-term issues or lead to sexual dysfunction. To manage this, practice relaxation techniques, maintain a balanced diet, and ensure good sleep hygiene. If anxiety persists, consider speaking with a sexologist for personalized advice.
Answered on 16th Jan '25
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Suffering from low libido
Male | 24
Having a low sex drive is common, meaning you don’t feel like having sex often. Signs include not feeling excited about intimacy and rarely thinking about it. Stress, being tired, and hormone changes can cause this. To help, try to relax, get enough rest, talk with your partner, and seek counseling if needed.
Answered on 15th Oct '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
Dear Doctor, I hope this message finds you well. I am reaching out to discuss some concerns that have been affecting my mental and sexual health, specifically related to my use of pornography and its broader impact on my life. I am a male, 26/27 years old. No health issues. I've noticed that my consumption of pornography and engagement in cybersex have escalated to a point where they negatively affect my life and relationships. My need for increasingly explicit material to achieve sexual arousal has grown over the years (a phenomenon called "Desensitization" i believe), and it's become apparent that this pattern is not sustainable. I've observed that this habit has not only affected my ability to enjoy real-life sexual encounters but has also contributed to the deterioration of my previous relationship. At times, I had found myself needing to think of pornography to maintain an erection during sexual intercourse. In an attempt to address this, I've tried to quit watching porn, only to experience a significant drop in my libido and desire for sexual activity. This "flat line" phase, as it's often referred to in various forums, has left me feeling worried and uncertain about the path forward. Of course, i started watching again, just to make sure that everything is normal. The first couple of times, the erections were weaker than usual. I understand that the body of scientific research in this area is still evolving, and there seems to be a lack of definitive guidance on dealing with these challenges. Given these complexities, I'm seeking your professional advice on several fronts: 1- Is the "flat line" phase a recognized scientific phenomenon, and what does current research say about it? 2- Considering my concerns about the long-term effects of abstaining from pornography and reduced masturbation, what guidance can you provide? I'm particularly worried about maintaining sexual function, including erectile strength and ejaculation control. 3-Could you suggest any scientific, medical research articles or resources that could offer more insight into these issues? Your expertise and any evidence-based recommendations would be immensely valuable to me as I consider my next steps. Many thanks for your time and consideration. Kind regards,
Male | 26
It is crucial to realize that gaining an excessive amount of pornography and cyberspace ultimately results in being desensitized, and it has a negative impact on sexual encounters with real living partners and relationships.
The "flat line" effect, that you brought up, is also a commonly displayed problem where former porn addicts may experience a drop in their sex drive and arousal. But for now, the findings are not substantial, more studies are required to distinguish porn effect on sexual function from its own.
With regard to facilitation, many people have found it immensely helpful to consult a professional mental health care provider, such as a therapist or a counselor, and avail their expert help in dealing with this problem and addressing any underlying psychological factors. A sex therapist may possess skills in counseling individuals with sexual dysfunction or enhancing sexual functions.
Your well-being is of top concern and seeking the help of a mental and sexual health specialist can provide you with the needed information when making a decision about your next step. In this connection, I suggest you talk to a psychologist or sex therapist, whose main professional concern is the issues you are experiencing, for more help and support.
Best regards,
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Me and my boyfriend made out 2 weeks before. I had my underwear and pants on throughout the dry humping,rubbing,sex motion process and my boyfriend was also in his underwear and he was on the top of me. We were very close to each other throughout and even sat on his lap. Pregnancy possible like this
Female | 20
It's very doubtful that pregnancy may occur in this way as you described. Pregnancy occurs when sperm fertilizes an egg, and usually requires direct contact. However, the way you illustrated it is not the usual way of getting pregnant. Should you be anxious, listen to your body. Check for common symptoms such as missed periods, vomiting, or breast tenderness. If this is the case, then take a pregnancy test to calm your anxiety.
Answered on 30th Sept '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
I am 20 year old ,I am not having proper ejaculation, I don't feel to do it ,what can I do
Male | 20
Factors such as anxiety, hormonal imbalances, or even underlying health conditions are closely linked to the difficulties faced during ejaculation. It's vital that your tolerating these side effects of your illness is not turned into your feeling of fear and overall disappointment. Ways to improve any situation you find yourself in are reducing stress through relaxation techniques, living a healthy life, and finally having open communication with your partner. You may also consult a sexologist for proper advice.
Answered on 20th Dec '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Iam gril My age was 21 years but I don't have any sexual desire. And I can't masterbating any more . Because I don't have any sexual feelings. My body can't attempted those feelings why and my private part is so small. When insert finger then it's hurts. Why I don't have any sexual feelings?
Female | 21
I want you to know that it is completely normal to feel this way about sex at your age. what you have said suggests that you might be having a low sexual drive coupled with some discomfort. please understand that many things could lead to this including stress, hormonal imbalances or an underlying medical condition. speaking to a sexologist would be helpful for one to get an idea of what might be happening to them.
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Can intercrural sex cause pregnancy if I placed my hand Infront of the genital and if he cums on thigh 3 days before expected ovulation day
Female | 24
Intercrural sex typically involves genital contact without penetration, which significantly reduces the likelihood of pregnancy. If semen is deposited on the thigh and does not come into direct contact with the vaginal area, the chances are very low, even around ovulation. Symptoms of early pregnancy include missed periods or nausea. If you have concerns or notice unusual changes, it's wise to consult a sexologist for personalized advice and peace of mind.
Answered on 8th Jan '25
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Does masturbation causes following problem? Will I face it if I've been frequently masturbating since 13 and now I'm 23 year old? I read this in some article that said - "The prostate is a gland located exactly in the neck of the bladder, it secretes a whitish and viscous liquid that serves as a vehicle for sperm. This gland normally completes its development by the age of 21. When a young man masturbates before completing his development (21 years), the prostate atrophies, causing prostatitis after the age of 40, which is the enlargement of this gland that prevents him from urinating and he has to use the probe to do so. Later they have to operate and remove this gland." Should I worry? Please tell me.
Male | 23
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Arun Kumar
سؤالي هو هل اذا تحولت من ذكر الى انثى جنسيا واجريت جراحه لذالك هل بعد التعافي والبدأ في ممارسه الجنس هل سأستمتع كما تتمتع النساء العاديات في الجنس ام الامر مختلف
ذكر | 19
If a person goes from male to female and has surgery, it is important to know that each person's experience with sex is different. After healing, it is possible to enjoy sex like other women, but it may feel new. Some may feel less sensitive or different feelings. It is good to talk openly with your partner and explore what feels nice for you.
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
Iam married since 2 months and I still Virgin when we try do the inter course it hurts me too much si whats the solution
Female | 28
Pain is generally felt by womens when they are having first sexual experience, and one possible cause is they are too tensed, they are not yet excited enough, or the tension in the pelvic muscles. To make yourself comfortable and calm, you should do physical movements and practice relaxation techniques. Another thing that is very important is to have an open conversation with your partner and take some time to discover intimacy that is not solely about penetration. If the pain persists, it’s really important that you go and consult a healthcare professional. They can give you their thoughts specifically for your case and thus, should you have them, will be introducing you to such issues that need to be focused on.
Answered on 19th Dec '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
My new girl tested for hsv2 igg. Her result was negative 8.0u/ml. Under 20 is negative. When i tested myself, my results always under 4.5. She had an oral outbreak in the moment of testing from hsv1. Could it affect her hsv2 result? https://ibb.co/sjfCf9N . Can we safely have sex? I'm worried about that 8 number although is in negative range.
Female | 36
It is recommended that you consult a specialist to clarify these issues. There is an oral lesion from HSV-1 upcoming, so it could affect the HSV-2 test results. I will advise going to a doctor who deals with sexually transmitted diseases for an accurate image.
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Inderjeet Gautam
Im a 32-year-old male and having this problem for about a week now it happens every night. But right now my dick has been hard for over 5 hours I can't seem to make myself cum and I don't know what's wrong with me?
Male | 32
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Arun Kumar
I have pain in penis and it seems that there is internal swelling and itching in my penis . I also feel heatness in this. I have also less interest in sex and pre mature iruption. Please suggest medicine.
Male | 45
Answered on 9th July '24
Dr. Arun Kumar
Hi I have a tiny penis and I don't get erection properly and I ejaculated in flaccid penis also and I have anxiety issues what should I do
Male | 26
Answered on 23rd May '24
Dr. Arun Kumar
Hii ma'am sir I am using paurush jiwan long time I m tense is good ya not because I m addict I m using long 1.5 year I'll used but I m using only one pil tell me sir ma'am is good ya not
Male | 23
When using Paurush Jiwan for a long time, it's important to consider if it may produce side effects. Feeling tense can be a sign of addiction. It is harmful and may cause health problems. It's best to stop using it and consult a doctor for advice on health promotion.
Answered on 14th June '24
Dr. Madhu Sudan
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